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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

So to those what have done this before . How did the fun part start? What were the first moves ? Dreading the awkward bit just before ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just discuss what makes you cum/what you enjoy. Gives you a way of planning/prepping and turns people on

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We have played strip poker with a guy and forfeits or just started kissing each other. Sometimes Mr N left us alone to get things going then came back in ten minutes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't be doing with all the awkward stuff, I simply throw myself at the man in question if I know hes interested, hubby kind of sits back and rolls his eyes

That gets that out the way, then the good stuff follows ha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our advice would be to talk first, likes, dislikes, boundaries etc...will make for a better experience for everyone. Like to say we're a little jealous, finding a suitable 3rd is hard on here. Good luck and hope you enjoy, come back and let us know how it went.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He accommodated so we asked if we could go to the bedroom and get started and he joined a few minutes later. It helped with the nervousness and we all had a great time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He accommodated so we asked if we could go to the bedroom and get started and he joined a few minutes later. It helped with the nervousness and we all had a great time."

Well...with us was a bit of talk,giggles...asking if everyone comfortable to move upstairs...

Then just do what you want really,just go for it.with the right partner there wont be any awkwardness... and every couple have their own dynamics.just talk to each other what ye want.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"He accommodated so we asked if we could go to the bedroom and get started and he joined a few minutes later. It helped with the nervousness and we all had a great time.

Well...with us was a bit of talk,giggles...asking if everyone comfortable to move upstairs...

Then just do what you want really,just go for it.with the right partner there wont be any awkwardness... and every couple have their own dynamics.just talk to each other what ye want."

We’d already discussed all that in messages. So it was knock on the door, quick introduction and straight upstairs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We had already roll played and told each other fantasies about it. Then one night while away at an hotel in Manchester. We met a guy in the bar everything just fell into place and the rest is history. No looking back opened our sex up to a new level

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By *batMan
over a year ago

Alicante, Spain. (Sometimes in Wales)

With my FWBs, we start playing and then draw the extra guy in.

Gbat

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

When we’ve done it, it’s been a type of scenario and I’ve invited them in.

If we were sitting together chatting, I’d ensure C sat between us and I’d instigate kissing or stroking…

If you make it awkward it will be awkward. Own it and it’ll be so much easier…

K

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s not really awkward after you have discussed in mails and on the phone what you are after and what turns you on plus had a laugh and swapped naughty pictures. Just go with the flow.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One day I will get my first mmf sesh lol x

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Thanks so

Much for all the replies! And a couple made us chuckle! We deffo favour the extra guy taking me to the bedroom with hubby to follow in ten. X

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By *ctionman11Man
over a year ago

maldon


"Thanks so

Much for all the replies! And a couple made us chuckle! We deffo favour the extra guy taking me to the bedroom with hubby to follow in ten. X"

Local male here. Mmmm would be very happy with that. And the strip poker with dares sounds fun.

I am a genuine laid back type of guy so go with the flow with couples. It normally is less awkward than expected once the flirting starts. ..xx

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Meet in a pub, little fondling on the way home, hubby normal gives me a passionate kiss while popping one of my boobs out and a quick finger to see how wet I am before passing me over to the guy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The bit before wasn’t awkward at all. I really got on with the couple. We had great conversations and laughter

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By *9alMan
over a year ago

Bridgend


"We have played strip poker with a guy and forfeits or just started kissing each other. Sometimes Mr N left us alone to get things going then came back in ten minutes. "

I am not that good a poker player probably end up naked & the couple fully dressed . I find couples normally have planned how they would like things to proceed.

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By *attoo manMan
over a year ago

Rhyl

Met in a club. And all three of us had a sexy time.

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By *os19Man
over a year ago

Edmonton

I arrange a 3sum for my FWB recently.I exchanged pictures for my FWB with the other male as he is friend of mine.I then took my FWB for a meal then we had a drink at his house.It was agreed with both parties that I would take the lead which I did.It went so well that we will be doing it again soon.

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By *obbiKentMan
over a year ago

maidstone

chat, drink, a hand on his thigh, then his growing bulge, before we released him for us both to enjoy

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Watching this carefully as it’s something that I hope to experience.

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By *onynickiCouple
over a year ago

Bournemouth

Hotel room

Meeting time

Nicki and I have already been busy and when the knock on the door comes, we open it, he walks in and Nicki is ready and waiting to go!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's easiest in a club. I just ask a guy I like the look of if he would like to join us. The answer is invariably 'yes'. We find either a private room or an open room, whichever he prefers, and take our clothes off. I then usually start the fun by playing with his cock - I particularly like one in each hand - and things move on from there. The great thing is that this also works with getting two, three or more guys to play with us. I've never been disappointed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whenever me and another guy sit either side of Dora on a settee in a hotel room things tend to move along quite quickly and naturally.

Having a nice flirty social beforehand adds to the anticipation.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Find a guy with a bit of experience and talk to him about his "experience" to make sure it fits with what you are comfortable with. Pick one who shares your sense of humour and the good lady finds attractive and comfortable with. The rest should come naturally.

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By *ovelifelovefuntimesMan
over a year ago

Where ever I lay my hat


"Thanks so

Much for all the replies! And a couple made us chuckle! We deffo favour the extra guy taking me to the bedroom with hubby to follow in ten. X"

Have done this a few times and always works really well. Love when the husband walks in to find his wife on her knees sucking cock before joining in.

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By *ad boy maverickMan
over a year ago

basildon

I Agree with NSA. Honesty and openess makes it better in the long run. And don't be easily offended.

Eg I met a couple we chatted lots before they came round. All was going well but as soon as I came she legged it to the bathroom. Didn't have a chance to recover. I was most disappointed. But people can be fickle.

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