FabSwingers.com forum: What age did your sex life peak

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hi guys , i fee like i should be in my prime when it comes to sex ,

I have a fiancée with a very low sex drive so found myself on fab and almost living through the rest of you guys and your sex lives,

Just a question…..

What age did your sex life peak at ? And what kickstarter it ?

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By *urleeMan
over a year ago

Near Cheshire Oaks

Still waiting for my peak, although being male, it's highly possible I blinked and missed it!!

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By *otplaying4nowWoman
over a year ago

doncaster

I had a low sex drive up until my mid 30’s and then it just took off once I started swinging on my own, I’m 45and have had a very high sex drive for years now, meeting younger hung men seemed to boost it x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Similar situation, my mrs is just dead gorgeous, so far out of my league ,

She has only been with me, she knows I want her to be a Hotwife / cuckold me , we role play it but it’s as far as it gos , I guess I use fab to talk to people in the same situation or have been there ,

Good thing about fab is your fan talk to people who have been in your situation with no judgment

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By *RWYNMan
over a year ago

Blaenau Gwent

I've had a high sex drive nearly all my life, but it has gone down hill since I was 70.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys , i fee like i should be in my prime when it comes to sex ,

I have a fiancée with a very low sex drive so found myself on fab and almost living through the rest of you guys and your sex lives,

Just a question…..

What age did your sex life peak at ? And what kickstarter it ? "

I think mines yet to peak still enjoying and still discovering new ways to enjoy it .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found it was around 19/20 ish work in a furniture shop ended up fairy buff lol because of that and my general attitude towards life I got plenty of attention and experience

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By *aughtyintownMan
over a year ago

Newport

Probably 48-55 but I'm hoping not yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Between 21 and 26 when I was working for the merchant navy. I would come home on leave have money and plenty of confidence so was getting plenty hehe

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Good thing about fab is your fan talk to people who have been in your situation with no judgment "

That's the part I'm loving. I've met a couple of people on here who I can talk to openly. I'm feeling some of my best times are about to start.

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By *izmeCouple
over a year ago

Merseyside

Im still going strong

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By *avid 50Man
over a year ago

kendal

Our sex life peaked when we were trying to children soon after we were married she was insatiable and sex was great and she took risks being caught and life was thrilling sadly sex frequency and quality tailed off as the children grew up if you’re having trouble with your fiancé sex drive now at 25 I don’t think it’s going to improve

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By *ikeafud248Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

Still enjoy a very active sex life, and would enjoy playing with you....22 till about 45 was great times

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

For me around my mid 40's, however I think it's very important to consider your partners abilities and enthusiasm too, after all, it takes two.

About 15 years ago I was fortunate to meet a married mother of three. The chemistry between us was electric. We could go for hours, in fact four and half was our pb! But averaged around two and half hours.

Our meets are very less random these days but always enjoyable.

I have chronicled several of our meets here in Stories and Fantasies under the title of ....

'My married friend and Bognor Beach'

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By *ardnreddyMan
over a year ago

LIVINGSTON

I don't thik I have peaked yet

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By *ohnny4playMan
over a year ago

Kinross

Peak was 30 through 50, I've noticed a drop off since then.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wasted my teens and twenties in a unfulfilled abusive relationship, total waste of time and genes! I haven’t peaked but Christ I’ve had my mind blown since joining the real world.

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By *urls and DressesWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere near here

I’m at my peak so far at 35. God help anyone if this isn’t it yet

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Think mine was 20/30s as would enjoy way too many temptations

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By *outhboyMan
over a year ago

derry

Just hitting my peak now at 47 more experience and better cock control

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By *lynJMan
over a year ago

Morden

I hope I'm not past my peak yet.

OP, have you discussed things with your fiancée? Perhaps you can kick start his sex drive.

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I was in my early 40s when my sex drive found me

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By *iss DevilWoman
over a year ago

Bedford

My sex life was almost non-existent until I got to my early thirties. Then, I still believed in monogamy and the romantic vision of love and marriage. I discovered swinging just before I turned 40 and never looked back! So I guess I am currently going through my peak.

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

For me (Ms) its been my 40s. I've learnt to be me and to enjoy sex for the sake of it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My sex drive just seemed to get higher and higher from my mid thirties. I don't know if it's a confidence thing as well. But one thing for certain is my husband is not complaining

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both sixty and peaking in different kinky ways.

Lockdown had us exploring and pushing our kinks. Still enjoying our sex life and orgasmic fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mid 30s

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I'll tell you when it happens

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm in my prime now I think. I spent a long time in a relationship with nothing. Almost priesthood.

Not so much now.

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Depends what one thinks of as the peak. If it is the most sex over a period, then when I was in my mid-thirties and discovering 3somes with my first wife. If it means having the most diverse fun, then right now when I'm having regular mmf meets, bi meets (some more than two of us) and am meeting a new guy tonight. Quite enough for now.

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By *all me FlikWoman
over a year ago

Galaxy Far Far Away

Not sure if I'm at my peak but no sign of slowing down.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After my late 20s my sex life slowed down, mainly due to a long term relationship, when that ended and I resumed having fun with others I believe I’m still climbing to my peak, covid stalling excluded

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not had it yet, and not sure if I ever will..

My confidence is always so low so never really have the balls to approach or initiate a convo..

But who knows it has got 100x better since joining FAB

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

Think I am on the plateau.

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By *VHeather_RTV/TS
over a year ago

Hemel

45 and still on the way up it feels.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Last Tuesday.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mines will peak when I have my first bi meet with a male too long not too enjoy it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just about now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys , i fee like i should be in my prime when it comes to sex ,

I have a fiancée with a very low sex drive so found myself on fab and almost living through the rest of you guys and your sex lives,

Just a question…..

What age did your sex life peak at ? And what kickstarter it ? "

Personally I (F, Mrs) feel like mine is starting to peak now since meeting J (Mr), and finally being able to be open about my sexuality and explore the delights of swinging

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not sure if I've peaked but I'm loving sex, I'm so much more open minded and experimental than I ever was before and since meeting my Mr it's just getting better and better

Mrs

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By *each BenMan
over a year ago

swansea

I’m finding the older I’m getting the higher my sex drive is, I’m getting hornier and hornier!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hi guys , i fee like i should be in my prime when it comes to sex ,

I have a fiancée with a very low sex drive so found myself on fab and almost living through the rest of you guys and your sex lives,

Just a question…..

What age did your sex life peak at ? And what kickstarter it ? "

This was a real issue for me and a previous partner. I had a super high sex drive and she just wasn't aligned with that. Unfortunately we ended up going our separate ways but it's definitely for the best as you've gotta do what makes you happy.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

In terms of variety and different women I was 21 and then 35 (after the end of my marriage).

In terms of awesomeness and connection it just keeps getting better. I finally meet my match.

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