FabSwingers.com forum: My Strictly Platonic Cuddles Only Dilemma

By *ocoTemptation OP Man
over a year ago

london

Yesterday I had a get to know you coffee with my first potential cuddle buddy

(yeah its a thing and I'm really intrigued by the concept).

We got on really well and spent almost two hours chatting. Her husband didn't know about the meet but I'm personally comfortable with that because I'm just after some un-rushed cuddle sessions.

Here's the catch. When we got in my car she admitted that with the right guy she'd be happy to take things further and fuck. All of a sudden something switched in my brain I got an aching hardon and as we parted we shared a delicious kiss. If you were to read any of my blogs you'd know that I absolutely relish fucking other mens wives but I've never knowingly done this without the husband's knowledge.

So here's my dilemma. Now i know I have a lot of self control because earlier this year I was seeing a woman on a strictly wank only basis. We watched porn together and even though at one point I used her rabbit on her things didn't cross the line that we'd set.

Anyway my dilemma is this do I meet her again and risk breaking my self imposed code or end it right here?

By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I once trusted a wife of couple I’d played with as we had spoken about wife coming alone and enjoying fun over night she rang me said it was all sorted and arranged to come over the next night to stay over and again a few days later . Turned out she hadn’t told hubby who went crazy and made my life hell so much so infact I had to involve the police

By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

There are many folks of Fabswingers who are meeting without their partner’s knowledge or permission and there are numerous ways of justifying that behaviour. The question of whether you should break your “self-imposed code” however is up to you and how strongly you hold your position. Mental anguish is caused by conflict so if you have a strong moral code then be careful before crossing the line. If however you can accept that two consenting adults can do whatever they like in private then you need to adjust your code.