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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.

Our recent request for a bi guy to join us has caused a lot of guys to message us that are listed as straight but in their message they profess to being Bi! The main reason is that others won’t meet them if they’re Bi.

So they’re happy to lie to these people to get sex!

Let’s explore the prejudice for a second. There are two main reasons for it. The first is a fear that a bisexual man won’t be able to resist the straight guy. This as I’m sure you know is utter horse shit as bi people are able to exercise self control as well as straight people. The second is an outdated and insulting notion that bisexual males are at more risk from stds, this is obviously untrue as the individual’s sexuality has no bearing on their choices and actions in relation to safe sex.

So by pandering to these couples you perpetuate the problem.

Come on guys let’s be adults it’s 2022 and bisexuality is not at all a taboo anymore!

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By *enerifehotwifecplCouple
over a year ago

West Yorkshire

It should be embraced xxx

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

I think there's more to it than that.

A lot of single women say they won't meet bi guys. I don't understand why it makes any difference for a 1-2-1 meet and when I have asked on the forum I've never had anything back other than "preference". I have no issue at all with anybody choosing not to be interested in any given individual, but "preference" doesn't explain at all what the problem is. If anybody can shed any light on this I would be very interested.

I guess certain women are put off by the idea of a man having been with a man previously but I haven't seen anybody saying that.

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"I think there's more to it than that.

A lot of single women say they won't meet bi guys. I don't understand why it makes any difference for a 1-2-1 meet and when I have asked on the forum I've never had anything back other than "preference". I have no issue at all with anybody choosing not to be interested in any given individual, but "preference" doesn't explain at all what the problem is. If anybody can shed any light on this I would be very interested.

I guess certain women are put off by the idea of a man having been with a man previously but I haven't seen anybody saying that. "

But why would a bi guy want to meet someone with that opinion? I wouldn’t (The Boy)

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

I get that a lot of the ‘Straight’ guys on here list themselves as Straight because a lot of the women and couples on here are not interested in Bi guys. So I could improve my odds of a meet if I changed it to Straight but that would be lying to myself and others, when I made the decision to embrace my bi side I decided that I wasn’t going to hide it, it is part of who I am and if that means some people on here don’t want to meet me then so be it.

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

I started to get interested in meeting couples with a view to trying some bi fun. I changed my status to bi-curious and got inundated with guys wanting to meet me on my own. That wasn't what I was looking for so changed my status back to straight. I've now changed it back and blocked single guys from messaging me which is stopping the messages, but still not leading to many meets

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By *lexV16Man
over a year ago

Welling

I am bi and not hiding it. Not sure why others do. If a lady or a couple doesn’t wan to meet bi guys, totally respect and won’t try to change it though I am perfectly capable to play straight.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


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But why would a bi guy want to meet someone with that opinion? I wouldn’t (The Boy) "

Exactly how I see it. I respect myself too much to try and mold myself around someone else's bias or prejudices. But besides that there are only so many hours in a day so with ratios being what they are I'd rather make it easier for the right women/couples to match with me

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By *oding1Man
over a year ago

marlow

Bi and happy

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By *ig-Bull-EssexMan
over a year ago

Southend

Yes. A hundred percent.

Should hopefully also cut down on the guys messaging as they see straight on a profile and figure I'm actually bi.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I classify as bisexual because I have had sex with woman. However prefer sex with men And quite clear about it. Some men who are straight have met me and been like many explained leave it as straight because woman won’t meet with bi men.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Or they really are straight and are lying about being bi to get the chance of a sniff of some pussy.

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Or they really are straight and are lying about being bi to get the chance of a sniff of some pussy. "

Yea, they’re gonna be disappointed when they realise why we wanna meet!

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By *entBarryUKMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I have a few straight guys look at my profile but I assume its because they want to see my rainbow pants in full HD glory. Lol.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they really are straight and are lying about being bi to get the chance of a sniff of some pussy.

Yea, they’re gonna be disappointed when they realise why we wanna meet! "

Just tell them the guys fuck and suck first while she watches. The real straight ones soon disappear.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the problem is with the male of the couple not stating it on their profile is, it puts some couples off as some couples just assume that the man wants to suck their straight partners cock and it's not always the case.

Miss S x

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Or they really are straight and are lying about being bi to get the chance of a sniff of some pussy.

Yea, they’re gonna be disappointed when they realise why we wanna meet!

Just tell them the guys fuck and suck first while she watches. The real straight ones soon disappear. "

The meet is for The Boy to fuck a guy while kitty watches so yea, that’ll be an experience for a straight guy!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that a lot of the ‘Straight’ guys on here list themselves as Straight because a lot of the women and couples on here are not interested in Bi guys. So I could improve my odds of a meet if I changed it to Straight but that would be lying to myself and others, when I made the decision to embrace my bi side I decided that I wasn’t going to hide it, it is part of who I am and if that means some people on here don’t want to meet me then so be it. "

Same here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Or they really are straight and are lying about being bi to get the chance of a sniff of some pussy.

Yea, they’re gonna be disappointed when they realise why we wanna meet!

Just tell them the guys fuck and suck first while she watches. The real straight ones soon disappear.

The meet is for The Boy to fuck a guy while kitty watches so yea, that’ll be an experience for a straight guy! "

Yes please!

Tell me when and where

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By *ittyandtheboy OP   Couple
over a year ago

Back of the bins.


"Or they really are straight and are lying about being bi to get the chance of a sniff of some pussy.

Yea, they’re gonna be disappointed when they realise why we wanna meet!

Just tell them the guys fuck and suck first while she watches. The real straight ones soon disappear.

The meet is for The Boy to fuck a guy while kitty watches so yea, that’ll be an experience for a straight guy!

Yes please!

Tell me when and where "

Follow the green arrow

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By *eneralKenobiMan
over a year ago

North Angus

I’ve come to embrace mine more this year

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By *armale69Man
over a year ago

warrington

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)


"A lot of single women say they won't meet bi guys. I don't understand why it makes any difference for a 1-2-1 meet and when I have asked on the forum I've never had anything back other than "preference""

In my opinion this is just homophobia politely dressed as something else.

Gbat

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By *adyJayneWoman
over a year ago

Burnleyish (She/They)


"I guess certain women are put off by the idea of a man having been with a man previously but I haven't seen anybody saying that. "

Over the years I've seen people say it's because the thaught of two men together is 'dirty' or that they are 'less of a man' and so it's their preference...

When actually it's homophobia (gay sex is not dirty or wrong) and patrical thinking (that gay or bisexual men are some how less of man)

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By *armale69Man
over a year ago

warrington

Out and proud!

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I think there's more to it than that.

A lot of single women say they won't meet bi guys. I don't understand why it makes any difference for a 1-2-1 meet and when I have asked on the forum I've never had anything back other than "preference". I have no issue at all with anybody choosing not to be interested in any given individual, but "preference" doesn't explain at all what the problem is. If anybody can shed any light on this I would be very interested.

I guess certain women are put off by the idea of a man having been with a man previously but I haven't seen anybody saying that. "

I can get some shit for being the opposite. lol Most either ignore the very first line of my profile or like to question it. I also say dont message to ask about it now alos as got fed up being asked.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"I think there's more to it than that.

A lot of single women say they won't meet bi guys. I don't understand why it makes any difference for a 1-2-1 meet and when I have asked on the forum I've never had anything back other than "preference". I have no issue at all with anybody choosing not to be interested in any given individual, but "preference" doesn't explain at all what the problem is. If anybody can shed any light on this I would be very interested.

I guess certain women are put off by the idea of a man having been with a man previously but I haven't seen anybody saying that.

I can get some shit for being the opposite. lol Most either ignore the very first line of my profile or like to question it. I also say dont message to ask about it now alos as got fed up being asked."

Love this line in your profile....

"that's a lot of lying and we haven't even met"

Drop the mike lolol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well said everyone. We should embrace our sexuality whatever it is and be inclusive and tolerant.

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By *underland81Man
over a year ago

Sunderland

Totally embrace it, if you're not honest about it on here of all places what else are you hiding?

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By *angOnBunnyCouple
over a year ago

Ipswich

Mr 100% embraces his and Mrs encourages it lol. We do, however, get the straight guys claiming to be bi.

If you're not open then there's no joy with us

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By *dward_TeagueMan
over a year ago

wolverhampton

Mine is out there so to speak lol

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By *izzibeth9Couple
over a year ago

Loughborough

For me (male half) I struggle to get past my own personal insecurities around my sexuality. Logically I know that's ridiculous, and it's something I'm actively working on, but I do think there's still a whole lot more stigma around bisexuality - and particularly male bisexuality in society.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

If you're not 'out' on your profile you're not getting 'in' with either of us.

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By *igrating ladMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

What a lovely post OP and lovely messages from all those above. I agree for us bi guys meeting ladies on here doesn’t go well. It’s very strange but what can you do. I do await patiently for a woman or couple that finds me interesting but until then I’m sure there is other fun to be had with guys lol.

Stay safe everyone and be careful in the sun xx

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

That's why we stopped single guys contacting us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bi and proud

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By *unx2019Couple
over a year ago

Moray

Cuck bisexual and I'm bi curious, only because only met one lady and not got in the swing of things with ladies. We meet bi guys in fact, have started blanking guys who say there straight but first message is always "I'm bi too".

We love and welcome bi guys all the more fun xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

if people want to see whos at greater risk with sexual health there there are plenty of up to date info on the net ... sadly male on male sex is in the worst group for sti ..there no escaping this its a fact (i volunteer for a safe sex charity)

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By *itchayWomanTV/TS
over a year ago

Milton Keynes

As much as I agree with this point, we also need to be careful not to alienate anyone for what sexuality they choose to show publicly.

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"if people want to see whos at greater risk with sexual health there there are plenty of up to date info on the net ... sadly male on male sex is in the worst group for sti ..there no escaping this its a fact (i volunteer for a safe sex charity)

"

There could be an argument to say that someone honest about there sexuality is more likely to be honest about their level of responsibility around STI checks.

If there were statistic on people who have met bi guys thinking they were straight based on their profile......

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By *lofeldMan
over a year ago

Redhill

I haven't actually done anything with same sex since education, but I list myself as curious because I know I'll never say never, and in the right situation it would be more positive than that.

Best to be upfront I think.

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

I've been on both sides of this.

I used to hide my sexuality as it definitely reduces the people who would meet you.

However I've finally come to realise I never want to meet those people anyway. If they have an by prejudice best on anyone's sexuality or anything else for that matter I'm not interested.

And now I'm solely interested in bi sexual experiences

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By *edplusoneCouple
over a year ago

West Midlands

We’re a straight male/bi fem couple, and Mrs seems to like it when the other couples male is bi x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"The meet is for The Boy to fuck a guy while kitty watches so yea, that’ll be an experience for a straight guy! "

My wife wants to watch me fucking and getting fucked, she has watched me blowing another guy.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I think there's more to it than that.

A lot of single women say they won't meet bi guys. I don't understand why it makes any difference for a 1-2-1 meet and when I have asked on the forum I've never had anything back other than "preference". I have no issue at all with anybody choosing not to be interested in any given individual, but "preference" doesn't explain at all what the problem is. If anybody can shed any light on this I would be very interested.

I guess certain women are put off by the idea of a man having been with a man previously but I haven't seen anybody saying that.

I can get some shit for being the opposite. lol Most either ignore the very first line of my profile or like to question it. I also say dont message to ask about it now alos as got fed up being asked.

Love this line in your profile....

"that's a lot of lying and we haven't even met"

Drop the mike lolol"

Thank you. Thats 2 people that find me funny now, including myself lol

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"If you're not 'out' on your profile you're not getting 'in' with either of us."

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

I am bi but I do have sex with a lot of "straight" men , people put things on their profile that they think will attract others, rather than what they really think

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"I started to get interested in meeting couples with a view to trying some bi fun. I changed my status to bi-curious and got inundated with guys wanting to meet me on my own. That wasn't what I was looking for so changed my status back to straight. I've now changed it back and blocked single guys from messaging me which is stopping the messages, but still not leading to many meets "

So why can't you still have a bi profile? Youve blocked single guys now from messaging you so makes no difference anway?

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london


"I've been on both sides of this.

I used to hide my sexuality as it definitely reduces the people who would meet you.

However I've finally come to realise I never want to meet those people anyway. If they have an by prejudice best on anyone's sexuality or anything else for that matter I'm not interested.

And now I'm solely interested in bi sexual experiences"

Exactly!!

Although I would still meet a straight couple too. I think I can just about give the lady all my attention without too much mental anguish lololol

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By *RSTCouple
over a year ago

S. Northants

As a bi guy, I've always been frustrated by the people who say they won't meet because I'm bi.

Being bi doesn't mean I don't take care of my sexual health, it also doesn't mean I'm going to jump their straight fella or leave the lady out.

It just means that occassionally in I'd like to enjoy the company of a hot horny guy instead of (or with) a beautiful woman.

I will admit I took too long to admit to myself I am Bi, and I have a lot of ground to make up for (HINT HINT) but I was only lying to myself and selling myself short.

Be you. Be happy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as a bi couple and i mean bi not fab bi or fuck anything bi both been bi since teens .. we've alway taken our sexual health seriously its really simple in this world and this day and age trust no one as in what they say or do and look after yourself ..if you bare or safer sex ant you have lots of sex with others then get tested its the only real way of knowing you have nothing to worry about..

for those that say its only as good as the day you tested yep 100% correct but it tells you youve been doing it right and if there was a problem you can fix it if you dont test then how do you know ??? simple as that ..

the problem we see is people who have safer sex (no sex is the only safe sex) they tend not to get tested that makes it no worse than someone who goes bare in our eyes ...

back to gay / bi sex we find most singles are more responible for checking there sexual health the main problem is married guys who desire gay/bi sex they are a massive group and very hard to reach so they go home and sleep with the wife and the spread goes on ...

heres another ... dogging we do condom/lube dumps in hidden places for people most dogging spots are also gay cruising spots so the bi guys are spoilt for choice and often see a guy whos just had sex with a man zip up only to unzip when a couple appear ...thats the real scary side of sexual health..

before anyone shouts ... we dont judge if you want to go bare go bare if you want to play safer play safer but please please get tested a condom is not safe sex its safer sex and only a test will tell you if your clear or not

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i dont see anything wrong with str8 people wantin to meet str8 people ???

this scene is all about choice and preference if a str8 couple dont want to meet a bi guy then thats choice nothing else it dont make them homophobe at all

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i meet bi guys on fab even though i divorced my bi and now gay ex husband.(he didnt tell me when we met) i found out later and marriage over.if only people would be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i dont see anything wrong with str8 people wantin to meet str8 people ???

this scene is all about choice and preference if a str8 couple dont want to meet a bi guy then thats choice nothing else it dont make them homophobe at all "

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham

I like cock and pussy equally, ergo I am a bi male, I don't have a problem with it, if others do then obviously they are not for me. Thank goodness there are many to whom this is not an issue and embrace swinging in the true sense.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Totally embrace it, if you're not honest about it on here of all places what else are you hiding?"

Some men aren't Out in real life for obvious reasons. So they won't want to risk having bi on their profile in case someone sees them and outs them.

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By *arieJayCouple
over a year ago

bly

We are put off when we get messages from males telling us they are bi but their profile says straight…. But we also totally get where people are coming from too, we would love to see people being more brave and honest with their profiles and embrace who they are xx

Marie and Jay

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I started to get interested in meeting couples with a view to trying some bi fun. I changed my status to bi-curious and got inundated with guys wanting to meet me on my own. That wasn't what I was looking for so changed my status back to straight. I've now changed it back and blocked single guys from messaging me which is stopping the messages, but still not leading to many meets "
I find exactly the same,I've not yet blocked messages from men,but I've not had much in the way of invites from couples who want a mmf meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

guys your not getting meets not because your bi but because of the age old problems of there are far to many guys on fab full stop dont matter if your str8 or bi it will be very hard 100/200 men per woman /couples ... that alot of guys gettin nowhere

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By *obbiKentMan
over a year ago

maidstone

I am sure once they get a taste of sexy guy fun, their profile will reflect

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

I reckon, with the number of couple's looking for a vi guy that instantly discount the sly-bis the honest ones have a better chance, numbers wise, than a straight guy does finding a straight couple.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Vi guy = bi guy

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

And where did that bloody apostrophe in couples com from?

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By *obbiKentMan
over a year ago

maidstone

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By *ri4cplMan
over a year ago

swindon

Just be honest I say, always used to think of myself as straight but have dabbled a little orally and so call myself curious at the mo

Better to be honest if you want to find the right people for you

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By *heltenhamBiGuyMan
over a year ago

Cheltenham


"i meet bi guys on fab even though i divorced my bi and now gay ex husband.(he didnt tell me when we met) i found out later and marriage over.if only people would be honest."

I've replied to your DM Dee

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more straight guys looking or wanting to chat than bi guys?

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Totally agree. Be true to yourself. You will get a lot more meets by being honest x

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By *lhr1061Man
over a year ago

Warwickshire

Perhaps there should be an option to call yourself 'open minded'

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Lowestoft

Bi and proud of it. I have also had straight meets with couples.

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By *riar BelisseWoman
over a year ago

Delightful Bliss


"if people want to see whos at greater risk with sexual health there there are plenty of up to date info on the net ... sadly male on male sex is in the worst group for sti ..there no escaping this its a fact (i volunteer for a safe sex charity)

"

The amount of mm bareback vids on here is astonishing, I need to know if I should be ticking the do you have sex with men who have sex with other men box.

My sexual health is important and I'd rather he not lie about being straight and just be honest with me, yes I have been lied to before about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It took me a long time to get to the point where I admitted that I am Bi. It took a long conversation with a good friend on here, for me to realise that it doesn't really matter what others think about how I identify on here Bi or straight it's being true to me that matters.

Having said that, I do get a lot more single males looking at my profile over couples or single females, is that because of me being Bi who knows.

If and when I do meet anyone then I usually do it after a while of talking to them, be they male, female or even a couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"It took me a long time to get to the point where I admitted that I am Bi. It took a long conversation with a good friend on here, for me to realise that it doesn't matter what others think about how I identify on here Bi or straight it's being true to me that matters.

Having said that, I do get a lot more single males looking at my profile over couples or single females, is that because of me being Bi who knows.

If and when I do meet anyone then I usually do it after a while of talking to them, be they male, female, or even a couple. "

And also when I do meet a couple where the male is Bi, I will not nor ever will be one-sided towards him. The time spent together is for all of us to enjoy

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By *orkswatcherMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

So many single women and couples that say they won't meet bi

No wonder some guys say they are not. I think sometimes a couple will think the guy is wanting to suck the guy off

For me I'm happy in a mmf just to go with it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So many single women and couples that say they won't meet bi

No wonder some guys say they are not. I think sometimes a couple will think the guy is wanting to suck the guy off

For me I'm happy in a mmf just to go with it"

This is what I was trying to say earlier

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By *iss ImperfectWoman
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I Find bisexual men incredibly sexy and in fact would be my preference for a playmate and or a partner.

So come on guys…. Embrace it! It’s part of who you are and I for one think it’s sexy as hell!!!

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By *amian300Man
over a year ago

dub city closer than you think not in uk

Bi and out

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


" I Find bisexual men incredibly sexy and in fact would be my preference for a playmate and or a partner.

So come on guys…. Embrace it! It’s part of who you are and I for one think it’s sexy as hell!!! "

Bugger why are you so far away

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

been bi as long as i can remember, though most guys I have met claim to be straight, and far more straight guys message me, admitedly a lot of those seem to be in from the pub and with a raging hardon, (they dont usualy get anywhere though)

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By *ain and sortedMan
over a year ago

Old Harlow Essex

I started swinging and going to clubs to meet open minded non judgemental people, can still be pleasant and polite to others not judge what their interests are, this site has its good points but still has that negativity from some narrow minded people who just follow the direction society they should. Everyone has preferences be it sexual likes and dislikes, colour creed, etc, id much prefer to meet honest open people everyone has an idea where they stand then, people are people theirs good and bad in all walks of life x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our recent request for a bi guy to join us has caused a lot of guys to message us that are listed as straight but in their message they profess to being Bi! The main reason is that others won’t meet them if they’re Bi.

So they’re happy to lie to these people to get sex!

Let’s explore the prejudice for a second. There are two main reasons for it. The first is a fear that a bisexual man won’t be able to resist the straight guy. This as I’m sure you know is utter horse shit as bi people are able to exercise self control as well as straight people. The second is an outdated and insulting notion that bisexual males are at more risk from stds, this is obviously untrue as the individual’s sexuality has no bearing on their choices and actions in relation to safe sex.

So by pandering to these couples you perpetuate the problem.

Come on guys let’s be adults it’s 2022 and bisexuality is not at all a taboo anymore! "

We’ve had a lot of excellent but threesomes and they’re all the better for the openness.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

We only meet bi men and we won’t meet men that have straight on their profile but then tell us their bi.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La


"We only meet bi men and we won’t meet men that have straight on their profile but then tell us their bi."

My profile says bi guys on bi profiles only. Im not gonna just take a guys word for it when he on a straight profile, usually looking for just f to meet and says not into guys on their profile lol

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester


"I think there's more to it than that.

A lot of single women say they won't meet bi guys. I don't understand why it makes any difference for a 1-2-1 meet and when I have asked on the forum I've never had anything back other than "preference". I have no issue at all with anybody choosing not to be interested in any given individual, but "preference" doesn't explain at all what the problem is. If anybody can shed any light on this I would be very interested.

I guess certain women are put off by the idea of a man having been with a man previously but I haven't seen anybody saying that. "

Spot on, the majority of females in chatted to on here wouldn't meet a bi guy

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By *unkhouser72Man
over a year ago

Gtr Manchester


"I think there's more to it than that.

A lot of single women say they won't meet bi guys. I don't understand why it makes any difference for a 1-2-1 meet and when I have asked on the forum I've never had anything back other than "preference". I have no issue at all with anybody choosing not to be interested in any given individual, but "preference" doesn't explain at all what the problem is. If anybody can shed any light on this I would be very interested.

I guess certain women are put off by the idea of a man having been with a man previously but I haven't seen anybody saying that.

But why would a bi guy want to meet someone with that opinion? I wouldn’t (The Boy) "

Unfortunately your in the minority

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By *igrating ladMan
over a year ago

Hertfordshire

I just had to repost on this thread….So the past couple of weeks I’ve had so many knock backs from couples on here. They seem so genuine but as so as I clarify I’m bi they go silent on me and stop reading my messages. It’s really sad as I’m a genuine guy but it is what it is.

I look forward to actually getting to know couples who are into us bi guys.

Anyway rant over have a good night folks x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what about the married bi guys who dont tell their wives?? Should they tell them before they get into a relationship?

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I'm all for people being their true selves but i see we are on a cycle of preferences equal prejudice again. It dosent but hey, when your upset about something it sounds better if it is in a rant.

Can we not just respect we all want something different from swinging?

We dont get upset some are not intrested in us "because reasons", we just find people who are interested. As long as people are being respectful and polite and leaving you alone to get on with your day or impacting your lives in anyway, there's no issue. None at all.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I promote it

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By *uzzer32Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Our recent request for a bi guy to join us has caused a lot of guys to message us that are listed as straight but in their message they profess to being Bi! The main reason is that others won’t meet them if they’re Bi.

So they’re happy to lie to these .I've found myself becoming curious about receiving and giving oral in a swinging meet but don't know how to go about it xx

Let’s explore the prejudice for a second. There are two main reasons for it. The first is a fear that a bisexual man won’t be able to resist the straight guy. This as I’m sure you know is utter horse shit as bi people are able to exercise self control as well as straight people. The second is an outdated and insulting notion that bisexual males are at more risk from stds, this is obviously untrue as the individual’s sexuality has no bearing on their choices and actions in relation to safe sex.

So by pandering to these couples you perpetuate the problem.

Come on guys let’s be adults it’s 2022 and bisexuality is not at all a taboo anymore! "

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By *uzzer32Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Sorry totally messed up the message x

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By *_Love_CandyWoman
over a year ago

Greater London

I absolutely love bi men. Nothing better than 2 guys and me, with everyone free to completely enjoy themselves! Also, I get to take a break, and can just sit back and watch. Absolute bliss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm all for people being their true selves but i see we are on a cycle of preferences equal prejudice again. It dosent but hey, when your upset about something it sounds better if it is in a rant.

Can we not just respect we all want something different from swinging?

We dont get upset some are not intrested in us "because reasons", we just find people who are interested. As long as people are being respectful and polite and leaving you alone to get on with your day or impacting your lives in anyway, there's no issue. None at all."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I do get fed up of the straight guys messaging asking for a bj.

Why can't they just be honest on the profile surely they will achieve more on what they are looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Our recent request for a bi guy to join us has caused a lot of guys to message us that are listed as straight but in their message they profess to being Bi! The main reason is that others won’t meet them if they’re Bi.

So they’re happy to lie to these people to get sex!

Let’s explore the prejudice for a second. There are two main reasons for it. The first is a fear that a bisexual man won’t be able to resist the straight guy. This as I’m sure you know is utter horse shit as bi people are able to exercise self control as well as straight people. The second is an outdated and insulting notion that bisexual males are at more risk from stds, this is obviously untrue as the individual’s sexuality has no bearing on their choices and actions in relation to safe sex.

So by pandering to these couples you perpetuate the problem.

Come on guys let’s be adults it’s 2022 and bisexuality is not at all a taboo anymore! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have experienced abusive messages from straight guys that contacted me wanting to meet when I said I wasn't interested it goes nasty.

Bi curious couples who won't meet Bi menI don't understand why put in your profile.

Won't meet Bi guys I have no interest in straight when I meet couples I am only BI with like minded people.

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff

Im bi and have many "straight" men message me for chats daily

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