FabSwingers.com forum: Cheating

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just wondering if you saw friend or family member on here that you knew was cheating would you tell their partner ? Exposing the fact that your a swinger lol

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

No, everyone is responsible for themselves, and I'm not stepping in to question others, break them up etc.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No but I might let the other person know I had seen them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I am currently in this very situation. A female friend has started a new relationship with a man and he is on the site. He insists they are just fuck buddies but they are now moving in together and running a business from their new home. She is declaring her love for him on facebook and he is messaging me on here trying to get me to meet. He is brazen. He has even now set up a couples profile with a woman on this site (not the girlfriend).

However, I don't want to get in the middle of whatever they have got going on. Ultimately, we are all adults and he has to face whatever consequences may arise. I do however think he is scum.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Just wondering if you saw friend or family member on here that you knew was cheating would you tell their partner ? Exposing the fact that your a swinger lol "

if they had a face picture you could say that a 'friend' of yours had asked you the question about them being on here..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"I am currently in this very situation. A female friend has started a new relationship with a man and he is on the site. He insists they are just fuck buddies but they are now moving in together and running a business from their new home. She is declaring her love for him on facebook and he is messaging me on here trying to get me to meet. He is brazen. He has even now set up a couples profile with a woman on this site (not the girlfriend).

However, I don't want to get in the middle of whatever they have got going on. Ultimately, we are all adults and he has to face whatever consequences may arise. I do however think he is scum.

difficult one yes, but she is your friend and when it goes pear shaped you will need to be there for her..

if he when it does go wrong for them then tells her he had contacted you etc, you may lose a friend..

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Just wondering if you saw friend or family member on here that you knew was cheating would you tell their partner ? Exposing the fact that your a swinger lol "

Never get involved. For all you know the other partner might have a profile too.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Yes tell the other person. Both will have a couple profile. All 3 of you can even play

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Just wondering if you saw friend or family member on here that you knew was cheating would you tell their partner ? Exposing the fact that your a swinger lol

Never get involved. For all you know the other partner might have a profile too."
what if it's family though and there being cheated on ? you know guys playing bareback then sleeping with family member etc ? very jeremy kyle lol

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By *pecifically1Woman
over a year ago

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"Just wondering if you saw friend or family member on here that you knew was cheating would you tell their partner ? Exposing the fact that your a swinger lol "

Having been in exactly this situation, I wish someone had told me...it would have saved a great deal of pain, emotional and financial....If I had known he was on here I would have been able to make a choice much earlier than I did and it would have undoubtedly been easier.....and one of my closest friends knew.....she is no longer a friend...

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

"Just wondering if you saw friend or family member on here that you knew was cheating would you tell their partner ? Exposing the fact that your a swinger lol

Never get involved. For all you know the other partner might have a profile too.what if it's family though and there being cheated on ? you know guys playing bareback then sleeping with family member etc ? very jeremy kyle lol "

If you've watched Jeremy Kyle you'll know that the attached couple always end up ganging up on the person with the bad news. No-one will come out of that situation well, so its best not to interfere.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

However, I don't want to get in the middle of whatever they have got going on. Ultimately, we are all adults and he has to face whatever consequences may arise. I do however think he is scum.

difficult one yes, but she is your friend and when it goes pear shaped you will need to be there for her..

if he when it does go wrong for them then tells her he had contacted you etc, you may lose a friend.."

I would send an anonymous tip to her, give her the link to his profile on here. bury the dog.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If it was me, I would want to know too. The thing is, she isn't a close friend, I only met her through another friend a short while ago. I have discussed it with my best friend, who is close friends with her, and we both know the man in question has previous form in these matters, and that is well documented. So she hasn't gone in to it without some idea of his reputation and previous behaviour. I do feel bad, but I am not sure it is really my place to be saying anything.

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

However, I don't want to get in the middle of whatever they have got going on. Ultimately, we are all adults and he has to face whatever consequences may arise. I do however think he is scum.

Wow, I don't envy your position.

Does your friend already know you're on here?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No. She isn't a close friend. My best friend knows I am on here and she is close to the girl in question. We have discussed it and her advice was to stay out of it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Turn it round... If you were in her position would you want to be told? I know I would

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

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"Just wondering if you saw friend or family member on here that you knew was cheating would you tell their partner ? Exposing the fact that your a swinger lol "
no id stay out of it, all my friends and family know what i do so that wouldnt be a concern...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, I absolutely would tell

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