FabSwingers.com forum: Any tips on how to have more chats

By *hatstheprob OP Man
over a year ago

Stockport

Been using fab a while but still rarely get to speak to many people ?

Any tips or ways I might be able to talk to more people?

Have a great day fabbers

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

Go to an organised social and speak to 50+ people face to face.

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By *mokes n MirrorsCouple
over a year ago

Plymouth and Newcastle (sometimes)

Make a profile worth reading.

Have much better pics.

Not be married.

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By *rivervaderMan
over a year ago

bolton

"Make a profile worth reading.

Have much better pics.

Not be married."

That is the killer being honest and saying your married

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By *unguy_40.Man
over a year ago

Barnoldswick

"Make a profile worth reading.

Have much better pics.

Not be married."

I have to agree there

But im the same I get more messages from when my subscriptions running out but u have to consider the ratio of men and ladies on here they get inundated with 100s+ messages a day they can't keep up but it doesn't help with all the fakes and married men trying to get in either it gives the genuine ones a hard time but looking at ur profile it could do with more pics and more of a description of what u want and who u are

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"Make a profile worth reading.

Have much better pics.

Not be married."

I see you’ve lost the married bit but still can’t accommodate, wonder why!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The amount of messages women get on here is unreal, you need your profile to stand out to be in with a chance and the only picture you've got is of a cock.

I know when we look at profiles I'll check the pictures first to see if there's any attraction before starting a conversation otherwise it's pointless.

You'll get nowhere with a breif description and a cock shot.

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By *uriousBunnyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

"Make a profile worth reading.

Have much better pics.

Not be married."

Laughed out loud at this. The deadpan “Not be married”

That’ll do it!

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Be attractive to and what the person you are messaging is looking for

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By *uriousBunnyWoman
over a year ago

Derby

Agree with all of the above really, a cock as a profile pic is a bit off putting for me. Personally I’d rather see something more imaginative, a nice torso or a bum in sexy shorts/boxers/etc. I appreciate not every wants to put their face on their profile pic, I don’t, this ain’t Facebook. But there are nicer looking parts than your cock that would spike my curiosity to take another look.

I know my profile isn’t exactly top notch tho so maybe not best placed to comment!

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By *inky_CarpenterMan
over a year ago

Portsmouth

Pay attention to the details on peoples profiles, status updates etc. Look at their interest list and pictures and try to understand them before approaching. Respect their tastes and wishes, and don't aproach people who specify that they wouldn't be interested in you!

Open your conversation with a common interest, rather than innane chater or gushing compliments. Ask open questions that will lead to further conversation wherever possible. British people are generaly polite by default. So if you aren't offensive, most people (who read the message,) will feel obliged to respond, even if it's just a polite no thank you.

Your mindset is really important too. People can usualy see str8 through your motives and can tell if you're actually interested in chatting, or just looking to meet!

Lastly and most importantly- Don't send a Dick Pick!!!!

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

"Make a profile worth reading.

Have much better pics.

Not be married.

That is the killer being honest and saying your married"

Yeah because married cheats really are honest people ...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ditch to cock picture profile for a start.

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