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"I dont have a single one on my block list ... and never feel the need as if i dont wish to chat i dont mail and if nasty and only had one i dont mail . lol just find others ways to deal with stuff and be wierd now not getting loads of mail. " Total agree I dont block but I have been blocked once off a lady who I had been chatting to for a couple of days then out the blue blocked | |||
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"Not a one, no need to do it, my opinion only..... Just see it as the same as turning your back on somebody in a pub..... Downright rudeness x" and they could make another profile start mailing again if they really wished to chat .... just see blocking as taking my time and i like reading post more.Blocking boring. | |||
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"Not a one, no need to do it, my opinion only..... Just see it as the same as turning your back on somebody in a pub..... Downright rudeness x" I don't block for the sake of it. All have been blocked for a reason . Mainly "rudeness" | |||
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"didnt know there was one. just checked and its a big fat 0 " well done that man xxxxx | |||
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"Sometimes we've been asked to block someone so they don't mail us again (" Thats just odd | |||
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"Sometimes we've been asked to block someone so they don't mail us again ( Thats just odd " There are some very odd people on here...haven't they found you yet?! | |||
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"How big is you're "blocked" list ? . I have 133 members on mine have just had a count up " Mine is getting very big!! Evidence of the lack of respect the men on here give single women! | |||
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"How big is you're "blocked" list ? . I have 133 members on mine have just had a count up Mine is getting very big!! Evidence of the lack of respect the men on here give single women!" ur name reeks of respect | |||
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"i have over 650!" please tell me you haven't just sat and counted them ? | |||
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"How big is you're "blocked" list ? . I have 133 members on mine have just had a count up Mine is getting very big!! Evidence of the lack of respect the men on here give single women! ur name reeks of respect " Lol! | |||
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"How big is you're "blocked" list ? . I have 133 members on mine have just had a count up " not one blocked on mine | |||
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"How big is you're "blocked" list ? . I have 133 members on mine have just had a count up Mine is getting very big!! Evidence of the lack of respect the men on here give single women! ur name reeks of respect " we all deserve respect irregardless of our chosen profile name or at least we should until such a point where we deserve to lose it | |||
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"How big is you're "blocked" list ? . I have 133 members on mine have just had a count up not one blocked on mine" mind you i wonder how many people have blocked me | |||
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"it was a joke. i just saw a lil irony in her post/name combination " I know it was I will even admit to when I first read it What I said wasn't meant to be arsey, but I do think it should be the case | |||
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"My new profile has turned out to be bit of an experiment. I rejoined after a break to catch up with some of my friends. I quickly wrote it with the intentions of re-doing it later. But to my suprise after a couple of days I had over 100 messages! This can mean one of two things: 1, they haven't bothered to read it or 2, they couldn't give a shit what I say!! In four weeks I've blocked over 200 people!! " Probably an even split I would guess. Using the nothing ventured nothing gained philosophy | |||
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"I have a fair few on my Block list, I'm a heightist so get my fair share of abusive mail, the senders end up Blocked for all the obvious reasons. Safest place for them, along with the usual crowd who just can't take no for an answer, after being told it 4, 5, 6, 7 times or more!! . " You have blocked me and I have never messaged you | |||
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"I have a fair few on my Block list, I'm a heightist so get my fair share of abusive mail, the senders end up Blocked for all the obvious reasons. Safest place for them, along with the usual crowd who just can't take no for an answer, after being told it 4, 5, 6, 7 times or more!! . You have blocked me and I have never messaged you " I haven't!! | |||
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" There are some very odd people on here...haven't they found you yet?! " Of course I have they are on my blocked list | |||
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" I haven't!!" Sorry you are quite right , not you, somebody else has though who has posted in this thread. No idea why | |||
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"Looking at it from the other viewpoint, we appreciate being blocked as it means we're not going to waste time looking at a profile of someone who has no interest in us. Thank you blockers! " you have a point | |||
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"I have a fair few on my Block list, I'm a heightist so get my fair share of abusive mail, the senders end up Blocked for all the obvious reasons. Safest place for them, along with the usual crowd who just can't take no for an answer, after being told it 4, 5, 6, 7 times or more!! . You have blocked me and I have never messaged you " Sorry!! I have no idea why! | |||
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" Sorry!! I have no idea why! " Its fine don't worry. I'm used to it | |||
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" Sorry!! I have no idea why! Its fine don't worry. I'm used to it " bloke back. When the person one day decide to check your profile, he find that he can't view you | |||
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"I block folk for 2 reasons one if they become a nuisance and if on my local listing if i do not fit their criteria so i am not a nuisance " looks like you posted four reasons to me I'm seeing double double Wolf | |||
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"Not a one, no need to do it, my opinion only..... Just see it as the same as turning your back on somebody in a pub..... Downright rudeness x" its a facility of the site, people set out their preferences on their profile and use the filters etc.. its certainly not rude to block someone.. or are you saying 'we' should respond to the most banal, pathetic approaches from some muppets who have clearly not read our profile.. and if they have, knowing 'we' would not be compatible think 'yeh fuck it, will chance it'..? would agree that turning ones back in a pub is rude, never done it and never would tbh.. its the wrong analogy in relation to the issue, imho.. | |||
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"I've got quite a few on mine but its got nothing to do with rudeness and everything to do with respect. If I've messaged anyone and they just deleted my message without replying or they've been kind enough to say 'no thank you' then I block them as I don't want to message them again as thats whats disrespectful. They won't even know as I suspect that if they didn't look at my profile the first time round, they're unlikely to look at it ever again so they'll never be offended. " Very very well put | |||
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"I've got quite a few on mine but its got nothing to do with rudeness and everything to do with respect. If I've messaged anyone and they just deleted my message without replying or they've been kind enough to say 'no thank you' then I block them as I don't want to message them again as thats whats disrespectful. They won't even know as I suspect that if they didn't look at my profile the first time round, they're unlikely to look at it ever again so they'll never be offended. " . Just use the private and quote that they never reply | |||
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" I would guess that single women and couples would have a higher number in their block list than a single guy. " quite, any bloke claimiing he's got a hundred odd on his blocked list and then inferring the reason is because of rude messages he's getting is quite simply delusional.......unless of course said male is seeking other males | |||
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" I would guess that single women and couples would have a higher number in their block list than a single guy. quite, any bloke claimiing he's got a hundred odd on his blocked list and then inferring the reason is because of rude messages he's getting is quite simply delusional.......unless of course said male is seeking other males" delusional ? Ok whatever | |||
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" Most of my blocked list are females ,, If you go to the trouble of writing a polite email not too short and not too long and include a face pic, and give it a good amount of time for them to respond then there is little else you can do, my reason for implementing a block is simply that they never show up in a search and I don’t make the mistake of contacting them again. each to thier own " I was under the impression that they cam up in search irrespective of whether you'd blocked them or not, certainly those that have blocked me do which I find pointless and irritating | |||
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"I block people that show sociopathic tendancies......they have been a couple lately and I don't care if people think its rude,those type of people do not belong in my little fab world " I cant stop thinking about u...i want u.forever! | |||
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"I block people that show sociopathic tendancies......they have been a couple lately and I don't care if people think its rude,those type of people do not belong in my little fab world I cant stop thinking about u...i want u.forever!" like this^^^^^^^^.............BLOCKED! | |||
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"If they have blocked you, they shouldn't show on your 'who has looked at me' list irregardless of whether they have their profile set to show on said lists or not. If they show up, it suggests they may have lifted their block - only to put it in place again when they realised who you were and why they blocked. But once they block again, they should disappear ? They will still show up in the Forums though irregardless of a block or not." I was referring to turning up in search as opposed to the "looked at me" section | |||
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"If they have blocked you, they shouldn't show on your 'who has looked at me' list irregardless of whether they have their profile set to show on said lists or not. If they show up, it suggests they may have lifted their block - only to put it in place again when they realised who you were and why they blocked. But once they block again, they should disappear ? They will still show up in the Forums though irregardless of a block or not. I was referring to turning up in search as opposed to the "looked at me" section" no they will still be there but you will note if your a paid member you will see you blocked them | |||
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"I've got quite a few on mine but its got nothing to do with rudeness and everything to do with respect. If I've messaged anyone and they just deleted my message without replying or they've been kind enough to say 'no thank you' then I block them as I don't want to message them again as thats whats disrespectful. They won't even know as I suspect that if they didn't look at my profile the first time round, they're unlikely to look at it ever again so they'll never be offended. " | |||
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"I block about 5-6 a day and usually goes up to 10-12 region at weekends and done that basically since day one so my block list is huuuuuuuge lol" Can you block me as we'll please I'm feeling left out | |||
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"I blocked them all for a reason. I certainly don't care about them enough to revisit the list and count them. " | |||
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"A block is so final and way less rewarding. Why block when the facility is there to message the other person, psychologically torturing them over a prolonged period until either they block you or have a nervous breakdown." | |||
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