FabSwingers.com forum: Do ladies really meet couples

By *oinJamesandJessica OP Couple
over a year ago

Stanley area

Sorry, us again, still curious and still getting our heads around who, what, when, where etc is possible

Couples or ladies with first hand experience, do single females really meet couples?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They certainly do

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By *iquid GoldCouple
over a year ago

gloucestershire

From our experience they are very elusive and you will be very lucky to find one! That said, when you do (apparently) it will be worth the wait.

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Ruislip

They certainly do. We've had socials with several and have been to bed with one of them. We'll be meeting up again next month, too.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes. I have done in the past anyway

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By *heekyFlirtyCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Stockport

Yes they do

Mr's j being properly bi and not just fab bi helps

And her having lived with a woman and had a girlfriend probably helps our success rate lots

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes we do.

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By *isfits behaving badlyCouple
over a year ago

Coventry

Yes they do. Like anyone else it's just finding the right mutual attraction. Obviously made harder by the numbers.

We've generally ended up befriendimg and going with single ladies at clubs.

I think a lot of single ladies like the fact you can meet people risk free on neutral ground at clubs. There you can meet people but your not tied down to anyone and free to be a social butterfly if you don't vibe with them (unlike a pre arranged meet solely with another couple).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, they do

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By *.L.0460.Woman
over a year ago

Bognor Regis

I always said I wouldn't, but was tempted to meet a local couple, mainly because they sounded like lovely people. We met a few times & it was lots of fun.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Yes but probably over 80% of the users on the site wants to find a single lady and as couples and single men out number single ladies 100's to 1 the odds aren't good but not impossible

Your profile doesn't say why you want a single lady other than to play, where does your male come in, will he be present, watching, will he join in, with you, the new lady, you need to explain more what your looking for

If he'll be involved you need photos of him, if it's genuinely just girl girl play you'd be better off with a single girl profile

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By *isstinseltoesWoman
over a year ago

Calderdale innit

From posts I've seen yes they do

They would need to see the male aswell as the female though on a profile.

Clubs seem to be a good bet .

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By *hillenCouple
over a year ago

Borehamwood

We've met 3 single ladies so far and have a few potentials for the future so yes it does happen if not that often. As someone else said pics of both of you and setting out what you're looking for are important elements in finding someone.

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By *dwalu2Couple
over a year ago

Bristol

All the single (and not single) women we’ve met have been through Fab. It’s never going to be easy for a couple and a woman to meet for a number of reasons.

First is trust and comfort - it takes a lot for a woman to be prepared to meet a couple in the first place, whether at their home, her home or a hotel. She has to feel safe and confident they will take care of her, and meet her needs. And the couple has to feel comfortable and trusting too, confident that allowing her into their relationship will be equally safe and fulfilling for them both.

After that there has to be a mutual three-way attraction, which is obviously trickier than one on one. Then you have geography - your perfect match will often be miles away. And if all that is aligned you’ve still got to marry everyone’s busy schedules. So it’s never going to be easy!

And yet it does happen; all those boxes can be ticked, and when they are it’s a brilliant experience for all involved. That’s been our experience, hope it works out the same for you too.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

Yes....well I do x

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By *ornylittlesubWoman
over a year ago

Grangemouth

Defo.....twice the fun!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've met couples in the past. Hard to find the click with both people though. Also appears your profile seeks just the ladies playing? Which is fine, but not very keen on just 'putting on a show' for the husband. So there's that. Plus the 'slimmer' comment? Of course everyone has body preferences, but as a curvy woman I'm never sure what constitutes a 'weight cut off point for some folk?

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By *eyond PurityCouple
over a year ago

Lincolnshire

We’ve been lucky enough to meet with a few women.

I would say that what appeals to women (well the ones we’ve spoken to) is to see a pics of both the guy and the girl on a profile - that helps them see both of you and not just the generic pic of the guys appendage. It also shows what type of pics you are willing to show…graphic pics might put some off!

The profile also needs to show what you are about. If it’s a list of demands or hoops they have to jump through, it’ll become less appealing.

If they feel they are a tick box exercise and there’s nothing to gain for them, then what’s the point.

Don’t see it as a mission…it’s about connecting and getting to understand each other and what each one of you wants from the experience.

But getting to chatting stage is harder if there’s so many red flags on a profile.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We got into this scene after a random night with a mutual female friend.

There was several fun nights after that but we've concentrated more on the MFMF dynamic since because it suited us more.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We do exist

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By *redGinger2016Couple
over a year ago

not far away

Oh yes - we have been lucky to have several women join us for threesomes

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By *elkieWoman
over a year ago

Durham

Of course we do. All of my threesomes (as the unicorn) have happened at the club though, I find it really hard to talk to couples on shared profiles and build a connection because I’m never sure who’s sending which messages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I have quite a few times now

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By *luttyLaylaWoman
over a year ago

North West

Yup.

Most meet through clubs (and then meet outside it) rather than fab though IMO x

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By *ose and her beastCouple
over a year ago

Watford

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By *entleman JayMan
over a year ago

Wakefield

Like rocking horse poo.

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

Yes if it's all mutual, honest, open and without stress. Couples are fantastic to meet when it works. But I don't meet them often. Maybe clubs are the way forward OP, less pressure, easier environment.

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By *sLillyMrWolfeCouple
over a year ago

near you...

I have done but usually after meeting them with my bf and then only if I fancy both (rare but possible).

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By *ungry CatCouple
over a year ago

Belfast

We find it a lot easier to meet a single woman than a single man (go figure)

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By *inkycreamCouple
over a year ago

manchester

We’ve met more single women than couples swinging, some in clubs mostly, and probably a handful on here and some great friendship has formed.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I have done but usually after meeting them with my bf and then only if I fancy both (rare but possible)."

Definitely agree with this

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Of course we do. All of my threesomes (as the unicorn) have happened at the club though, I find it really hard to talk to couples on shared profiles and build a connection because I’m never sure who’s sending which messages"

This is so true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Called Unicorns for a reason

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By *urlitlesecretxCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

Yes they appear to, but sadly not us

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By *acky RacersCouple
over a year ago

Lincoln

Yes...many of our close friends are single ladies and we have met them through playing.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sometimes we do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Stranger things have happened

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On my old profile, when I did meet, my first Fab social and follow up fun meet was with a couple. I was very nervous, they were very kind and it was great. So yes, ladies do in my experience. It helped that I ‘virtually’ spoke with both parties and felt that they were on the same page, not all couple connections are the same for single ladies. I hope you find what you’re looking for. Kx

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By *ady BoobiliciousWoman
over a year ago

rainbow town

We do

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By *ong-leggedblondWoman
over a year ago

Next Door

I do. im selective, as some couples think single females are their play thing, have to have mutual attraction for all of us,

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By *icentiousCouple
over a year ago

Up on them there hills

We have met quite a few, often more than once.

We both adore single ladies.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

"Sorry, us again, still curious and still getting our heads around who, what, when, where etc is possible

Couples or ladies with first hand experience, do single females really meet couples?"

Yes they do.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. im selective, as some couples think single females are their play thing, have to have mutual attraction for all of us, "

I think this makes up a big part perhaps? I think there's sometimes the expectation that you'll rock up as some kind of additional animated marital aide?... Obviously not saying this for the majority of folk seeking! But it feels kinda 'off' on occasion

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes they do... Newcastle area and the west Midlands was a lot of fun... Scotland too. It pays to be involved in the club scene.

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

Do they meet single males

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

"I do. im selective, as some couples think single females are their play thing, have to have mutual attraction for all of us,

Exactly this

If I get a vibe that I'll just be a 'performing monkey' to please them and not get mutual benefit, it's a no

And you definitely can get those vibes in the first few messages / minutes of chatting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do. im selective, as some couples think single females are their play thing, have to have mutual attraction for all of us,

Exactly this

If I get a vibe that I'll just be a 'performing monkey' to please them and not get mutual benefit, it's a no

And you definitely can get those vibes in the first few messages / minutes of chatting "

Yep, totally this. Plus I really want to interact with the lady from the couple vs the male from the pair for intial chat. Yes, you maybe on the same page? But I want to know she's fully on board and where we all stand

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