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Couples meeting alone & separately

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this a frequent occurrence in your swinging dynamic?

It’s something we have no qualms about doing (either of us) as we have a LDR. We having amazing times together when we do spend time together but realise that itd be nice to carry on when each of us are away.

But we have so much difficulty in finding other couples that operate like this.

So I’m thinking it’s not all that normal? Maybe fbs would be better for each of us?

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By *ihmMan
over a year ago

West Wales


"Is this a frequent occurrence in your swinging dynamic?

It’s something we have no qualms about doing (either of us) as we have a LDR. We having amazing times together when we do spend time together but realise that itd be nice to carry on when each of us are away.

But we have so much difficulty in finding other couples that operate like this.

So I’m thinking it’s not all that normal? Maybe fbs would be better for each of us? "

The Mrs and I meet separately when the mood takes us. We both enjoy it now and then, keeps things interesting and we aren't always attracted to the same people, so it works well. Mostly together though, but I should imagine that if we were in a long distance relationship it would be a more regular thing. Not sure how "normal" it is, never really bothered us about anything else we get up to

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By *penbicoupleCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

We do that, but via other websites.

It just keeps things easier on fab.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is that not just an open relationship?

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Worked for us for years

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By *herryblossom_BJWoman
over a year ago

Oxfordshire/Hampshire

I love to meet a consented married man... virtually impossible to find one i am attracted to who has a wife who doesn't really want to get involved. Usually they ask if it could be videoed or they be on the phone whilst things go on etc.

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By *tarburst babydollMan
over a year ago

Dingwall

We both meet separately as well as together although me moreso than the hubby. He struggles as so many women won't meet attached guys even although I am OK with it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We're meeting as a couple at the moment but that could change in the future.

Mrs

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We are definitely swingers rather than an open relationship. We only have sex with others to enhance our own sexual relationship. Therefore we only play together. We have had separate meets in the past. But it's so much more fun together

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

We do this though not that often as we just don't have the time/energy.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think it’s hard for the guys to get a meet.

We both play together and apart

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By *i_guy_sloughMan
over a year ago

Langley

My wife and I mostly meet apart as our libidos are often out of sync and we are looking for different things. I find it a lot harder than she does to arrange a meet but I’d rather have a few amazing meets than lots of mediocre ones.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

In theory, we meet separately but in practice it doesn’t happen very often. Paprika likes me to be around, even if in another room, when meeting so she doesn’t go off alone. I’ve been lucky a handful of times to meet up with people but that’s it.

But in theory…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's not frequent but we do do it if we want to. It's more lack of free time that stops us.

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By *indictiveMan
over a year ago

Bridgend

Yeah its something we are open too, think the idea of each of us playing separately then telling each other all about it while having fun!

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By *irtygirlsCouple (FF)
over a year ago

Manchester

We meet alone or rather go to clubs, to be specific

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By *entative_steps7781Couple
over a year ago

Home

We meet and play solo. We started it because on a logistical level it means we can meet and not have to pay out for babysitters, but now I really enjoy watching S get things sorted with other people and seeing that excitement etc, as well as hearing what they get up to (not the sexual side, just how the date went, what they thought etc)

We do play as a couple too, but that is more difficult to orchestrate, but just as much fun as solo play

MJ x

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