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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bless him lol

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

Lmfao ,what a sweet talking bastard

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By *ana_nana_MATTMAN!Man
over a year ago

Haywood Village, Weston-super-Mare

Smoooooooooth

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

Ohhh you got to laugh, amazing what some men can think other people want to hear.

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By *riendly older leggy wifeCouple
over a year ago

london

He,s a keeper

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By *appytochatMan
over a year ago

Deep in the New Forest

Did you secretly keep him on your Hotlist

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

Haha, guess he got carried away after the first 2 messages!

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By *amesy6918Man
over a year ago

newry

Sometimes you have to laugh! Too much porn being watched!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Twat. Adding an X... Too keen. Treat em mean

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot

Thanks for all of the supportive replies. I will not have my partner treated as piece of meat. Clearly he has no understanding of what a Dom/sub dynamic or indeed the swinging scene, is all about.

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

Wait, are you telling me women don't want their holes wrecked, destroyed or ruined?

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By *ndauntedMan
over a year ago

wilts


""Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

"

The grammar alone (or lack thereof) will give me a sleepless night.

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


""Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

The grammar alone (or lack thereof) will give me a sleepless night."

Absolutely

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

That must have been a heck of a drop in standard from message 2....

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Honestly some people are just unbelievable…. And then they wonder why they don’t get responses or anyone wanting to meet them

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By *ysteriousgirl97Woman
over a year ago

Coventry


"Honestly some people are just unbelievable…. And then they wonder why they don’t get responses or anyone wanting to meet them "

The worst bit is when they don't have a clue what they are doing wrong and come to the forums to rant about how they can't get a meet

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

[Removed by poster at 11/07/22 22:11:01]

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"That must have been a heck of a drop in standard from message 2...."

Haha, I’m intrigued as to what the first 2 messages were now!!

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"The worst bit is when they don't have a clue what they are doing wrong and come to the forums to rant about how they can't get a meet "

And then they still don’t take the advice when we try and steer them in the right direction. They only have themselves to blame… they are lost causes

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"The worst bit is when they don't have a clue what they are doing wrong and come to the forums to rant about how they can't get a meet

And then they still don’t take the advice when we try and steer them in the right direction. They only have themselves to blame… they are lost causes "

Indeed Samantha. He actually looked good and had a good profile. But messed it up. Oh well plenty of others out there I am sure.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"That must have been a heck of a drop in standard from message 2....

Haha, I’m intrigued as to what the first 2 messages were now!! "

Get a tent and i'll smash her back doors in?

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By *amantha_JadeWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Indeed Samantha. He actually looked good and had a good profile. But messed it up. Oh well plenty of others out there I am sure. "

Well he only has himself to blame… Heaven forbid you’d want to be spoken to with a bit of respect. Sure you guys won’t be short of offers!

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"Indeed Samantha. He actually looked good and had a good profile. But messed it up. Oh well plenty of others out there I am sure.

Well he only has himself to blame… Heaven forbid you’d want to be spoken to with a bit of respect. Sure you guys won’t be short of offers! "

Well thank you

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Can’t help thinking some of the posts on here are more cringy, blocking material.

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By *inger_SnapWoman
over a year ago

Hampshire/Dorset

Grim.

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


""Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

The grammar alone (or lack thereof) will give me a sleepless night."

He will kick himself for rushing that message out on his tea break……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sticking up for him but i have seen many women post those words and worse in the bio?

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By *mMrbrightsideMan
over a year ago

wakefield

Seen a lot of this on the forums lately

Guys or should I say children playing the big I am

Couples also need to choose wisely like op did as any potential playmate could take over or ruin the dynamics

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

I'm amazed his profile looked ok...to end up writing that ...

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills


"Seen a lot of this on the forums lately

Guys or should I say children playing the big I am

Couples also need to choose wisely like op did as any potential playmate could take over or ruin the dynamics "

Lost the couples perspective from a single male.

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By *issmorganWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

He will be starting a post soon saying how he was blocked and calling you guys time wasters

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By *oroRick1027Man
over a year ago

Middlesbrough

To be fair, I've had a message from a couple looking for 2 guys because he said he wanted to make her airtight. Lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

What a charmer, how could anyone resist!

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By *ilffadMan
over a year ago

swansea

Good lord!

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By *cruffymooWoman
over a year ago

Skelmersdale


"Honestly some people are just unbelievable…. And then they wonder why they don’t get responses or anyone wanting to meet them "

Totally

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"To be fair, I've had a message from a couple looking for 2 guys because he said he wanted to make her airtight. Lol"

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By *omsubdevon OP   Couple
over a year ago

Newton Abbot


"Not sticking up for him but i have seen many women post those words and worse in the bio?"

Perhaps if our profile had read as "I want a guy to fill both her holes" I may have had some sympathy with him and agree with you. But it doesn't. So I don't have any sympathy for him and I disagree with you.

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By *mMrbrightsideMan
over a year ago

wakefield


"Seen a lot of this on the forums lately

Guys or should I say children playing the big I am

Couples also need to choose wisely like op did as any potential playmate could take over or ruin the dynamics

Lost the couples perspective from a single male.

"

100% agree, he was supposed to be there to add to everyone’s pleasure not his own and didn’t even get chance to get to know op

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By *oiluvfunMan
over a year ago

Penrith


"He will be starting a post soon saying how he was blocked and calling you guys time wasters "

No way! Two sides to every story? Who knew……

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

Ahh the silver tongued smoothie … instant panty dropper lines right there …

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By *otMe66Man
over a year ago

Terra Firma

Have you let the message sender know you are serving them up as the forum main course?

I agree the message is crude, but we only have one side of the story. How did it get from the first 2 messages to disaster, in the eyes of you, the op?

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By *aunchy RaccoonsCouple
over a year ago

Exeter


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

Going by the 3rd message, how the frig did he even get to a 3rd message?

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By *appytaffWoman
over a year ago

blackwood


"Thanks for all of the supportive replies. I will not have my partner treated as piece of meat. Clearly he has no understanding of what a Dom/sub dynamic or indeed the swinging scene, is all about."

Trouble is there are way too many on this site thst think women are just pieces of meat

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

I'm surprised this thread is still here at it's against forum rules to share private messages.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

With so many age ranges set below 50 I think that's the average type of reply you would get, no respect, no manners and inability to form a meaninful sentence.

All good if all you're after is a big young cock that will take simple instructions, will grunt occasionally and scratch an itch but there is so much more to be gained with a more mature gent

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Have you let the message sender know you are serving them up as the forum main course?

I agree the message is crude, but we only have one side of the story. How did it get from the first 2 messages to disaster, in the eyes of you, the op?

"

I agree the message is crude, but I’m also still convinced it’s against forum and site rules to name and shame or even post what is in a DM.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

You'd really hope guys would have some decorum and realise in no way, shape or form would that work!

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By *ennylewis2016Couple
over a year ago

Birmingham

Very true. We get so many messages saying the same things.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a bloke messaging my wife on here

He sent a few pics of him in action

Mrs asked who the girl in the pictures was (girlfriend / meet etc)

He replied

Just some slut I picked up

Needless to say ant plans were cancelled and he was blocked.

Have a little respect guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've had similar just block and move on

Mrs

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever

The x at the end was a sweet touch though, bless him

I love how some people provide an organic, uncomplicated filter on themselves. Saves us a lot of time.

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By *hropsGuy69Man
over a year ago

telford

Love this

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By *uy4swingingMan
over a year ago

Gloucestershire

They learn this unacceptable language from extreme porn.

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By *ackformore100Man
over a year ago

Tin town


"With so many age ranges set below 50 I think that's the average type of reply you would get, no respect, no manners and inability to form a meaninful sentence.

All good if all you're after is a big young cock that will take simple instructions, will grunt occasionally and scratch an itch but there is so much more to be gained with a more mature gent "

Yes, they would decorate her holes in fairy lights and glitter instead of ruining them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

Nice to see you're picky

Do you usually just take two messages to agree to meet

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton


"With so many age ranges set below 50 I think that's the average type of reply you would get, no respect, no manners and inability to form a meaninful sentence.

All good if all you're after is a big young cock that will take simple instructions, will grunt occasionally and scratch an itch but there is so much more to be gained with a more mature gent "

This is not true, I have had my share of disgusting behaviour from many in their 40s and 50s plus.. And I would prefer someone that took instruction when needed than them tell me they knew better abiut my body, due to their age... Crappy behaviour is not age dependent

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By * plus SCouple
over a year ago

newcastle

We get the same occasionally. One of the best was addressed to my husband-

“You can sit and watch as I destroy your little slag of a wife and ruin her for you!”

Words fail me!

Clearly our profile explains our relationship dynamics, obviously these types of messages come from men who see a pair of boobs on the profile picture and panic type, rather than those who read the profile before composing a message. Delete and block.

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By *eeliciouschaosWoman
over a year ago

Wherever


"Thanks for all of the supportive replies. I will not have my partner treated as piece of meat. Clearly he has no understanding of what a Dom/sub dynamic or indeed the swinging scene, is all about.

Trouble is there are way too many on this site thst think women are just pieces of meat "

Unfortunately, that’s true.

I’ve been recently told exactly that, straight in my face.

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By *exymarvelMan
over a year ago

cardiff


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

A right charmer lmao. Bet he really got you going with his vulgar chat lines

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"With so many age ranges set below 50 I think that's the average type of reply you would get, no respect, no manners and inability to form a meaninful sentence.

All good if all you're after is a big young cock that will take simple instructions, will grunt occasionally and scratch an itch but there is so much more to be gained with a more mature gent "

Ahhh okay men below 50 have no manners or respect.

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By *exy Black JenWoman
over a year ago

London/Eastbourne weekends


"They learn this unacceptable language from extreme porn. "

I agree!...they then think thats how you interact with women...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

Imagine writing this! Come on guys pick your game up.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Thanks for all of the supportive replies. I will not have my partner treated as piece of meat. Clearly he has no understanding of what a Dom/sub dynamic or indeed the swinging scene, is all about.

Trouble is there are way too many on this site thst think women are just pieces of meat "

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By *ellinever70Woman
over a year ago

Ayrshire

I think perhaps some men see posts by men in couples using these kind of expressions and take their lead from that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He must of got over excited lol Happens alot to us after a few messages.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

Does this kind of response happen often?

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By *ady GoodwitchWoman
over a year ago

Witchery wish lane

No lol do you know how much hard work it is to keep our holes tight lol

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

To be fair we prefer people do say these things and keep their opinion unfiltered. Helps to know who to meet and who to avoid.

So, please, please, please guys just say what you think.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair we prefer people do say these things and keep their opinion unfiltered. Helps to know who to meet and who to avoid.

So, please, please, please guys just say what you think."

Totally this

Let's not curb or remove the most effect self filtering lol

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot. "

Oh dear, that is not good.

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By *adbod52Man
over a year ago

south east

Does he have a job writing greeting cards

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By *untogetherCouple
over a year ago

Malaga, Spain, Not in U. K.


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot.

Does this kind of response happen often? "

Oh honey, you would be amazed at some of the messages people send!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"To be fair we prefer people do say these things and keep their opinion unfiltered. Helps to know who to meet and who to avoid.

So, please, please, please guys just say what you think."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Fellas

If a couple are interested in letting you join them in the bedroom don't write shit like this in the 3rd message:

"Hotel could be fun so proper 3 sum ruin her holes x"

Deleted, blocked and no way will you be meeting us. Idiot.

Does this kind of response happen often?

Oh honey, you would be amazed at some of the messages people send! "

I can imagine…. I guess the terrible messages get ignored just as much as the polite/ respectful ones do… just with a different feeling

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

Not only are these kind of messages vulgar but even more so is that fact the guys will send the same message over, and over, and over. Literally never learning from their mistakes.

We get the same guys messaging us over and over with the same message. You'd think they'd learn from the lack of response but apparently not.

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By *hil39Man
over a year ago

Dagenham

I don't think I could even bring myself to say hat no matter how many messages back and forth, I always try to be polite maybe a bit "flirty" after several messages IF the conversation seems to be heading that way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know I shouldn't laugh but I did

Mrs

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