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By *tarburst babydoll OP   Man
over a year ago

Dingwall

With getting so many inane messages from single guys and the fact we are not looking to meet guys we have not met before if we were to block single guys would guys that we have met and spoken to before still be able to message?

Also if we messaged a single guy would they be able to reply?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Instead of blocking, do these:

Tick off the "man" box in your "looking for" settings. Your profile still shows you're looking for guys too.

And you have that bit on your profile description giving guidelines on what you expect from a guy's message. Get rid of that too.

Do the above, and you'll be surprised at how much less guys message you.

Not only will you show up less in searches, because most people have the "I'm what they're looking for" box ticked on their filters, but you'll also find that a large chunk of them that do end up checking out your profile, will respect your choices and not message you.

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


" if we were to block single guys would guys that we have met and spoken to before still be able to message?

Also if we messaged a single guy would they be able to reply? "

I think the answer to the first part I've quoted is "No", but the answer to the second part is definitely "Yes"...

so once you've put the single man block up, all you'd need to do is message the previous contacts once, and then they'd be fine.

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By *aomilatteCouple
over a year ago

Midlands


"With getting so many inane messages from single guys and the fact we are not looking to meet guys we have not met before if we were to block single guys would guys that we have met and spoken to before still be able to message?

Also if we messaged a single guy would they be able to reply? "

Yes those you have messaged before will still be able to message you. Yes, if you message a guy they can reply.

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By *ak4uMan
over a year ago

chelmsford


"With getting so many inane messages from single guys and the fact we are not looking to meet guys we have not met before if we were to block single guys would guys that we have met and spoken to before still be able to message?

Also if we messaged a single guy would they be able to reply?

Yes those you have messaged before will still be able to message you. Yes, if you message a guy they can reply."

Even if the previous messages have been deleted or fallen off the bottom of the page?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Even if the previous messages have been deleted or fallen off the bottom of the page?"

Yes, once messaged as long as they are still using the same profile.

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By *tarburst babydoll OP   Man
over a year ago

Dingwall

Ok thanks very much guys

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