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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

What are you thoughts around safe sex, would you go without condom?? xxx

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By *goodlengthMan
over a year ago

near Trowbridge

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Not for penetration but for oral I would

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Not for penetration but for oral I would"

This.

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By *isser36Man
over a year ago

fylde Coast

Have done before and would do again with a trusted partner. I've been on and off fab for over ten years and despite what the forums might have you belive there's alot more bareback going on than you think. In those 10 years I'd say at least 70 - 80% of the woman and couples I've spoken to were willing to go bare. At the end of the day an honest upfront conversion is all it takes to establish the rules of engagement and if all are clean/tested and happy about it then why bloody not I say!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

My experience is that many women like the feel of skin on skin! x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Penetration is a definite only hubby allowed the freedom. But oral yes

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By *otwifeandcuckCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We always said condom except for oral.

However over time its changed a little. With the right men.

Only gone bare once it turned me and S on immensely.

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

Only oral without ,unless it's a regular playmate we know and trust

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only oral without ,unless it's a regular playmate we know and trust "

I am in this camp...

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"My experience is that many women like the feel of skin on skin! x "

Not with some random man on fab though

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Not for penetration but for oral I would"
this for me x

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By *helroyCouple
over a year ago

Skegness

bear with our Friends only

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By *urvybeckiWoman
over a year ago

Enfield

Prefer it bare

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By *estMidsHotwifeCouple
over a year ago

Near Malvern

Always bare x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Only oral without ,unless it's a regular playmate we know and trust "

This

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By *he_virgin_maryWoman
over a year ago

Here, there and everywhere!


"Not for penetration but for oral I would"

Same here

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

Have a wank couldn't be any safer

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would only ever go bare with a long term partner. I’ve had the snip so pregnancy isn’t a problem but my sexual health is very important to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have a wank couldn't be any safer "

You wouldn’t be much of a bucka if you did that

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Only ever go bare with a trusted playmate and I get tested regularly x

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester


"What are you thoughts around safe sex, would you go without condom?? xxx "

Never without a condom

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Learnt my lesson the hard way so always glove up, still paying for him now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With singles, Always hats on! But, for that one regular who we get to know we went bare and our mmf’s were sooooo much better!

Couples, pretty much the same, if we stay in contact and meet regularly, depending on what we know about them (regular swingers or, like us, once in a blue moon!)

It’s been said a billion times on here but the only real “safe sex” is no sex at all

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

We're always surprised by how trusting people are and how many believe that couples are safe. Of course we understand that there's no such thing as 100% safe sex but in swinging 100% trustworthy is no guarantee either.

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Never.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

Only with my partner ,wouldn't trust anyone else.

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By *lwaysup4it69Couple
over a year ago

Kirkby in Ashfield

We love bareback fucking, yes there are risks but there are risk in life every day. We do not meet loads of people

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By *randMrsJones69Couple
over a year ago

Newcastle

Do people change the condoms between partners in a MFMF meet or engage in unprotected oral sex in a group scenario? This all poses an almost equal risk. If Mr goes with another woman while using a condom, then uses the same condom on his actual partner any potential infection will still carry on the condom.

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By *andy cane321Couple
over a year ago

Aylesbury


"What are you thoughts around safe sex, would you go without condom?? xxx "

I'd be more inclined to wear safety shoes, if you drop that bad boy on your foot you'll know about it. But each to their own

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up


"Do people change the condoms between partners in a MFMF meet or engage in unprotected oral sex in a group scenario? This all poses an almost equal risk. If Mr goes with another woman while using a condom, then uses the same condom on his actual partner any potential infection will still carry on the condom. "

If a man does not change his condom between partners there is a risk to the women involved. However it is not true to say that unprotected oral has the same risk factor

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By *anPsurreycoupleCouple
over a year ago

Surrey


"Not for penetration but for oral I would"

This is us

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By *urora1912Woman
over a year ago

Norfolk East anglia

Bare with my fwb as we're not meeting others

If there was others then safe always

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By *ayleedsMan
over a year ago

Leeds

This kind of thread makes me pmsl evry time I see it

So many say no not for oral but yes when it penetrative sex. So can you suddenly not catch any sti from licking and sucking but only from full sex

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters

I would say safe all the way. Unless we’ve had a conversation and everything agreed as mentioned above.

Of course without would be marvellous. No question

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Anyone like skin on skin? x

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By *hilliplisa790Couple
over a year ago

Paignton

Always safe sex for penetration but the guy can cum on tits or arse

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By *orbidden eastMan
over a year ago

london dodging electric scooters


"Always safe sex for penetration but the guy can cum on tits or arse"

Hmm indeed

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By *randMrsJones500Couple
over a year ago

london

always condom with fab meets regardless of how well we know them

oral without

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville


"Anyone like skin on skin? x "

No thanks not on a swinging site

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford

I always assumed condoms protected against pregnancy and std`s but not always the case.

I`m ok bare if everyone involved is washed and douched learn`t that in basic sex education.

I use water,anti semenal based lubes.

Know your sex playmates help too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"This kind of thread makes me pmsl evry time I see it

So many say no not for oral but yes when it penetrative sex. So can you suddenly not catch any sti from licking and sucking but only from full sex "

STIs can be passed on through oral sex but the risk is much lower than through penetrative sex (vaginal or anal). Also, the STIs that are the most problematic to health (hiv, syphallis) are not commonly passed on this way.

However, there is still a risk with oral, so it is worth having an STI conversation to discuss risk with partners before playing. Some people may find the risk acceptable, others not.

My own STI rules are very strict, but I will allow unprotected oral if I feel (after a frank conversation) that everyone is low risk.

Research, research, research folks!

Fay

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By *arakiss12TV/TS
over a year ago

Bedford


"This kind of thread makes me pmsl evry time I see it

So many say no not for oral but yes when it penetrative sex. So can you suddenly not catch any sti from licking and sucking but only from full sex

STIs can be passed on through oral sex but the risk is much lower than through penetrative sex (vaginal or anal). Also, the STIs that are the most problematic to health (hiv, syphallis) are not commonly passed on this way.

However, there is still a risk with oral, so it is worth having an STI conversation to discuss risk with partners before playing. Some people may find the risk acceptable, others not.

My own STI rules are very strict, but I will allow unprotected oral if I feel (after a frank conversation) that everyone is low risk.

Research, research, research folks!

Fay "

Well said

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

Safe sex unless I trust them and I’m in a relationship

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always assumed condoms protected against pregnancy and std`s but not always the case.

I`m ok bare if everyone involved is washed and douched learn`t that in basic sex education.

I use water,anti semenal based lubes.

Know your sex playmates help too.

"

I never knew that water washes away STI's. No more condoms for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I always assumed condoms protected against pregnancy and std`s but not always the case.

I`m ok bare if everyone involved is washed and douched learn`t that in basic sex education.

I use water,anti semenal based lubes.

Know your sex playmates help too.

I never knew that water washes away STI's. No more condoms for me. "

Water does not wash away sti's. Please dont dispose of your condoms.

Vaginal douching actually increases the risk of getting infections including STIs (your risk of catch hiv almost doubles). Thats because douching changes the delicate balance that your vagina achieves when its left alone.

The vagina is actually incredible at taking care of itself. Leave it well alone - just clean the outside (vulva) with a little soap and water.

And use condoms.

Fay x

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By *ananas57Couple
over a year ago

lake ariel

Oral only, everything else needs a condom

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Fancy some sex with condom? x

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By *hyguy999Man
over a year ago

Killarney

Interesting. Ever contracted anything. Hopefully consistently testing will make it safer

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By *imelesexeMan
over a year ago

Stevenage

Condoms for both oral and full sex for moi. Protected sex has become far more enjoyable after road testing a whole range of different condoms to find the perfect fit. Each to their own though it’s all down to personal choice

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes risk management although not sexy is vital to protect myself and my partner. It's about a balance of risk vs enjoyment. For us that is penetrative sex with other people condom's are vital. But oral is fine without. We also get tested. It's not 100% risk free but for me/us it's the best ballance of safety Vs enjoyment of sex with other. Obviously between ourselves there are no precautions.

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By *iverpool 2Couple
over a year ago

Liverpool

Tbh the amount of people who have safe sex only on profiles but have a lot of pictures of unprotected sex with numerous partners does surprise us still on here.

It’s as if people don’t want to admit they do bareback incase of being black listed by others

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By *3xDECouple
over a year ago

nottingham


"Tbh the amount of people who have safe sex only on profiles but have a lot of pictures of unprotected sex with numerous partners does surprise us still on here.

It’s as if people don’t want to admit they do bareback incase of being black listed by others "

We also noticed this. It’s a huge red flag in our eyes. Honesty is what we look for when asking people about ensuring we have safe sex.

I dont think it’s too much to ask for other to be more responsible for there actions

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