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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I am bit of regular on the forums and read often men can't get ignored or little attention on fab. I like to reassure some men that I go through similar issues where a nice looking guy flirts on fab with me but never pursue things further. All chat and no action. Constant ghosting.

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY


"I am bit of regular on the forums and read often men can't get ignored or little attention on fab. I like to reassure some men that I go through similar issues where a nice looking guy flirts on fab with me but never pursue things further. All chat and no action. Constant ghosting. "

Hi jasmine it's a real shame that there are men who ruin things for the genuine guys who are here for the right reasons I'd feel very lucky to have a friend like you xx

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"I am bit of regular on the forums and read often men can't get ignored or little attention on fab. I like to reassure some men that I go through similar issues where a nice looking guy flirts on fab with me but never pursue things further. All chat and no action. Constant ghosting.

Hi jasmine it's a real shame that there are men who ruin things for the genuine guys who are here for the right reasons I'd feel very lucky to have a friend like you xx"

Yeah I constantly see men saying how can they get women to respond etc when there's timewasting men just make me not want to speak to any man again in the fear they be like the rest. I been on fab for years, things has gotten alot woorse with the ghosting etc

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I decided clubs are the way forward as at least they are there already!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I am bit of regular on the forums and read often men can't get ignored or little attention on fab. I like to reassure some men that I go through similar issues where a nice looking guy flirts on fab with me but never pursue things further. All chat and no action. Constant ghosting.

Hi jasmine it's a real shame that there are men who ruin things for the genuine guys who are here for the right reasons I'd feel very lucky to have a friend like you xx"

^^ what he said ^^

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By *otnew16Man
over a year ago

Dartford

I’m sure you’ll get plenty of attention at a club, but I agree there are too many here now who spoil it for the genuine ones all too often. Good luck.

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By *IG G77Man
over a year ago

GATLEY


"I am bit of regular on the forums and read often men can't get ignored or little attention on fab. I like to reassure some men that I go through similar issues where a nice looking guy flirts on fab with me but never pursue things further. All chat and no action. Constant ghosting.

Hi jasmine it's a real shame that there are men who ruin things for the genuine guys who are here for the right reasons I'd feel very lucky to have a friend like you xx

Yeah I constantly see men saying how can they get women to respond etc when there's timewasting men just make me not want to speak to any man again in the fear they be like the rest. I been on fab for years, things has gotten alot woorse with the ghosting etc"

I know how you feel I've been ghosted too and been on fab a long time I'm sure we could put the world to rights jasmine

Your welcome to message me anytime x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ah the ghosting thing. Me playmates come along. This is a new social media after all, maybe they’ll come back round and do it all again.

Flirting is fun though isn’t it?

But if they’ve said more than just that, and they’ve made it clear they want more and then just never do anything, that’s something else. Which is pointless.

We’re adults, and if we can’t follow through with intentions when will we do it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it the 1st April

If that op is being ghosted I may as well call it a day a week a year

Flabbergasted

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Is it the 1st April

If that op is being ghosted I may as well call it a day a week a year

Flabbergasted "

No not a joke. Some or most Women do get ghosted on here. I get ghosted too many times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it the 1st April

If that op is being ghosted I may as well call it a day a week a year

Flabbergasted

No not a joke. Some or most Women do get ghosted on here. I get ghosted too many times"

Nope flabbergasted and discombobulated now

The world has gone mad.

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By *agicfingers1Man
over a year ago

near Brighton

Having just read your profile (and obviously a cheeky peek at your pics) I can't believe you get ghosted.....you sound pretty perfect to me and it would be an honour to talk to you

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By *upersonic SamMan
over a year ago

wigan

Your opinion may seem harsh on the face of it but I agree it is true. Yes, being male and single isn't easy on here but I'd imagine it strikes both ways. Avoid the here today and gone tomorrow's, ignore insults or ghosts as most are genuine and lovely. Happy fabbing peeps.

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"Your opinion may seem harsh on the face of it but I agree it is true. Yes, being male and single isn't easy on here but I'd imagine it strikes both ways. Avoid the here today and gone tomorrow's, ignore insults or ghosts as most are genuine and lovely. Happy fabbing peeps."

Maybe only give the single men with many genuine verifications a chance?

Mostly all men I chat to just talk the talk but not walk the walk. Time too precious for timewasters in my life. I can't mentally deal with being constantly let down neither.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

With legs like those theres no way I would time waste if you showed interest lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get more luck on I Instagram and Facebook than fab lol don't know why

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By *agicroundabout3100Couple
over a year ago

Camberley


"Is it the 1st April

If that op is being ghosted I may as well call it a day a week a year

Flabbergasted

No not a joke. Some or most Women do get ghosted on here. I get ghosted too many times"

Have to say we are quite astonished to hear that. Just formed the impression single ladies would find it easy to find playmates..... Agree with previous comments too, can’t understand why anyone would chat with you and then disappear!! Their loss x

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith

In the 10 years I’ve been in Fab, I’ve never ghosted anyone, or failed to turn up for an arranged meet. I have been let down by others though, and worse than that, seen the veris pop up after people met someone else, meaning I was ‘Plan b’……..not cool at all

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By *herryblossom_BJ OP   Woman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire


"In the 10 years I’ve been in Fab, I’ve never ghosted anyone, or failed to turn up for an arranged meet. I have been let down by others though, and worse than that, seen the veris pop up after people met someone else, meaning I was ‘Plan b’……..not cool at all "

Yes fab life is very tough. Surely club life be easier than this character assassination?

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