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The art of conversation

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Hey, I’m aware that some people are on here for one thing and one thing only… but why does this mean that the art of conversation has to be so limited?

And since when is it ok to keep spamming a persons inbox if they don’t reply as soon as they’ve read a message?

Sorry. Little bit annoyed tonight!

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"Hey, I’m aware that some people are on here for one thing and one thing only… but why does this mean that the art of conversation has to be so limited?

And since when is it ok to keep spamming a persons inbox if they don’t reply as soon as they’ve read a message?

Sorry. Little bit annoyed tonight! "

Hey, how’s you?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm terrible at first messages but good at conversation when it gets going! Unfortunately it seems to be the first message that counts

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You ok hun?

Lol sorry couldnt resist.

I too do think it's good to have a decent conversation first/during.

For me personally I have no idea what to send a first message, so I'm sure that people don't reply back soemtimes just because I struggle with that.

I just hope that someone wants to chat further, which is where it gets all good for me, because I can have a conversation, just don't know how to start one.


"Hey, I’m aware that some people are on here for one thing and one thing only… but why does this mean that the art of conversation has to be so limited?

And since when is it ok to keep spamming a persons inbox if they don’t reply as soon as they’ve read a message?

Sorry. Little bit annoyed tonight! "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

It’s the lads that start with… “feeling horny… wanna meet?” It’s awful. I’m not opposed to a simple hey as a starter. But without pressure every other message to meet etc.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

I need to unload, meet now?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To be fair, that's not something I have ever tried as have always thought that it doesn't really show who the person is. I get its not a dating site, but at least give over a bit of personality some how.


"It’s the lads that start with… “feeling horny… wanna meet?” It’s awful. I’m not opposed to a simple hey as a starter. But without pressure every other message to meet etc. "

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *hisisntpofMan
over a year ago

bristol

Its good to talk lol ,but that means a conversation ,they can be hard to come by on here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

They really can.

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

People vary a lot here but conversations and getting to know and filter potential partners is fairly standard here. Most people are not compatible, so we have to expect many chats to fail. They're just different from us.

It's better to block as soon as you realise they're not for you. It's not appropriate for repeated messages Hassling

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The art of conversation is lost on alot of people. I am bemused when you get a wink off a woman /couple so you message politely, start a conversation and you are just ignored, even though you are responding to the message /wink that they made. I'm not sure whether they are after the reply of, "you wanna fuck", maybe being polite is just boring to them......

I think some people just don't like/can't do conversation, which is fine everyone is different. For me it's just not as exciting.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

100%. Like I said I get that some people are after a good quick bunk up, and there is nothing wrong with that. But some of the messages I get through are just devoid of thought.

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

Odd that only 7% of communication comes through the spoken/written word and we expect it to communicate more than 7% of who we are.

Bless

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By *iman2100Man
over a year ago

Glasgow

The majority of my first messages received from ladies or couples are "hey" or "Hi". Fab double standard. Ce la vie! I am still very pleased to receive them.

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By *ampWithABrainWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Hey, I’m aware that some people are on here for one thing and one thing only… but why does this mean that the art of conversation has to be so limited?

And since when is it ok to keep spamming a persons inbox if they don’t reply as soon as they’ve read a message?

Sorry. Little bit annoyed tonight! "

Feeling your pain a little tonight. Despite good filters and a clear profile I’ve had some odd ones tonight inc some downright offensive!

Dunno what’s in the water or whatever but I hope it’s removed soon!

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By *hePerkyPumpkinTV/TS
over a year ago

Bristol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Hey wuu2.

They can’t even be bothered to write adult words

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sup

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