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By *rhuges OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Anyone in to Sub Dom role play .Do you enjoy being the sub or Dom ?

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

We’ve had great meets where we play the dom&domme for a female submissive. We’ve always fancied putting ourselves into the hands of a domme to see how the tables are turned, but we’ve never had the opportunity.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm sub but only really submerged myself with someone I can really trust and knows what they are doing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've experience as a 'Pleasure Dom' but can take it or leave it.

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By *landfordfabbersCouple
over a year ago

Blandford ish

We used to live Ds, I’m very sub but only with mark and maybe people I knew well but not to strangers

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By *ee_Preston_NewTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

Sub/Dom is great with the right people. Being the submissive is my way, but the Dom needs to understand and respect that role, the boundaries and limits.....then the fun can commence..!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

D/s can be a extremely powerful and wondeful dynamic when done well

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By *ottsguy74Man
over a year ago

Nottingham

I play sub mainly but have been dom a couple of times. Great fun and always happy to repeat.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's great, I like playing Dom. As long as their is trust, it is a fantastic experience

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By *ee_Preston_NewTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

For the sub, I find it's the vulnerability and intensity of not knowing what's next, with a trustful and experienced Dom....

Anything within the limits and boundaries being the key....

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By *indMasterUKMan
over a year ago

All over England

D/s play is a level beyond vanilla sex..... subs can experience new sensations and emotions hightened by D/s play

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By *rhuges OP   Man
over a year ago

Cardiff

Counting up my sessions I've probably had around 25 22 as a sub 3 as a Dom.

Although I think of my self as naturally sub the two sessions that stand out for me are the ones were I was the Dom to sub ladies

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By *ee_Preston_NewTV/TS
over a year ago

Preston

That is probably where your true self lies then. I don't know many at all that truly understands and executes the Dom role....it all depends on the rules and the effort put in in both sides, I suppose...

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By *ensualMan
over a year ago

Sutton

I have to say this upfront the comments are my view. People are entitled to disagree and do kink their way. No criticism is being made, as people are entitled to their choices. I am just putting an alternate view.

I don't do roleplay.

There is a huge difference between: 1. roleplay, 2. topping and bottoming, and 3. being one's authentic self in D/S, and I don't mean the stereotype phrase of "naturally dominant/submissive". I am not sure which of the 3 above is actually meant when people say roleplay.

Unfortunately people talk about roleplay (which on Fab seems to be primarily based around ultimately having sex with "submissive women or dominant women"), but do not seem to understand the difference between topping and bottoming and being authentic to oneself in D/S.

I say authentic to oneself, because I don't believe in "one true way". But at the same time going around the local race track in a motorised go cart is not F1 motor racing. Similarly, in my view, roleplay is not D/s. To change the old phrase "roleplay uses the pstrich feather, D/S uses the ostrich"

Finding the right person is made difficult by the Internet providing the phrases for those who consider themselves dominant to use to when meeting people. When I read certain comments on Fab and FL, the comments look like the BDSM version of the Game.

So from my part, I dont do roleplay. I regularly top both in D/S and rope, however I would prefer a D/S relationship.

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By *iamo69Man
over a year ago

South

Currently a sub to my gf

We got a chasitity cage for a laugh

But after a week or two she asked me leave in on for a full day.that turned into 3 days.she then asked me if I want to enter an agreement with her that it stays on until she takes off

I agreed

Now I'm ordered do all the house work .or else it's a extra 3 days in cage.she wears the key on her neck

It's gone bit more serious now when she clicks her fingers I have to kneel until I'm told to get up.she now picks my clothes out everyday for me also.she said we can stop at any time but something about this is a turn on.been a sub is something I've never thought about

She asked me how far can she push it ..I told her as far as you want for now

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

Switch but prefer being the domme

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By *rConvenienceMan
over a year ago

WELSHPOOL

Love being sub as I'm always in charge in the real world. Hardly ever find someone dom though

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By *otfun75Man
over a year ago

leeds

Love been submissive always do as I’m told xxxx

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By *en30216Man
over a year ago

york

Dom

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By *rnyCpl45Couple
over a year ago

Norwich

I too love being submissive. Love being told what to do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love being submissive.

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