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Do they think we are too promiscuous?

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

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By *ememberTheNameMan
over a year ago

barnsley


"I’ve had my fun on here. Not too much but a few, I don’t display all my veris or counts as it’s caused issues with some ‘fab friends’ in the past so I just display enough to prove I’m genuine.

I’ve been chatting to someone, good banter, sexy talk etc, I mention something I did last night with someone (pretty vanilla) but enjoyable. He’s gone mute on me. I’ve had this in the past. Talk about a few experiences, men go quiet.

My question is, can women be active or is a put off for men? I’m not talking loads of men! As soon as it becomes apparent that I’m maybe getting more than them they seem to loose interest. "

It’s a turn on for some would imagine a turn off for others

All good in my eyes

Go get it girl

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By *heMightySpud69Man
over a year ago

Milton keynes

I've mever had an issue, it can be quite fun, and can give an idea what someone likes.

I would guess they just didn't feel confident enough to talk to someone openly about sex? Or, at worst, they're possesive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

cant see the original message ...

but hell no you be whom you want to be those that judge can just piss off thats they way we see it ...theres never enough sex

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By *exysoul888TV/TS
over a year ago

Newcastle


"I’ve had my fun on here. Not too much but a few, I don’t display all my veris or counts as it’s caused issues with some ‘fab friends’ in the past so I just display enough to prove I’m genuine.

I’ve been chatting to someone, good banter, sexy talk etc, I mention something I did last night with someone (pretty vanilla) but enjoyable. He’s gone mute on me. I’ve had this in the past. Talk about a few experiences, men go quiet.

My question is, can women be active or is a put off for men? I’m not talking loads of men! As soon as it becomes apparent that I’m maybe getting more than them they seem to loose interest.

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If they responded to your profile, what you get up to is appealing to them, so they can't get annoyed that you indulge in your hobby... That's bizarre!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had my fun on here. Not too much but a few, I don’t display all my veris or counts as it’s caused issues with some ‘fab friends’ in the past so I just display enough to prove I’m genuine.

I’ve been chatting to someone, good banter, sexy talk etc, I mention something I did last night with someone (pretty vanilla) but enjoyable. He’s gone mute on me. I’ve had this in the past. Talk about a few experiences, men go quiet.

My question is, can women be active or is a put off for men? I’m not talking loads of men! As soon as it becomes apparent that I’m maybe getting more than them they seem to loose interest.

"

now i can see the question again no they are they guys to avoid because clearly the dont understand what swinging means to swingers .... there are too many guys on here who want to claim and be exclusive or entitled and judge ..why join a site like this if you dont understand the concept of sex with others

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had my fun on here. Not too much but a few, I don’t display all my veris or counts as it’s caused issues with some ‘fab friends’ in the past so I just display enough to prove I’m genuine.

I’ve been chatting to someone, good banter, sexy talk etc, I mention something I did last night with someone (pretty vanilla) but enjoyable. He’s gone mute on me. I’ve had this in the past. Talk about a few experiences, men go quiet.

My question is, can women be active or is a put off for men? I’m not talking loads of men! As soon as it becomes apparent that I’m maybe getting more than them they seem to loose interest.

now i can see the question again no they are they guys to avoid because clearly the dont understand what swinging means to swingers .... there are too many guys on here who want to claim and be exclusive or entitled and judge ..why join a site like this if you dont understand the concept of sex with others "

Lots of veris do put some people off. Men, women and couples. I guess its due to there being a risk of sti's even when playing safe so lots of meets increase the risk in their eyes.

I guess its the same reason some wont meet people who go to clubs/parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had my fun on here. Not too much but a few, I don’t display all my veris or counts as it’s caused issues with some ‘fab friends’ in the past so I just display enough to prove I’m genuine.

I’ve been chatting to someone, good banter, sexy talk etc, I mention something I did last night with someone (pretty vanilla) but enjoyable. He’s gone mute on me. I’ve had this in the past. Talk about a few experiences, men go quiet.

My question is, can women be active or is a put off for men? I’m not talking loads of men! As soon as it becomes apparent that I’m maybe getting more than them they seem to loose interest.

now i can see the question again no they are they guys to avoid because clearly the dont understand what swinging means to swingers .... there are too many guys on here who want to claim and be exclusive or entitled and judge ..why join a site like this if you dont understand the concept of sex with others

Lots of veris do put some people off. Men, women and couples. I guess its due to there being a risk of sti's even when playing safe so lots of meets increase the risk in their eyes.

I guess its the same reason some wont meet people who go to clubs/parties."

and yet its those who play the most (women couples not so much men) who get tested often bare or safer sex it really dont make sense you could meet someone for the first time play safer and still get a sti ... the only 100% safe sex is no sex and how many of you who play safe get tested ?? oh no you dont do you because you rely on a thin piece of rubber ....you cant preach your safe sex just because you use condoms the ultimate safe sex is condoms for all sex and testing and there not many of them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If anyone is put off by my promiscuity, fine. I don’t want to fuck anyone who thinks differently of me because of it - slut shaming at its most basic.

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By *igbustedmilfWoman
over a year ago

Maidstone

Couldn’t have put it better myself

I’ve never had a problem on here with a guy behaving like that, I did once at club and they were brilliant.

I actually find the opposite. The guys I talk to on here and at clubs, love my promiscuity

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here i meet weekly sometimes several time during the week its what we've always done its why we are swingers 28 years on the scene i test every 6 weeks i go bare with 2 regulars ive known for a lot of those 28 years im safer with others ...ive never had a sti im my life and if i was to get one then the safety net of being tested will sort that ... i see it from a hands on point of view too as i volunteer for a safe sex charity and its shocking how many think they dont need to test because they think the rubber saves them ..totally the wrong mind set ....

im of the opinion that as adults we can do as we please bareback or safer sex its a choice ..people can only look after themselves ..but if you are bare or safer then please please get tested so you know .. and those who say its only as good as the day its taken then yep maybe your right but it can be stopped at next testing others warned rather than carrying on regardless spreading ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had my fun on here. Not too much but a few, I don’t display all my veris or counts as it’s caused issues with some ‘fab friends’ in the past so I just display enough to prove I’m genuine.

I’ve been chatting to someone, good banter, sexy talk etc, I mention something I did last night with someone (pretty vanilla) but enjoyable. He’s gone mute on me. I’ve had this in the past. Talk about a few experiences, men go quiet.

My question is, can women be active or is a put off for men? I’m not talking loads of men! As soon as it becomes apparent that I’m maybe getting more than them they seem to loose interest.

"

Maybe he just doesn't want you discussing him with everyone. Some people value privacy and discretion.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Exactly. Lots of hook-ups mean high risks - not something that appeals to us as home life comes first.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I’ve had my fun on here. Not too much but a few, I don’t display all my veris or counts as it’s caused issues with some ‘fab friends’ in the past so I just display enough to prove I’m genuine.

I’ve been chatting to someone, good banter, sexy talk etc, I mention something I did last night with someone (pretty vanilla) but enjoyable. He’s gone mute on me. I’ve had this in the past. Talk about a few experiences, men go quiet.

My question is, can women be active or is a put off for men? I’m not talking loads of men! As soon as it becomes apparent that I’m maybe getting more than them they seem to loose interest.

now i can see the question again no they are they guys to avoid because clearly the dont understand what swinging means to swingers .... there are too many guys on here who want to claim and be exclusive or entitled and judge ..why join a site like this if you dont understand the concept of sex with others

Lots of veris do put some people off. Men, women and couples. I guess its due to there being a risk of sti's even when playing safe so lots of meets increase the risk in their eyes.

I guess its the same reason some wont meet people who go to clubs/parties.

and yet its those who play the most (women couples not so much men) who get tested often bare or safer sex it really dont make sense you could meet someone for the first time play safer and still get a sti ... the only 100% safe sex is no sex and how many of you who play safe get tested ?? oh no you dont do you because you rely on a thin piece of rubber ....you cant preach your safe sex just because you use condoms the ultimate safe sex is condoms for all sex and testing and there not many of them "

Im not someone who judges on lots pf veries, but i can uderstand why people may and was putting that point forward

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