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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Well I consider myself attractive enough though not a model but no beer belly or bald head and I think my profile is good enough but its annoying the ladies are not too keen to meet up. Is it because I can't accommodate or my profile or am i just too picky???

Opinion ladies but please be gentle

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me, you have no face pics and your profile states you are unable to accommodate which screams "married/,living with partner". Just my opinion. Good luck x

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich


"Well I consider myself attractive enough though not a model but no beer belly or bald head and I think my profile is good enough but its annoying the ladies are not too keen to meet up. Is it because I can't accommodate or my profile or am i just too picky???

Opinion ladies but please be gentle "

It's the same for all blokes.

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Why can't you accom ?

Do you do hotels or cars or bus stops or toilets or sandbanks or lorrycabs or tents , camper vans VW Beetles ? behind big trees ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP...ur profile to me looks just far too 'me me me'-

there is selling urself and there is just being overconfident...especially when u havent had a meet(allegedly)...try a more friendly approach and less boasting

my opinion

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"For me, you have no face pics and your profile states you are unable to accommodate which screams "married/,living with partner". Just my opinion. Good luck x"

I did like to make my private life entirely different from swinging and I wouldn't like my flatmates to start getting nosey, face pics is available in my gallery and available on request when I see who's am chatting with but thks for ur opinion....

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Just say can't accommodate because of flat mates then. Say where you can meet or prefer to meet ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"OP...ur profile to me looks just far too 'me me me'-

there is selling urself and there is just being overconfident...especially when u havent had a meet(allegedly)...try a more friendly approach and less boasting

my opinion"

This to an extent where is your personality?, also you don't say what you are looking for in playmates.

Some ladies and couples prefer a sexy torso or bum pic.

As for can't accommodate, that doesn't really bother us. Not everyone can due to circumstances, Sometimes we can't but still like to play.

Its only our opinion...but like every a***hole we all have one.

Good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just say can't accommodate because of flat mates then. Say where you can meet or prefer to meet ..."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thnks for the advice, well taken. I ll brush that up soonest...

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

so u wud be available for overnight stays at hotels or weekends away then ??

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

lose drill

good luck

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I consider myself attractive enough though not a model but no beer belly or bald head and I think my profile is good enough but its annoying the ladies are not too keen to meet up. Is it because I can't accommodate or my profile or am i just too picky???

Opinion ladies but please be gentle "
well im bald, slight belly and a hairyish back and im meeting, so keep at it mate

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"For me, you have no face pics and your profile states you are unable to accommodate which screams "married/,living with partner". Just my opinion. Good luck x"

This.

It is a constant on all these threads yet so many singlemen just don't accept that there is a need to expand on not being able to accommodate. And ultimately, whether you like it or not many women will prefer a man that can accommodate.

As others have said your profile is arrogant and all about you, but you also describe yourself as a bull and talk about drilling women so the arrgance is in keeping with the persona. I'm not going to condemn you for that, I like specifics but if you market yourself in that way an awful lot of people are not looking for that and will pass you by.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"so u wud be available for overnight stays at hotels or weekends away then ??"

If a meet is arranged absolutely...

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Just be honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"so u wud be available for overnight stays at hotels or weekends away then ??

If a meet is arranged absolutely..."

Well then you need to clearly state that in your profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 100% honest has cost me probably 7 or 8 meets now but its gotta be done ...... In my opinion anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be honest."

^^^

Thats the best advice you are ever going to get.

There is something for everyone on here, within reason.

You will never be everyones's cup of tea

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Being 100% honest has cost me probably 7 or 8 meets now but its gotta be done ...... In my opinion anyway "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Just be honest.

^^^

Thats the best advice you are ever going to get.

There is something for everyone on here, within reason.

You will never be everyones's cup of tea"

lol

The desperation of many guys on here has created some pretty big ego's and it is reflected in the profiles of god knows how many women.

It amuses me to see all these angry profiles getting even more angry when they get led on or stood-up by verified men.

Oh such a pity!

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By *anmjmosesMan
over a year ago

Northampton


"For me, you have no face pics and your profile states you are unable to accommodate which screams "married/,living with partner". Just my opinion. Good luck x"

I read part of the post, and couldnt be bothered to go through the rest. I had the same problems when I first joined. (with the slight receding hairline on my young head)...

anyway, deviating from the point. You should consider going to a club night. After going, and meeting people, I've found that some people have been more vocal on here. and clubs are a lot of v=fun. Try BMFC. speak to Helen. check the club section link.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I struggle to get meets.

Any advice on my profile please.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

It is about how you present yourself here

Also people won't meet you if they don't want to...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to get meets.

Any advice on my profile please. "

13 words and no pictures. Do you think that is anyway sells you or makes you stand out from the 100's of other profiles?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a female point of _iew - I suggest you read some other profiles, for example - Fabio's profile, I thought that his profile was spot on, and had he lived in the south west I would definitely had messaged him, Kim x x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to get meets.

Any advice on my profile please. "

More pics, more text and spell check. Also not being able to accomodate will put people off especially as you're looking for discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Why can't you accom ?

Do you do hotels or cars or bus stops or toilets or sandbanks or lorrycabs or tents , camper vans VW Beetles ? behind big trees ? "

(Perky)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OP: feedback...

Sue said, "we wouldnt meet him honey hes full of himself "

Profile may need a re write.

For me, i think you just need to target cuck couples, i cant see many other couples into each other who add a playmate to thier fun wanting to meet you.

good luck

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By *esmond70Man
over a year ago

tavistock

i find it hard to get a meet as well

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

To be fair the OP isn't looking for MF couples

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By *andman_0835Man
over a year ago

Stoke-on-Trent

Just keep at it mate....there's someone out there

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

swap your prfile to women seeks man and look at the choice they have don,t forget to swap back swap back lol

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks all you sexy people for your responses and opinion, learnt a lot from them. I have brushed the profy up and I think taking ur points into consideration was quite helpful. I hope it changes things, fingers crossed....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I struggle to get meets.

Any advice on my profile please.

13 words and no pictures. Do you think that is anyway sells you or makes you stand out from the 100's of other profiles?"

Thanks for tips. I deleted a lot of stuff and never got round to updating again. Done now.... More to come

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