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By *coobyroo218 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

I know some women have two profiles one as a single and one as a couple, this is not my point.

My point is women advertising as single women only to be part of a couple, in the mix of the profile it will say things like

Husband will just watch or join in- obviously not single

I always play with partner-again obviously not single

Or the other one is her blah blah blah

then further down

Him blah blah blah

Very obviously not single

So why not just save everyone a lot of time and make the profile for a couple as thats what they are. I am not talking Fuckbuddies either as they could be asked to join as and when I am talking women who are quite obviously a couple.

It could be said they will get looked at more if they say they are single in the title etc which they will but it is so annoying when looking for a single woman and you keep reading single woman plus one.

I do not know how a profile is assessed by admin before it is allowed but surely if it says one thing but also says another it cannot be right so how does it get passed.

It is not just this site but every site for swingers/adult sex sites

Thoughts please and does it annoy you???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

agree, it should be one or the other, as it says, single = 1 person and couple, yep you guessed it = 2 people!!!

im going to like this thread to see what excuses they have,,,lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

1. Click on "report"

2. Click on "chosen wrong sex"

3. Write in box that you think the text reads as a couple not a single profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well i am actually single and i get lots of messages from so called "single fems", but yep you guessed it half way through the message they go on about hubby wanting to watch/join in...pisses me off no end!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i am actually single and i get lots of messages from so called "single fems", but yep you guessed it half way through the message they go on about hubby wanting to watch/join in...pisses me off no end!"

Ditto here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i am actually single and i get lots of messages from so called "single fems", but yep you guessed it half way through the message they go on about hubby wanting to watch/join in...pisses me off no end!

Ditto here "

and here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mmm and all the nice fem singletons so far away too

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By (user no longer on site)
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Report the profiles and admin will look at them

People can change the wording on their profiles whenever they like once they have joined so unless you report they can't do anything about it

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By *inkershoes69Woman
over a year ago

maidstone

and here

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i am actually single and i get lots of messages from so called "single fems", but yep you guessed it half way through the message they go on about hubby wanting to watch/join in...pisses me off no end!

Ditto here "

Ditto Here !!!!!

It's even worse if I meet another women as a "single" and then she tries to ask of her BF can come round to join in! If I'm looking for a single, especially another woman, then that's what I want!!

If I want a couple - when my mood and needs will be different, then I'll look for a couple.

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By *coobyroo218 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

Pleased I am not the only one feeling this way about them.

I know we can report them but normally I just get pissed off and close the profile and carry on looking knowing I have just wasted another couple of minutes of my life

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area


"I know some women have two profiles one as a single and one as a couple, this is not my point.

My point is women advertising as single women only to be part of a couple, in the mix of the profile it will say things like

Husband will just watch or join in- obviously not single

I always play with partner-again obviously not single

Or the other one is her blah blah blah

then further down

Him blah blah blah

Very obviously not single

So why not just save everyone a lot of time and make the profile for a couple as thats what they are. I am not talking Fuckbuddies either as they could be asked to join as and when I am talking women who are quite obviously a couple.

It could be said they will get looked at more if they say they are single in the title etc which they will but it is so annoying when looking for a single woman and you keep reading single woman plus one.

I do not know how a profile is assessed by admin before it is allowed but surely if it says one thing but also says another it cannot be right so how does it get passed.

It is not just this site but every site for swingers/adult sex sites

Thoughts please and does it annoy you???"

Done to get more meets maybe..

But we get stick the other way.. we are a married couple on here as couple and always play with us both there... but only with single guys.. hubby only ever plays with me at a meet... so only looking for guys to play with me at same time hubby is... yet we get so much from couples and women wanting to join us or hubby.. which we wouldnt get if it was me in a single profile.. I couldnt do that personally as i only want to play with hubby there and prefer people to know we are a couple.. but as with everything where profile is concerned you cant please everyone.. lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Mmm and all the nice fem singletons so far away too "

Ditto xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Click on "report"

2. Click on "chosen wrong sex"

3. Write in box that you think the text reads as a couple not a single profile.

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Click on "report"

2. Click on "chosen wrong sex"

3. Write in box that you think the text reads as a couple not a single profile.

"

I do that all the time as it really is obvious when someone is not really single

I did message a guy who had become single but didn't know how to change his profile from a couple to a single male not yet come across a female profile that was the same, in fact its mostly male ones I report

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Click on "report"

2. Click on "chosen wrong sex"

3. Write in box that you think the text reads as a couple not a single profile.

I do that all the time as it really is obvious when someone is not really single

I did message a guy who had become single but didn't know how to change his profile from a couple to a single male not yet come across a female profile that was the same, in fact its mostly male ones I report"

I just report any I see like that...don't even bother to let them know. If it's a genuine change in circumstances then some may not know they can't change, and I will state that in the report, but the only way to begin to solve the problem is for us all to report anything that isn't as advertised x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i am actually single and i get lots of messages from so called "single fems", but yep you guessed it half way through the message they go on about hubby wanting to watch/join in...pisses me off no end!"

Ditto here too

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By *EATHERLOVER02Man
over a year ago

manchester

Hard enough trying to find a lady on here without the couples nicking them too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I know some women have two profiles one as a single and one as a couple, this is not my point.

My point is women advertising as single women only to be part of a couple, in the mix of the profile it will say things like

Husband will just watch or join in- obviously not single

I always play with partner-again obviously not single

Or the other one is her blah blah blah

then further down

Him blah blah blah

Very obviously not single

So why not just save everyone a lot of time and make the profile for a couple as thats what they are. I am not talking Fuckbuddies either as they could be asked to join as and when I am talking women who are quite obviously a couple.

It could be said they will get looked at more if they say they are single in the title etc which they will but it is so annoying when looking for a single woman and you keep reading single woman plus one.

I do not know how a profile is assessed by admin before it is allowed but surely if it says one thing but also says another it cannot be right so how does it get passed.

It is not just this site but every site for swingers/adult sex sites

Thoughts please and does it annoy you???"

This is no different to couples accounts that are really single men, report, block, ignore, move on to next profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well i am actually single and i get lots of messages from so called "single fems", but yep you guessed it half way through the message they go on about hubby wanting to watch/join in...pisses me off no end!"

I second that. Times I've got excited about a mail from a "single fem" . Only to find the other half will be there. Never thought to report them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a single profile and a joint one too BUT on my single profile I play alone. Hubby knows about this and also has his own single one where he only plays alone.

We have had couples on our joint profile only wanting to play with me. I don't play with couples on my own and don't make out that I would.

I think profiles should be what they say.

Even if there are a large majority that don't even bother reading them lol

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By *radleyandRavenCouple
over a year ago

Herts

If you don't report them, nothing can be done about it.

The amount of single fem profiles we've seen that advertise themselves as single and then hide that little note at the bottom which says "I only play with my f.b/boyfriend" - so you're quite clearly NOT playing as a single then. -REPORT/BLOCK.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"1. Click on "report"

2. Click on "chosen wrong sex"

3. Write in box that you think the text reads as a couple not a single profile.

I do that all the time as it really is obvious when someone is not really single

I did message a guy who had become single but didn't know how to change his profile from a couple to a single male not yet come across a female profile that was the same, in fact its mostly male ones I report

I just report any I see like that...don't even bother to let them know. If it's a genuine change in circumstances then some may not know they can't change, and I will state that in the report, but the only way to begin to solve the problem is for us all to report anything that isn't as advertised x"

I only did it because he had something in his status asking for help however had he been under my preference age, I would have reported him without thinking about it

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By *coobyroo218 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

22 replies and not woman saying why they do this.

There must be a reason, it would be nice to know why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"22 replies and not woman saying why they do this.

There must be a reason, it would be nice to know why"

Because their hubby, fuck buddy or partner has told them not to! Have started a few threads on this subject mostly ended in me being shot down! A single bi fem should be just that..... Not my partner will be wanking in the corner of the room, then join in but don't worry he won't touch you!

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

What is admin saying about this????

On the over hand, how many single guys have put in the middle of they profile that their lady will be there????

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

I've kept my single profile, as has my partner, and we have a joint one too. Initially I did plan on continuing to meet alone, although have now changed my mind. However, I make that clear on my profile that I'm not looking to meet, and have kept my sole profile for keeping in touch with old friends, forums etc. That's ok isn't it?

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"What is admin saying about this????

"

Admin says to report the profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've kept my single profile, as has my partner, and we have a joint one too. Initially I did plan on continuing to meet alone, although have now changed my mind. However, I make that clear on my profile that I'm not looking to meet, and have kept my sole profile for keeping in touch with old friends, forums etc. That's ok isn't it? "

In my opinion, no it isn't , your no longer a single bi fem, and would come up in a search that you were. I mean no offence but have wasted lots of time on this type of profile. This is a swinging site and if you no longer swing as you say, then you should have the appropriate profile. Sorry but that's how I feel, and you did ask for people's opinions.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"I've kept my single profile, as has my partner, and we have a joint one too. Initially I did plan on continuing to meet alone, although have now changed my mind. However, I make that clear on my profile that I'm not looking to meet, and have kept my sole profile for keeping in touch with old friends, forums etc. That's ok isn't it?

In my opinion, no it isn't , your no longer a single bi fem, and would come up in a search that you were. I mean no offence but have wasted lots of time on this type of profile. This is a swinging site and if you no longer swing as you say, then you should have the appropriate profile. Sorry but that's how I feel, and you did ask for people's opinions."

The profile should really be hidden if its not being used to meet. Then people can chat and forum to their hearts content without coming up on searches.

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

Well I didn't think I was deceiving anyone as I'm quite clear on the profile that I'm not meeting at the moment (whether I'll change my mind in future I'm not sure), however hadn't considered I'd come up in searches.

Bearing that in mind I suppose hiding my profile is a good idea....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"22 replies and not woman saying why they do this.

There must be a reason, it would be nice to know why

Because their hubby, fuck buddy or partner has told them not to! Have started a few threads on this subject mostly ended in me being shot down! A single bi fem should be just that..... Not my partner will be wanking in the corner of the room, then join in but don't worry he won't touch you! "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

I read profiles and chat before meeting anyway so I wouldn't expect any extra person surprises on a meet. I'd probably enjoy it anyway...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I read profiles and chat before meeting anyway so I wouldn't expect any extra person surprises on a meet. I'd probably enjoy it anyway... "

Are you sure? A 6'6" giant with a cock to out do yours hiding in the wardrobe wouldn't worry you! ???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I didn't think I was deceiving anyone as I'm quite clear on the profile that I'm not meeting at the moment (whether I'll change my mind in future I'm not sure), however hadn't considered I'd come up in searches.

Bearing that in mind I suppose hiding my profile is a good idea...."

Just take off all the ticks on 'looking for' on your profile and you won't come up on any searches. I do that and I only get mail from people who see me on the forums. (I prefer to go looking, I don't like getting tons of mail.)

As for the OP, I think people have profiles as single fems because it gets them more views than a couple profile would. They think people will be happy to meet a bloke too even though they were actually looking for a single fem.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I came on this site as a single female. I have since met someone on here and we sometimes play as a couple. Note the word sometimes.

I can only assume someone reported me as my profile has been changed, not by me, to couple.

I find that frustrating as I'm not part of a permanent couple.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But you play.. Sometimes as a couple, do you not see the problem???

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came on this site as a single female. I have since met someone on here and we sometimes play as a couple. Note the word sometimes.

I can only assume someone reported me as my profile has been changed, not by me, to couple.

I find that frustrating as I'm not part of a permanent couple.

"

Do you have a couple profile for when you played together, or did you play as a couple via your single fem profile?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No I don't. Why can't I do both? I like variety. All that will happen is I'll need to create another profile as a single for when I want that. But surely a profile that explains you sometimes play alone and sometimes with another should suffice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Do both but .. Have 2 profiles ,shouldn't you have a single profile for when u want to play alone??? A profile says you are what it says on the tin.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And I am a single woman, who joined as a single woman, and still meets as a single woman.

But my profile now says otherwise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Then clearly ur not! Increasing ur font size tells me your on the defensive, there really is no need . I'm merely stating the obvious

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I came on this site as a single female. I have since met someone on here and we sometimes play as a couple. Note the word sometimes.

I can only assume someone reported me as my profile has been changed, not by me, to couple.

I find that frustrating as I'm not part of a permanent couple.

"

Can't see any reason why

Your profile and verifications make no mention of a partner.

Contact admin and ask them to change it back is your best bet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I didn't change font size. I'm on the mobile and have no idea how or if that's possible.

And I'm not defensive. I still meet people regardless of what my profile says.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've tried contacting admin, about a week ago, and nothing happened.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm not planning on being a single bi fem forever, please contact admin on my behalf to change my profile to a couple if I'm lucky!

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"And I am a single woman, who joined as a single woman, and still meets as a single woman.

But my profile now says otherwise. "

I doubt admin would change a profile based on what's on yours now.

Can only assume that at some point your profile said you meet as a couple or you've mailed someone saying you're part of a couple and one of these has been reported.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I assume the same. Live and learn I guess.

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales


"Well I didn't think I was deceiving anyone as I'm quite clear on the profile that I'm not meeting at the moment (whether I'll change my mind in future I'm not sure), however hadn't considered I'd come up in searches.

Bearing that in mind I suppose hiding my profile is a good idea....

Just take off all the ticks on 'looking for' on your profile and you won't come up on any searches. I do that and I only get mail from people who see me on the forums. (I prefer to go looking, I don't like getting tons of mail.)

As for the OP, I think people have profiles as single fems because it gets them more views than a couple profile would. They think people will be happy to meet a bloke too even though they were actually looking for a single fem.

"

Good idea, now I won't waste anyone's time by popping up in searches. Thanks.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Well I didn't think I was deceiving anyone as I'm quite clear on the profile that I'm not meeting at the moment (whether I'll change my mind in future I'm not sure), however hadn't considered I'd come up in searches.

Bearing that in mind I suppose hiding my profile is a good idea....

Just take off all the ticks on 'looking for' on your profile and you won't come up on any searches. I do that and I only get mail from people who see me on the forums. (I prefer to go looking, I don't like getting tons of mail.)

As for the OP, I think people have profiles as single fems because it gets them more views than a couple profile would. They think people will be happy to meet a bloke too even though they were actually looking for a single fem.

Good idea, now I won't waste anyone's time by popping up in searches. Thanks. "

xx

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By *coobyroo218 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


"I came on this site as a single female. I have since met someone on here and we sometimes play as a couple. Note the word sometimes.

I can only assume someone reported me as my profile has been changed, not by me, to couple.

I find that frustrating as I'm not part of a permanent couple.

"

I have read your profile and to me looking at it now it is so confusing. Title is a single lady it says you are a couple your veris say you are single but from over a year ago and now you are saying you are single but sometimes play as a couple.

Seems to me you would be better off deleting it and starting again with two profiles one nor you as k single and one for you and your partner as a couple that way when someone reads your profile they will know exactly what they are getting.

I read your profile and would pass it on by as it means nothing to what we would be looking for neither a couple nor a single.

Just my thoughts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well am single and my profile is simple, I don’t expect a social to go as planned as many profile have hidden agendas behind them as I have found out over the time, too many dishonest numptys who spoil it for the genuine people, being honest seems to be rare on site.

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By *adcowWoman
over a year ago

kirkcaldy

i report them for doing it and admin tell them to create a couples profile

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By *coobyroo218 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


" Well am single and my profile is simple, I don’t expect a social to go as planned as many profile have hidden agendas behind them as I have found out over the time, too many dishonest numptys who spoil it for the genuine people, being honest seems to be rare on site."

Yours is exactly how a single persons profile should read.

To the point know what you want and do not want and no mention of any other persons.

Lovely pics too shame your so far away

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By *coobyroo218 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey


" Well am single and my profile is simple, I don’t expect a social to go as planned as many profile have hidden agendas behind them as I have found out over the time, too many dishonest numptys who spoil it for the genuine people, being honest seems to be rare on site."

Yours is exactly how a single persons profile should read.

To the point know what you want and do not want and no mention of any other persons.

Lovely pics too shame your so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thanks

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By *nnie2009Couple
over a year ago

Blackpool

im married but hubby lets me meet single fems

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

At least more of the couple type single girls r real and not just sad men posing as bi fems to get some jollies. I had one girl single profile just had her hubby drive her here and he sat downstairs the whole time. I didnt mind that. Ditto another lovely girl whos bf stayed out of the room and seemed rather embarassed about the whole thing! But i agree when u start chatting and then its suddenlly can my fb watch or do this or that, it is annoying. Then again another lady i met had a fb that i actually liked and now play with them together too. The bottom line is single bi fems are rare. The less gay ones soon get snapped up by men and dont stay single long. Im staying single tho ladies and if i become a couple itll be with another fem

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By *r and mrs sanddancerCouple
over a year ago

BOLDON COLLIERY

we get the total opposite we only meet as a cpl but the no of couples where the fem only wants to play with the fem is unreal and then they get narky when we say we dont play that way

when asked what i the guy would should do we were told i should go to the pub

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This is how I look at it. Most males would love the idea of a ffm 3sum. Which is fine nothing wrong in that. But when a single bi fem states her partner will be there watching. I see it as being a possible crafty way of getting said 3sum.

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By *coobyroo218 OP   Couple
over a year ago

Guernsey

I think 99.9% of males would love it yes but how many with the excepsion of a few as in the post a couple above would actually sit there and just watch??

So unless they state in there profile exactly what they want cuckolding etc then they are not single end of.

Is a "crafty way" the right way, I thought all swinging was built around honesty on the most part there for a crafty way is not honest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i have my own profile and yes have a couple profile .but i do play with out my hubby so dose he .if we looking for fun together its on out couple profile .

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