FabSwingers.com forum: Kissing on a meet. Yes or no?

By *orny_lifeguard OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

Met a few women now where they don’t want to kiss.

I find it strange. Where do you stand?

For me it just heightens the experience and increases the sexual tension.

Are you one that doesn’t kiss on a meet? Love to know the reason.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North

Has to be kissing unless you are bad at it

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

Definitely kissing. It's very erotic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Has to be kissing unless you are bad at it "

Agree fully. kissing for me is a huge part of the foreplay and such a turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No thanks

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By *entDomMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood, Kent

Funny isn't it. A girl/woman would meet a guy on a night out and kiss him but not fuck him, yet they'd fuck him and not kiss him.

Strange logic

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A definite yes!

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By *JstarsoloWoman
over a year ago

Wombwell, Barnsley

Love to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I love a kiss

Mrs

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By *orny_lifeguard OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

"No thanks "

How come? Why don’t you kiss on a meet?

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

No kissing no meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks

How come? Why don’t you kiss on a meet?"

I don’t enjoy it with randoms.

I love it with a partner that I’m in a loving relationship with. I’m not looking for romance and intimacy from a meet, just scratching the occasional itch.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’m a fan of kissing as foreplay, I’d have trouble having sex without it

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"Met a few women now where they don’t want to kiss.

I find it strange. Where do you stand?

For me it just heightens the experience and increases the sexual tension.

Are you one that doesn’t kiss on a meet? Love to know the reason. "

You find it strange? Do you always find it strange if someone doesn't want the same things as you from sex? Or perhaps strange if they want something that you don't?

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"No thanks

How come? Why don’t you kiss on a meet?

I don’t enjoy it with randoms.

I love it with a partner that I’m in a loving relationship with. I’m not looking for romance and intimacy from a meet, just scratching the occasional itch. "

Exactly this, although I do admit that I really enjoy kissing other women.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would always kiss on a private meet but never in clubs….

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

100% yes. I couldn't meet without kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

And then I had the worst case of tonsillitis and stopped kissing except for my usual

Partner

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would meet just for a sexy snog

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks

How come? Why don’t you kiss on a meet?

I don’t enjoy it with randoms.

I love it with a partner that I’m in a loving relationship with. I’m not looking for romance and intimacy from a meet, just scratching the occasional itch. "

Do you not think it heightens the meet, even if its only an itch?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a must for us.

We know it's not for some and that's cool but if we know in advance there's no kissing, there's no meet. Oh and what's that all about, ok for f/f to kiss but no m/f kissing. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks

How come? Why don’t you kiss on a meet?

I don’t enjoy it with randoms.

I love it with a partner that I’m in a loving relationship with. I’m not looking for romance and intimacy from a meet, just scratching the occasional itch.

Do you not think it heightens the meet, even if its only an itch?"

No because it’s not something that enjoy unless I’m emotionally attached to the person or even better, deeply in love.

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Not worried either way tbh. Kissing is alright but not essential for me

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By *weet and SpiceCouple
over a year ago

Around the Midlands

Yes but only if the connection is right

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"Met a few women now where they don’t want to kiss.

I find it strange. Where do you stand?

For me it just heightens the experience and increases the sexual tension.

Are you one that doesn’t kiss on a meet? Love to know the reason. "

We don't kiss on a meet.

It's not something we want to do with our casual partners.

Why do you want to know the reason?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, love to be kissed

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For us, if the other party/parties have a rule for no kissing we don't meet.

We accept everyone has their boundaries but for us kissing is a massive part of sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find kissing intimate…..all sex play is fine but kissing is for me and my partner. Strange I know….

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By *tagvixen40Couple
over a year ago

Sheffield

"Met a few women now where they don’t want to kiss.

I find it strange. Where do you stand?

For me it just heightens the experience and increases the sexual tension.

Are you one that doesn’t kiss on a meet? Love to know the reason. "

It's not for me, I really don't like it. Not that that's just the case for meets, I just don't like it in general.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is a big part of sex for us, we've met couples that don't kiss and it just doesn't feel right. I (Mr) love giving oral too and theres nothing better than going down on a woman and then she taste's herself from your mouth and face

Without kissing I feel it takes half the fun away

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By *ownwithafeatherMan
over a year ago

Watford

I find there can be an added air of sexual excitement in dates where it's just sex and no kissing. However other in other situations kissing adds to the overall experience.

For me it depends on the expectations of the meet.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes! If I can't kiss or there's bad kissing, I am out!

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

Kissing is really important to me.

I love passion, and kissing to me is one of the most passionate acts, and is also the act that turns me on the most. Without it, sex would lose it's passion and be too mechanical. At that point I may as well just stay at home and have a wank.

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By *eventhheaven2022Couple
over a year ago

accrington

Oh yes kissing is a must

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We wouldn’t meet anybody whom doesn’t kiss. Hell if folk can insert/ accept another persons genitalia in whatever orifice….. can’t see why they can’t kiss!

The O’s

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don’t kiss. Some won’t like that but that’s our boundaries.

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By *ingle ex cuckMan
over a year ago

chester

Never on a first meet

Second meet blow a kiss

Third meet kiss hand

Fourth kiss cheek

Only then if your entirely sure you like them should kiss on lips

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wouldn’t meet anybody whom doesn’t kiss. Hell if folk can insert/ accept another persons genitalia in whatever orifice….. can’t see why they can’t kiss!

The O’s"

Maybe they don’t enjoy kissing but they do enjoy having something in whatever orifice?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Definitely kissing

Lots of kissing

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

No kissing means no meet for me.

I can't imagine sex without kisses it would just be wrong.

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By *leasureseekers123Couple
over a year ago

Hythe

No kissing no sex for us. But everyone’s different- that’s what makes us all unique

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have to kiss… it builds passion xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Kissing is really important to me.

This totally agree.

Yes it's not for you, but meeting without kissing does nothing for me.

I suppose like alot of sexual acts it's the person's personal choice.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’d need good chemistry & connection to want to kiss any way. But if any kissing wasn’t good I’d never go further. Kissing always seems a good indicator of any spark and how good the rest may be. Great kissing usually equals great sex.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We wouldn’t meet anybody whom doesn’t kiss. Hell if folk can insert/ accept another persons genitalia in whatever orifice….. can’t see why they can’t kiss!

The O’s

Maybe they don’t enjoy kissing but they do enjoy having something in whatever orifice? "

Absolutely and each to their own. We get that, but our ‘own’ is ……. Snoggers

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally yes but completely respect other’s boundaries and certainly wouldn’t simply expect to.

It’s not a deal breaker either way x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

Yes

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By *hellebelleWoman
over a year ago

ashford

Kissing is very important for me personally.. so it is a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing has to be involved

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing and lots of it for me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do. "

Hahaha…..’a sex act’

So I carry out a sex act on the mother in law every Sunday morning.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do. "

We don’t do it because we feel sex is just sex and kissing is more intimate so we keep that for us.

We’ve only ever had one person say it was a deal breaker so I don’t think it’s as big a problem as some on here make out.

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By *ateniteCouple
over a year ago

Youghal

"No kissing no meet "

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Hahaha…..’a sex act’

So I carry out a sex act on the mother in law every Sunday morning.

Do you tongue your mother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No kissing no meet for us

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do. "

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends on the female/couple. Some people want full in seduction, snogging passion and kissing. Others want a good hard fucking without the intimacy of kissing.

Everyone draws their own line between love and sex and kissing comes down on either side of it depending on who you are.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely, we love kissing

xxx

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do. "

It's not unique to kissing. When I said I don't really care about oral and think it's overrated, plenty of people asked why or said it's because I hadn't had a good BJ.

People just seem to struggle with the idea that not everyone is the same.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Hahaha…..’a sex act’

So I carry out a sex act on the mother in law every Sunday morning.

You snog your mother in law? Each to their own

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Depends on the female/couple. Some people want full in seduction, snogging passion and kissing. Others want a good hard fucking without the intimacy of kissing.

Everyone draws their own line between love and sex and kissing comes down on either side of it depending on who you are. "

Exactamundo

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide! "

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual. "

*see

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Hahaha…..’a sex act’

So I carry out a sex act on the mother in law every Sunday morning.

You snog your mother in law? Each to their own "

Twenty years ago I would’ve love to

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual. "

Grim? That's a bit harsh.

I'd say beautiful, but everyone is different.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual.

Grim? That's a bit harsh.

I'd say beautiful, but everyone is different. "

I personally don’t enjoy seeing full on snogging in the street but I just look the other way.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual.

Grim? That's a bit harsh.

I'd say beautiful, but everyone is different.

I personally don’t enjoy seeing full on snogging in the street but I just look the other way. "

Saying that, I’ve only ever seen d*unken people snogging outside clubs at night and even then only a handful of times. If they were stood snogging in the middle of Asda, I think it may cause a reaction.

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By * and R cple4Couple
over a year ago

swansea

I don’t understand why people just can’t accept that everyone is different we kiss but we would never ask someone to explain their reasons as to why they don’t kiss .

We hardly see any kissing in group play and have never seen anyone walk out due to no kissing .I call bullshit on the amount of men that would supposedly turn down a meet due to no kissing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual.

*see"

Sexual and sex act are not interchangeable. They are NOT the same thing. You specifically said kissing was a sex act. Stroking someone’s thigh is sexual but it isn’t a sex act. You could argue that kissing is sexual but that doesn’t make it a sex act.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don’t understand why people just can’t accept that everyone is different we kiss but we would never ask someone to explain their reasons as to why they don’t kiss .

We hardly see any kissing in group play and have never seen anyone walk out due to no kissing .I call bullshit on the amount of men that would supposedly turn down a meet due to no kissing..

It’s ALWAYS the way on these threads. As if there’s something wrong with people who don’t enjoy it. As I was trying to say, the same lack of acceptance isn’t applied to other activities that you’d carry out with a sexual partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual.

*see

Ok, it’s an act that is sexual, better?

It’s a sexual activity, better?

The point remains even if you don’t agree with the terminology,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Met a few women now where they don’t want to kiss.

I find it strange. Where do you stand?

For me it just heightens the experience and increases the sexual tension.

Are you one that doesn’t kiss on a meet? Love to know the reason. "

I’ll be honest, as newbies to the scene it’s not something we’d thought about. However I (F, Mrs) can’t imagine being intimate with anyone without kissing them? It’s interesting reading everyone else’s thoughts on this actually

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Much prefer to kiss but always respectful of couples boundaries if they don't. Would never refuse to play if it's non kiss meet.

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By *hrobinhoodMan
over a year ago

arnold, Nottingham

Depends on the connection

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely into kissing, but not essential for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely if there is a connection

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Hahaha…..’a sex act’

So I carry out a sex act on the mother in law every Sunday morning.

In the context of this discussion it's a sex act. I'm assuming you don't kiss your mother in law as a prelude to sex

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Hahaha…..’a sex act’

So I carry out a sex act on the mother in law every Sunday morning.

In the context of this discussion it's a sex act. I'm assuming you don't kiss your mother in law as a prelude to sex"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No thanks

How come? Why don’t you kiss on a meet?

I don’t enjoy it with randoms.

I love it with a partner that I’m in a loving relationship with. I’m not looking for romance and intimacy from a meet, just scratching the occasional itch. "

This !!!

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By *otjustacuntWoman
over a year ago

basildon

100% I’m kissing my meet, if I feel a connection obviously. Otherwise I make my excuses and leave. I won’t have sex with someone without kissing them first. Kissing is the ultimate foreplay in my opinion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think any man would realistically turn down a hot women because they can't kiss utter bollocks .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Hahaha…..’a sex act’

So I carry out a sex act on the mother in law every Sunday morning.

In the context of this discussion it's a sex act. I'm assuming you don't kiss your mother in law as a prelude to sex"

I’m quite sure that you know I wasn’t actually being serious

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Hahaha…..’a sex act’

So I carry out a sex act on the mother in law every Sunday morning.

In the context of this discussion it's a sex act. I'm assuming you don't kiss your mother in law as a prelude to sex

I’m quite sure that you know I wasn’t actually being serious"

I do know that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have on mine,husband was ok with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's a must for me but unfortunately lots don't

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In all honesty, it should be in the interest check list, along with anal, water sports etc

So people can see from the off and make their choice, whether to pursue.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty, it should be in the interest check list, along with anal, water sports etc

So people can see from the off and make their choice, whether to pursue."

Agree

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By *romagefraisWoman
over a year ago

Sunderland

I didn't know not kissing someone was a thing until I came on here. It's the question I'm asked most by blokes on here I'm talking to.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty, it should be in the interest check list, along with anal, water sports etc

So people can see from the off and make their choice, whether to pursue.

Agree

Also Agree, best cleared up sooner rather than later.

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By *o30Woman
over a year ago

Lincoln

Kissing is a big turn on for me so its a must

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By *emptusboth777Couple
over a year ago

oxford

Definitely yes, kissing tells you so much x

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By *hosewhomgonakedCouple
over a year ago

Scotland

Is a yes from us both, wouldn't really enjoy sex with someone the same without kissing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a different perspective, why on earth would complete strangers want to kiss??

Some say its passionate etc, but surely people only get that great feeling of passion if there is at least some sort of attraction.

To have kissing as a Given is something we can't understand.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find kissing intimate…..all sex play is fine but kissing is for me and my partner. Strange I know….

Not strange, that's exactly how we feel about kissing. It's intimate and we prefer it to be

Between us.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find kissing intimate…..all sex play is fine but kissing is for me and my partner. Strange I know….

Not strange, that's exactly how we feel about kissing. It's intimate and we prefer it to be

Between us.

Completely agree

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

I love kissing. I do know one lady in a couple that won’t.

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

100% yes, love the passion

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By *Starlord69XMan
over a year ago

Plymouth

Have to kiss on a meet sex feels weird and robotic when you don't kiss, appreciate it's not for everyone but I probably wouldn't want to meet if kissing was off the table

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"From a different perspective, why on earth would complete strangers want to kiss??

Some say its passionate etc, but surely people only get that great feeling of passion if there is at least some sort of attraction.

To have kissing as a Given is something we can't understand.

I’d never fuck someone unless there was attraction though! I get those who don’t like to kiss, they’re the ones I’d avoid though!

At the end of the day, different people need different things to be sexually stimulated.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Thank goodness everyone is different. It'd make this website socially acceptable & boring and noone wants that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think the kissing demonstrates a personal attraction which I think makes for a better meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We both prefer if kissing is part of a meet with another couple.

We also understand the flip side because when we are alone kissing is one of the most important parts of our private/sex life.

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By *averick86xxxMan
over a year ago

lincoln

Kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"We both prefer if kissing is part of a meet with another couple.

We also understand the flip side because when we are alone kissing is one of the most important parts of our private/sex life.

And I’m 100% convinced that I’d want kissing to be a thing here !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Greatest honour is if in a first meet there is no kissing but on a second meet the rules are changed - sign of acceptance and enjoyment

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the kissing demonstrates a personal attraction which I think makes for a better meet

Get what you saying but to have it as a potential deal breaker of meeting someone of they say they don't, implies that kissing has to be a forgone conclusion as a must, before even setting eyes on eachother.?!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

kissing is a must, how can you have any kind of passion, fun and not kiss ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

" kissing is a must, how can you have any kind of passion, fun and not kiss ?

Very, very easily

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Always hope too, I personally find kissing a huge turn on, really gets things, sexy and sensual, helps to stop it all feeling somewhat mechanical and just going through the actions but you have to respect boundaries, and if it’s off limits them’s the rules…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing my Beau is one of the most intense, intimate experiences & it always brings us into an emotionally loving moment. For this reason I/we are not big on intense snogging sessions with others. That said, we don't have a no kiss rule, as it's a natural foreplay & we love gentle kisses that start on the lips, flow down the neck & all over the body. We can easily go without too, substituting kisses with stroking/ teasing/ roaming hands, so we accommodate who we are playing with. Very much an 'each to their own preference' mindset, here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Understand that kissing is obviously great when there's sexual attraction BUT how can you be determined that you want to kiss, Before even arranging the meet..?

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

"Kissing my Beau is one of the most intense, intimate experiences & it always brings us into an emotionally loving moment. For this reason I/we are not big on intense snogging sessions with others. That said, we don't have a no kiss rule, as it's a natural foreplay & we love gentle kisses that start on the lips, flow down the neck & all over the body. We can easily go without too, substituting kisses with stroking/ teasing/ roaming hands, so we accommodate who we are playing with. Very much an 'each to their own preference' mindset, here. "

That’s a mega outlook, not too personal but sensual enough to get everyone heated up and turned on

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By *aturefun63Man
over a year ago

Belper

Probably just want you for your dick ,but ain’t all bad

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By *aucy SouthernersCouple
over a year ago

Honiton

Love kissing, massive turn on for us x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I think the kissing demonstrates a personal attraction which I think makes for a better meet

If I don’t feel enough attraction to kiss them, I certainly won’t fuck them!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some people just don't like it.

It's a huge turn off for me and I make it clear to anyone I play with that it is a hard limit. I don't find it intimate or sexual at all. I've found it to be awkward and unpleasant with everyone.

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

"I think the kissing demonstrates a personal attraction which I think makes for a better meet

If I don’t feel enough attraction to kiss them, I certainly won’t fuck them! "

This, no sure I could get into it in a meet if I didn’t want to kiss (no attraction etc), though I’d respect if couples said they don’t. Some club scenarios might be different but then the whole vibe and situation often is too…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That's just it - an organic, sensual, play experience but equally, preserving the emotional bonds we have as a couple. We didn't decide/ choose kissing to be so emotionally intense, it just IS between us, so it's something that's hard to want to share to a large extent with others. Light, flowing kisses are an *optional* compromise for keeping play natural & kinky...

I wonder, is kissing like a language though, with different people preferring different things from a kiss. So if your kiss style is in sync, then the implication is that your kink style is more likely to follow in sync too.. Though might not always be the case. Equally, no kissing is better than 'bad' kissing, due to not being in sync. A total turn off!

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By *ookingtoseeMan
over a year ago

Southwick

Yes

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

"Funny isn't it. A girl/woman would meet a guy on a night out and kiss him but not fuck him, yet they'd fuck him and not kiss him.

Strange logic"

Only if you think kissing and fucking feel the same and mean the same.

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By *houldntbehere500Man
over a year ago

gloucester

Yes. Kissing is everything!! If you can’t kiss you won’t have the passion!!

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By *ookie_and_NookieCouple
over a year ago

Kent

Girl on girl kissing is a must for us but personally, I have zero interest in kissing another guy and I know N has no interest in kissing other women. We’re not full swap either.

C x

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

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By *olden_Road_to_SamarkandMan
over a year ago

North Wessex Downs

For me personally swinging is about shared intimacies, so kissing is important.

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By *reen as JadeCouple
over a year ago

Cheshire

Of course x

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Met a few women now where they don’t want to kiss.

I find it strange. Where do you stand?

For me it just heightens the experience and increases the sexual tension.

Are you one that doesn’t kiss on a meet? Love to know the reason. "
I don't tend to kiss on majority of meets..reason being I have to really feel comfortable with someone to do so... and that's unlikely on a meet. To be fair I do tend to just do group sex where no kissing is required. Its partly why I don't meet 121

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course x"

Me too good comment x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is great - I find it heightens the horn x

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By *ixi n DogCouple
over a year ago

Pembrokeshire

Yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes"

Yes, absolutely yes

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s got to be yes. The kids can in itself set the whole tone and dynamic for the intimacy ahead and I love to kiss anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes absolutely intimacy at its best

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By *orny_lifeguard OP Man
over a year ago

Rotherham

I didn’t realise this would cause so much debate. Clearly it is a dividing topic.

In response to the why do I want to know.

Curious I guess. I always like to know reasons behind decisions purely from a psychological perspective.

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By *s2walesCouple
over a year ago

Gwent...

A big yes from us it definitely adds to the atmosphere....xx

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By *oungcoup69Couple
over a year ago

hidden garden

Kissing is a yes for us as long as your personal hygiene is good! If you smell its a no haha!

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual.

*see

So if it isn't a sex act why is is so necessary during sex? Kissing is an intimate act, and I'm not looking for intimacy with the strangers I fuck. And, surprisingly after reading this thread, no man has ever refused to fuck me given the opportunity.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Not on a social meet, definitely on a physical one though

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

"What’s the big deal about people who don’t like kissing?

No one kicks up a fuss and says “I don’t understand it” etc etc when people say they don’t enjoy oral, or anal, or missionary, or anything else actually.

It’s just another sex act, some don’t like it, some do.

Kissing is not a sex act lol you can’t perform sex acts in the street!

It’s preference. If kissing is a deal breaker that’s entirely up for each person to decide!

Snogging is sexual. It’s grim but slightly acceptable to wed it on the street but it’s still sexual.

*see

Isn't fucking an intimate act?

It is to me. Much more so than kissing. I can't just fuck someone for the sake of it.

I'm intimate and passionate with everyone I have a meet with (intimacy and passion for me does not relate to love and feelings), and to me kissing is a big part of that.

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By *ockosaurusMan
over a year ago

Warwick

I wouldn't turn down a meet if there was no kissing, but it would interest me less and I'm much less likely to accept the offer.

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

I will kiss women on a meet (if they are into it), but not men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I’ve said this often. I like to kiss a woman o find desirable. If I fancy her, I want a snog.

Imagine not having a snog and then we meet up and get sexy and she wouldn’t kiss me….that’s something that would be jarring for me. So I’ve not sure I can go for all that.

I make it pretty clear from the start of I fancy someone, I’m 40 odd years old, ‘are we smoochin’ or what?

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By *zlakMan
over a year ago

Norwich

Kissing is all part of the build up for me. But fresh breath is a must!

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes please.

I get why some won't kiss.

Really, I do.

But having someone kiss you as their fingers softly trace your skin?

Or *that* kiss, the gentle, explorative one as I can feel their cock slowly sliding inside of me and then the tempo changes and the kissing is almost frenzied and you can't get enough of every sensation?

I couldn't not have that.

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By *ockatwoCouple
over a year ago

leeds

"Yes please.

I get why some won't kiss.

Really, I do.

But having someone kiss you as their fingers softly trace your skin?

I couldn't not have that."
same

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

Totally yes for us, whilst respecting those who don't it's part of the intimacy of being with the other person..

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire

"Totally yes for us, whilst respecting those who don't it's part of the intimacy of being with the other person..

A very big part I should add, something so very erotic and arousing..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes please.

I get why some won't kiss.

Really, I do.

But having someone kiss you as their fingers softly trace your skin?

I couldn't not have that."

…or having the the start of their climax in your hands as they stare into your eyes, and then you pull in for that kiss losing yourself in their moans of pleasure all of your lips as they enjoy wave after wave of an orgasm all over your fingers.

I couldn’t not have that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Have to admit I really don’t like kissing men. Let’s be honest, half of them have halitosis and the other half have faces like pan scourers even after they claim to have shaved.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have to admit I really don’t like kissing men. Let’s be honest, half of them have halitosis and the other half have faces like pan scourers even after they claim to have shaved."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes please

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I enjoy a kiss, especially in foreplay. But I suppose it all depends on the other person, and their likes/dislikes.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Woulndt meet knowing they would t want kissing. Have had a meet where it wasnt discussed but became obvious they didnt want kissing. Kinda runied kt for me.

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By *umourCouple
over a year ago

Rushden

There has to be kissing, or no meet!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely

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By *assionatepoetsCouple
over a year ago

Highbridge

Yes definitely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"In all honesty, it should be in the interest check list, along with anal, water sports etc

So people can see from the off and make their choice, whether to pursue.

Agree

Having read so many different preferences on this, I agree with you

F (Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the upper persuasion to a lower invasion

I couldn't contemplate meeting anyone who didn't want to kiss on a meet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If the lady is happy to..

HELL YES.

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By *ick1992Man
over a year ago

Kettering

Deff kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes please.

I get why some won't kiss.

Really, I do.

But having someone kiss you as their fingers softly trace your skin?

I couldn't not have that.

I couldn’t not have that. "

Agreed but this scenario is not best with a stranger. The real power of what u describe is created when there is an emotional bond, not just physical.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes for me

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By *assing Fancies xCouple
over a year ago

Sherwood Forest

For us it's a absolute must or I don't think that partner would be for us

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Had a three way kiss in a club, it was stunning.

Think there is a big difference between a sexual kiss and a loving kiss.

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By *ean counterMan
over a year ago

Market Harborough/ Kettering

I love kissing a woman, especially if her husband is watching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Yes please.

I get why some won't kiss.

Really, I do.

But having someone kiss you as their fingers softly trace your skin?

I couldn't not have that.

I couldn’t not have that.

Agreed but this scenario is not best with a stranger. The real power of what u describe is created when there is an emotional bond, not just physical. "

I don’t meet strangers.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not kissing is like having a cherry bakewell without the cherry

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Only kissing we do is between the ladies ... I won't kiss her partner

( Mrs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not kissing is like having a cherry bakewell without the cherry"

For others it's like finding a bug where the cherry is supposed to be.

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By *xydadbodMan
over a year ago

Milton keynes

Definitely kissing for sure.. a lot can be found out in that first kiss alone

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I absolutely adore deep kissing in a bi mmf

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By *assionate explorer 1Man
over a year ago

Folkestone

"I absolutely adore deep kissing in a bi mmf "

There's no meet without kissing. It's what gets me hard

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If nothing else happened it would certainly be enough for me to have a soft, slow kiss at the end

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By *ittleMissCaliWoman
over a year ago

all loved up

"Not kissing is like having a cherry bakewell without the cherry

For others it's like finding a bug where the cherry is supposed to be. "
this... it seems to be the one thing people don't understand someone not doing. I don't need people to understand it.. just respect that its unlikely to happen

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I kissed a guy at the end of a social once (he was very hot).

It made me really excited to fuck him but then sadly I quit my job and no longer spent any time in London.

*insert crying emoji here*

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By *BootyfulDayWoman
over a year ago

…

Depends on the chemistry but generally I meet people that I reckon I’ll get along with so usually it’s a big yes from me! Love a good kiss

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