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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey looking at going to quest tomorrow for the first time and wondered what people off in advice for first timers to calm the nerves down

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By *lipy123TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

Go expecting nothing to happen, Relax enjoy the experience of just being there and if something does happen it's a bonus.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands

There's not much you can do to calm your nerves other than walking in the door (certainly don't use drink for nerves). A member of staff will show you around and explain the rules. Have a walk around and say hello to people, some will be happy to chat some not so much.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Go expecting nothing to happen, Relax enjoy the experience of just being there and if something does happen it's a bonus."

Thank you I will expect that any way with this site haha

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"There's not much you can do to calm your nerves other than walking in the door (certainly don't use drink for nerves). A member of staff will show you around and explain the rules. Have a walk around and say hello to people, some will be happy to chat some not so much."

Thank you I’ll let you know if it was a good visit tomorrow

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Be open. Be brave. You have to be prepared to start a conversation. When you do chat to people say its your first visit. Don't expect anything to happen and then if anything does its great.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Be open. Be brave. You have to be prepared to start a conversation. When you do chat to people say its your first visit. Don't expect anything to happen and then if anything does its great. "

Thank you think I have to pull up my big boys pants and just take the jump

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By *xxx73Man
over a year ago

Basingstoke


"Be open. Be brave. You have to be prepared to start a conversation. When you do chat to people say its your first visit. Don't expect anything to happen and then if anything does its great.

Thank you think I have to pull up my big boys pants and just take the jump "

Mate your not on your own. I haven't put on my big boy pants yet either. And I'm sure there's couples out there that feel the same.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yeah I know what you mean I’m just going to do tomorrow evening im and just see how it goes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey looking at going to quest tomorrow for the first time and wondered what people off in advice for first timers to calm the nerves down "

Do you ask for advice before going to the pub?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey looking at going to quest tomorrow for the first time and wondered what people off in advice for first timers to calm the nerves down

Do you ask for advice before going to the pub?"

Depends what pub I go to

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Hey looking at going to quest tomorrow for the first time and wondered what people off in advice for first timers to calm the nerves down

Do you ask for advice before going to the pub?

Depends what pub I go to "

Plus, don't drink too much.

Always leads to worse nights.

Most nights I either drink none, or just a little to start with for courage.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey looking at going to quest tomorrow for the first time and wondered what people off in advice for first timers to calm the nerves down

Do you ask for advice before going to the pub?"

Exactly.

Expectations are causing your nerves.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Hey looking at going to quest tomorrow for the first time and wondered what people off in advice for first timers to calm the nerves down

Do you ask for advice before going to the pub?

Depends what pub I go to "

Sometimes I have to ask if gives white pointy hood vibes

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Hey looking at going to quest tomorrow for the first time and wondered what people off in advice for first timers to calm the nerves down

Do you ask for advice before going to the pub?

Depends what pub I go to

Plus, don't drink too much.

Always leads to worse nights.

Most nights I either drink none, or just a little to start with for courage. "

Yeah think I’ll just have a couple and it will be good just to have a social and meet like minded people

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire


"Be open. Be brave. You have to be prepared to start a conversation. When you do chat to people say its your first visit. Don't expect anything to happen and then if anything does its great.

Thank you think I have to pull up my big boys pants and just take the jump

Mate your not on your own. I haven't put on my big boy pants yet either. And I'm sure there's couples out there that feel the same."

As a couple we still find it tricky. Despite a few club visits. If they have an open area like a hot tub that cab be easier we found too. Depending on club

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick


"Be open. Be brave. You have to be prepared to start a conversation. When you do chat to people say its your first visit. Don't expect anything to happen and then if anything does its great.

Thank you think I have to pull up my big boys pants and just take the jump

Mate your not on your own. I haven't put on my big boy pants yet either. And I'm sure there's couples out there that feel the same.

As a couple we still find it tricky. Despite a few club visits. If they have an open area like a hot tub that cab be easier we found too. Depending on club "

And the smoking area.

I don't smoke, but go out there for the conversations.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Be open. Be brave. You have to be prepared to start a conversation. When you do chat to people say its your first visit. Don't expect anything to happen and then if anything does its great.

Thank you think I have to pull up my big boys pants and just take the jump

Mate your not on your own. I haven't put on my big boy pants yet either. And I'm sure there's couples out there that feel the same.

As a couple we still find it tricky. Despite a few club visits. If they have an open area like a hot tub that cab be easier we found too. Depending on club

And the smoking area.

I don't smoke, but go out there for the

conversations."

And if you don’t smoke take a lighter! Just be careful where you pull it out from if someone asks you for a light!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I’m going to quest this afternoon hopefully see you some of you there

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