FabSwingers.com forum: Verifications

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I’ve been on fabswingers for over a year in that time I haven’t had the time to arrange meets so was mainly just having a look around, Now that I want to start meeting people don’t want to because I have no verifications and think I’m fake, what would you suggest?

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

To get yourself to a club event or organised social as and when time allows, and interact with people in person.

Given your location you’re very lucky in that you have a number of clubs nearby.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

"I’ve been on fabswingers for over a year in that time I haven’t had the time to arrange meets so was mainly just having a look around, Now that I want to start meeting people don’t want to because I have no verifications and think I’m fake, what would you suggest?"

No magic bullet but could of course delete you profile and start again? I don’t think it’s that people think you’re fake more that there must be an underlying issue as to why you haven’t got veris and that might put people off.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Go to a club or social or have patience people do meet unverified…

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By *allySlinkyWoman
over a year ago

Leeds

I agree with starting a new profile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The inability to accommodate often turns people off too

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Yes I was thinking of starting fresh. Maybe it’s the username or picture, thanks for the reply.

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

"Yes I was thinking of starting fresh. Maybe it’s the username or picture, thanks for the reply."

Honestly, your user name would put us off (it's like something a 13yr old would pick) and a dick pic profile pic is always a good way to get instantly deleted from our inbox. Sorry.

You've nothing to lose by ditching the profile and starting again, and looking for socials/clubs to get a couple of in-face verifications.

(Bry)

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I respect the honesty & suggestions

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By *eano78Man
over a year ago

Worthing

Don't let it bother you. There are plenty of people who think it suspicious being here a while and not having verifications but the site is also littered with fake profiles and false verifications. For me, I wouldn't be looking for many verifications but we're all looking for our own thing...

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Don't let it bother you. There are plenty of people who think it suspicious being here a while and not having verifications but the site is also littered with fake profiles and false verifications. For me, I wouldn't be looking for many verifications but we're all looking for our own thing..."

Yeah you would think the less verifications the better, but I can see why people like to see verifications because there is so many fake profiles like you said. Thanks.

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West

"Yes I was thinking of starting fresh. Maybe it’s the username or picture, thanks for the reply."

Change your name and picture

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By *mMrbrightsideMan
over a year ago

wakefield

Start again and with a sensible username, then attend a few socials

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I’d actually keep the username as it’s got a nice ring to it

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

Treat this place as the swingers' site that it is.

Not a free sex site full of women gagging for it, as some fool possibly told you

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By *HaRiFMan
over a year ago

Beyond the shadows.

People with verifications struggle too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Cock picture profiles tell us all we need without even checking for veri’s so it’s irrelevant.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

A veri is easy to get if you want.

Ask on the cams for someone to cam veri you (though people don't seem to trust these as much)

Ask on the forums for someone to meet for a social veri meet. Plenty of people would be happy to meet, say hi and have a coffee. Just don't go in expecting it to be anything more.

Go to a social event, and chat to people. You'll get loads of veri's and may make some friends. Birmingham has a great one with UpTheBrum_Socials (seach for their profile for details), but there are plenty more nearby like Coventry, Warwickshire, Lichfield, etc.

Go to a club. They are great fun (as long as you go not expecting sex). It's more daunting and can be more difficult to get chatting than a social event, especially as a single guy.

But as others have said. Veris aren't everything and I think there is more that will put people off. But it's all resolvable, so good luck with it.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks! You have all give me some great reply’s that I will put into practice, didn’t realise the forum could be so helpful.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

delete your profile and start anew.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Have you tried phone chats? That's usually an early way to build trust - and then of course offer the chance to meet socially.

Unfortunately singles males are 5 a penny on here and so you have great competition buy everybody starts somewhere so unless someone gives you the total and utter creeps why not take a chance on a newbie?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Yeah you would think the less verifications the better... "

Curious why you would think this, OP?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yeah you would think the less verifications the better, but I can see why people like to see verifications because there is so many fake profiles like you said. Thanks. "

We discount people with lots of verifications, but that's our personal choice.

I do agree that your user name and profile pick would lead us to scroll by. Maybe a picture that's more suggestive, a mid torso shot with trousers undone would be one idea. Leave something to the imagination, but enough to draw people in.

Good luck.

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Yeah you would think the less verifications the better, but I can see why people like to see verifications because there is so many fake profiles like you said. Thanks.

We discount people with lots of verifications, but that's our personal choice.

Good luck. "

I’m curious what you class as “too many verifications”? Surely having plenty shows that people make the effort to partake in and get the most of this lifestyle? Not all veris are necessarily play ones…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I dont think ide ditch the profile as some wont meet newbies. I wont as most of them are join and go merchants. Become site supported and then you can change your user name. Place some pictures in public view. And yes ditch the cock pic. Look around and get some ideas from others profils.

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By *nimaginativeUsernameMan
over a year ago

Rochester, Kent

"I dont think ide ditch the profile as some wont meet newbies. I wont as most of them are join and go merchants. Become site supported and then you can change your user name. Place some pictures in public view. And yes ditch the cock pic. Look around and get some ideas from others profils."

I totally agree with this. New profiles often struggle, and you can become a silver site member for over one month for just £5 via a one-off text. This’ll enable you to change your username (if you want to). Then tweak the profile pics as previously suggested, and maybe ask someone local to either video-call with you (or meet for a quick chat) so you can get verified.

Someone might help you out, there are some site members who are happy to meet decent people for a 1to1 social.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Yeah you would think the less verifications the better, but I can see why people like to see verifications because there is so many fake profiles like you said. Thanks.

We discount people with lots of verifications, but that's our personal choice.

Good luck. "

I find discounting someone for having lots odd and trying to understand why.

Does it mean that someone you would have discounted for having lots, could just hide them and you might consider them?

What if they are mainly social (like mine as I help with a social event)?

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