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By *orseydave OP   Man
over a year ago

Norwich NR5

A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i block them because they forget and keep messaging me again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i block them because they forget and keep messaging me again."

happens a lot, we call it goldfish syndrome

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them"
how do u know if you have been blocked?

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

hahahahahahahahaha...Oh Dear...

You are right to say NO...this is not a message to shag site

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them"

What's it with people on here getting their panties in a twist about blocking?!!

You said "no ta" - to save them from bothering you again they block you. You wouldn't know if you hadn't gone looking again...so...what's YOUR problem?!!

Honestly...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them

What's it with people on here getting their panties in a twist about blocking?!!

You said "no ta" - to save them from bothering you again they block you. You wouldn't know if you hadn't gone looking again...so...what's YOUR problem?!!

Agreed.

Honestly... "

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them

What's it with people on here getting their panties in a twist about blocking?!!

You said "no ta" - to save them from bothering you again they block you. You wouldn't know if you hadn't gone looking again...so...what's YOUR problem?!!

Honestly... "

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By *amissCouple
over a year ago

chelmsford

As said above, they are blocking you so they don't bother you again. We do the same when we get a 'no' from anyone.

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

Some people use block as an onsite tool, not just a button to get rid of arseholes.

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

If you didn't want to meet them in the first place, then why does it even matter!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them"

If I am reading correctly you said "thanks but no thanks" so its hard to see your issue. You declined, there is little real reason to keep chatting if you are not interested so they blocked so they wouldn't mail you again or you them. To me complaining about it seems a little childish to be honest as I can't really see any reason for you wanting interaction if you are not interested.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them

If I am reading correctly you said "thanks but no thanks" so its hard to see your issue. You declined, there is little real reason to keep chatting if you are not interested so they blocked so they wouldn't mail you again or you them. To me complaining about it seems a little childish to be honest as I can't really see any reason for you wanting interaction if you are not interested. "

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

nearly every single random friend invite I get, when I mail them back with a 'hello I dont accept friend invites without a quick chat' the message either either gets deleted, profile is suddenly made private or I get blocked..

nothing weird - just people being people and trying to get off on you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

moan moan moan moan lol i really enjoy fab and its good that people are people and are all different thats what makes this site social for me...its just like real life....you win some ..you loose some...but if you loose just move on and get over it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

see with the spelling thing if it is my yummy wife messaging it will be fine but if its me then o dam as i am very dyslexic and cant spell very well lol

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them"

I wouldnt worry .. you decided no so being blocked is best then you not bothered again.. Hey Ho.. do you really worry about the spelling.?? My spell chekker is american but i can spell honest.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why is it a problem if you don't want to meet them anyway, and if you didn't want to meet someone why would you need to look at there profile again?

We tend to block people we wouldn't be interested in meeting or them us, it's no biggy, just saves time in the future thats all.

We also tend to block peeps that are hung up on spelling

Tony

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By *aulp4alsMan
over a year ago

Warrington

On the other hand I ask people to block me if they don't like what they see so that i don't disturb them again.

Some people do some don't there choice.

My way of being polite

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them how do u know if you have been blocked? "

Have another look at their profile. If you can't read it - you have been blocked. simples

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By *andsCouple
over a year ago

Edin


"A couple send you a message saying hi etc etc do you fancy a meet, you check out the profile and if youre like me, i check the mileage,the people concerned and (I know some will not agree) i check out the spelling - Tells you lots about someone.

Above just happened, so being polite i reply with a "thanks but no thanks" and get blocked !!!!!!!!!!

Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them"

omg who says single blokes are allowed to say no ... arent you just grateful a couple messaged you and regardless of how they look/act etc you simply MUST shag them!!! ...Seriously I woulnt loose any sleep over it, maybe they just blocked you so they dont message you again or maybe they were pissed off someone dared say no ...either way forget about it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I go to look at a profile for the first time only to find I have already been blocked. Not messaged , winked or anything. Guess they hate men

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I go to look at a profile for the first time only to find I have already been blocked. Not messaged , winked or anything. Guess they hate men "

Maybe they just didn't like you

I have been blocking more people recently as I've noticed the same ones message several times despite having been told 'no thank you' ... they probably just forget but it gets dull, so it's easier to block and not have to keep answering the same ones over and over.

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By *ouple in LancashireCouple
over a year ago

in Lancashire


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Is this how people behave in real life ? If it is then i want FA to do with them"

well as the block function has been used, you wont will you?

so why moan about something you cant influence?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i block them because they forget and keep messaging me again."

Same here. Also, block people who've turned me down, saves me bothering them again.

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

We add people to our blocklist based on their posts on the forum, If we don't like what they say on there then we are not likely to get on face to face. Likewise if we look at a profile and there is something we don't like we block them. Saves everyone time

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By *ensualtouch15Man
over a year ago

ashby de la zouch

Nope don't get the issue or reason for winge

you reject them for some non disclosed spelling error .they rightly want no more to do with someone so pretty thus block you to ensure they don't make such an error of judgment again and you feel its worth a winge thread ??

sometimes we all spend so much time

Observing the errors of others we forget to inspect and criticize ourselves , me included x

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By *iewMan
Forum Mod
over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

yes there is a diverse membership

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I can't understand this thread either. Why would you be looking at their profile again if you had said no thanks to them.

Obviously they won't no more contact from you which is why they used the block.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

you said thanks but no thanks because you weren't interested and once you turned them down then of course neither were they.

They blocked you so if at some point in the future they are looking for someone you won't show up in a search.

you would have never known if you hadn't had a look at their profile one more time. And if you weren't interested why did you bother?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i do not worry about blocking.

maybe a single guy but im not desperate or needy.

i have things in my life which please me and sometimes sex goes off the radar for a while.

if i get blocked then fine,whats to worry?

plenty of others who will chat and like to have a laugh with you so move on and forget.

as humans we worry to much about the little things and miss the real important stuff

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Why stress yourself over it lol, you didn't want to meet them anyway

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we only block when they have emailed requesting a meet for the 3rd time, after a polite no thanks on the first two.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i block them because they forget and keep messaging me again.

happens a lot, we call it goldfish syndrome

Wolf

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon


"I go to look at a profile for the first time only to find I have already been blocked. Not messaged , winked or anything. Guess they hate men "

Hahaha, I've had this happen to me too. Can only think that they've disliked something I've said on the forum and felt so strongly they had to block me over it.

.....or maybe they thought they'd be punching above their weight by contacting me (j/k!)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mirror, Mirror on the wall ............

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"i do not worry about blocking.

maybe a single guy but im not desperate or needy.

i have things in my life which please me and sometimes sex goes off the radar for a while.

if i get blocked then fine,whats to worry?

plenty of others who will chat and like to have a laugh with you so move on and forget.

as humans we worry to much about the little things and miss the real important stuff"

Yep

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