FabSwingers.com forum: Whore Bitch

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Just been called that for not replying to messages.

Doesn’t feel great. Naturally hit block but just need to vent. It’s not cool.

Sad and ironic that this is the “insult” being thrown when you’re on this site! Leaves me despairing that attitudes can still be so old skool

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By *urrey Dave 69Man
over a year ago

Epsom, Surrey

Report the person who did it. Nobody has the right to say those things

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By *d4funtimesMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

Unpleasant words. It is a basic fab rule 'no reply = not intererested'. Unfortunately, a minority don't get it.

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By *melia DominaTV/TS
over a year ago

Edinburgh (She/Her)

"Report the person who did it. Nobody has the right to say those things"

This with bells on!!!

Just another case of belittling and intimidation from an entitled ego with a small dick.

Report, block, delete, forget about it, next..

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By *unnesscoupleMan
over a year ago

Inverness

They're just base assholes. Block and report. I hope you don't get any more shitheads abusing you like that.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Thanks guys.

I’ve never thought to report before but this has been one of those days where I just didn’t need this on top. So have taken your advice and done so.

Appreciate the support x

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Just vile some of the people on fab at the moment

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By *uliette500Woman
over a year ago

Hull

I hear you..... it amazes me how I can apparently go from being gorgeous to ugly in 10 seconds simply by saying 'no thanks'.

Report and block and don't let the small minded idiots spoil your day.

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By *ond Jimmy BondMan
over a year ago

London

Please everyone report this kind of thing. Let’s make Fab a friendlier place x

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By *ellsuitedMan
over a year ago

Elstree

Not acceptable. I have loads of people who just delete my messages. I just move on....

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

Yes, report them. This may be a swinging site but you have a reasonable expectation to be treated with decency as a minimum.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Classic example on here to be fair. Initial message… OMG you are stunning… respond… sorry… not for us… reply… wouldn’t touch you with a barge pole anyhow you minger… water off a ducks back to us and just proves we were right to dismiss them

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By *UNKIEMan
over a year ago

south east

"Just been called that for not replying to messages.

Doesn’t feel great. Naturally hit block but just need to vent. It’s not cool.

Sad and ironic that this is the “insult” being thrown when you’re on this site! Leaves me despairing that attitudes can still be so old skool

Seems to be a more new skool attitude than old skool ...us more mature people i find have more respect for people ..i could be wrong tho

still no excuse, bloody keyboard warriors ..bet theyd sh*t themselves if confronted face to face

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd say you had a lucky escape with that one. He's shown his true colours.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the are some very popular forum guys who send abuse too its not alway the so called bad guys ...hence why i screenshot every abusive message also some will rejoin as someone else and get around it ..... plenty of assholes in all walks of life

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

I hate that about the internet. Faceless idiots. Stick to clubs, people rarely have the nerve to say these things to your face. And if they do get them thrown out or strip to the waist and settle it Queensbury rules (which ever takes your fancy).

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Vile comments as the dude is obviously an envious jealous prick, plenty of genuine admirers out there for sure…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd love to be called a whore bitch

especially if someone dressed me in lingerie and used me

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By *riel13Woman
over a year ago

Northampton

I have never understood the "whore" "slut" "slag" insult, towards someone that is turning down sex!

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By *arklong88Man
over a year ago

portslade

Feel sorry for them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I'd love to be called a whore bitch

especially if someone dressed me in lingerie and used me

Just because you like it, doesn’t mean anyone else should, and it should never be done without consent.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Literally just replied to a thread asking why people block without replying.

Report the twat.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

"I'd love to be called a whore bitch

especially if someone dressed me in lingerie and used me

There’s a very real difference between saying it to insult and hurt someone than saying it to excite and empower someone.

This thread is all about the former.

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By *heLongTongueMan
over a year ago

Boston

"Thanks guys.

I’ve never thought to report before but this has been one of those days where I just didn’t need this on top. So have taken your advice and done so.

Appreciate the support x"

Always always report. I’m not saying the mods are amazing but things will never improve if people don’t report things. No one should have to put up with abuse. I had a social Tuesday evening with a lady who had felt the need to hide her profile due to morons with entitlement issues…

. People wouldn’t get away with it in the street.

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By *heLongTongueMan
over a year ago

Boston

"I'd love to be called a whore bitch

especially if someone dressed me in lingerie and used me

Inappropriate bearing in mind the sentiment behind the initial post.

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By *nigmatic_AngelWoman
over a year ago

The place where fairies live

"Just been called that for not replying to messages.

Doesn’t feel great. Naturally hit block but just need to vent. It’s not cool.

Sad and ironic that this is the “insult” being thrown when you’re on this site! Leaves me despairing that attitudes can still be so old skool

It's not on. People need to just grow up!

Someone on a dating site didn't like my polite thanks but no thanks" and replied with "didn't like you anyway, you're a meany and a munger"

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By *ick_RyderMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

I know some people say "It's just name calling.", but those who do do not understand that an emotional attack is oftentimes worse than a physical attack.

I learnt a long time ago (I was in my early 30's) that the only way to beat the bullies was to accept, and enjoy, the names they call you: It takes away their power.

Oh yeah, Block and Report works well, too. If people get enough reports against them they tend to get banned and can't use that profile to continue their abuse with others.

I am not an advocate for naming and shaming under most circumstances, but in the case of bullies, abusers in my books, I say spread their names all over every social media you are part of. Abusers do not stop, they just run out of ways they can abuse.

Hope this helps.

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By *eard and BoobsCouple
over a year ago

Portstewart

I've recently been called a fat fuck of a virgin because I asked someone to watch there tone when speaking to my wife lol he was blocked and I know I'm a chubby guy and I don't care what others think of me tbh

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

Simply a total nutjob. Funny how people become nasty when they feel rejected. This is a big red flag a i honestly wish fab would allow a section where we can add these profiles so to warn others of their behaviour.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It always makes me laugh when they say whore or slag, like dude I've have slept with you if that was true lol.

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