FabSwingers.com forum: Didn't cum

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

How would you ladies feel if you were with a guy (last night when it was very hot on the top floor of a house) and after a fair amount of fun, he didn't cum.

Happened to me last night. Focussed on her for the first 45 mins or so. Made her cum etc.

But when she sucked me off I was just exhausted and hot and didn't cum. I think she felt quite offended, even though I tried to explain it wasn't her!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Hsd this a few times when I fuck I don’t cum. I just told the lady I cum in condom and threw it in bin Not like she was going to sift it out the bin

Sometimes it doesn’t happen I get you on that op but the post still feels great

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There's plenty of men who simply can't cum due to various reasons. We've had, it's my medication, it's my diabetes, etc. We used to feel let down by this but we've just accepted it now.

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By *ice oneMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I don't always cum on a meet , but I do stay hard and make sure my playmate (s) enjoy themselves and be pleasured before my requirements.

The main reason for me is alcohol gets me horny but seems to.stol me cumming or I hold off that much I just go beyond cumming if that makes sence .

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

I think I'd be ok with it. It's not as if we're robots who can perform to order. We've met guys who can't get an erection due to nerves or the unfamiliarity of the situation, I'm not bothered by that and don't assume it's my fault.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a "man cumming" fetish. I get mentally turned on by men ejaculating. I get off more if a man just sticks it in and cums then endless pounding. I much prefer those that cum quick and recover fast for round two then those that go on and on and on.

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By *heshire-cat74Woman
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

As long as both are happy who cares, I used to have a long term fwb and he only came twice we were both equally satisfied

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's the journey, not the destination!!! We have sex frequently throughout the day so coming for me is not something I want to do too early, and I deliberately don't sometimes. Mrs EK hated that at first but has got used to it now and no longer feels disappointed thst I haven't come everytime. May I just say I fucking love it with her everytime weather I come or not!!

Mr.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

I think that people sometimes can take it quite personally if a person doesn't come - they blame themselves and think, well it must be something wrong with me. I must not really turn them on.

I can understand that to a certain degree, sex is such a personal act and there are lots of societal expectations/pressures on certain things happening which leads to that *failure* feeling. I think communicating with the other person honestly, reassuring without feeling guilty is the best way to go about it. These things happen to us all, it doesn't mean you enjoyed the sex any less than when you have orgasmed. I mean, it could mean that but generally, it doesn't.

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By *argaret James200TV/TS
over a year ago

Birmingham

"How would you ladies feel if you were with a guy (last night when it was very hot on the top floor of a house) and after a fair amount of fun, he didn't cum.

Happened to me last night. Focussed on her for the first 45 mins or so. Made her cum etc.

But when she sucked me off I was just exhausted and hot and didn't cum. I think she felt quite offended, even though I tried to explain it wasn't her!

Xx"

I don't understand if you don't come to a meet how do you know if the other guy came ?????.

Did you know that the meaning of "Yo, Yo" is "come, come" in aborigine, I've played with myself lots of times but never cum twice you gotta give it to those Australians

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow

Wouldn’t phase me lots of reasons why this may happen doesn’t necessarily mean they haven’t enjoyed themselves

Ditto PE or ED have had relationships with men experiencing that on occasion.

Don’t get me wrong I would rather play with a reliable hard cock not something that would be fun on a regular basis, but it’s not the end of the world as long as they’re inventive and relaxed themselves

We aren’t robots we don’t perform on demand we are humans and that needs to be recognised

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