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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I found it hard on here as ive only ever been with one lady. Do other ladies think its a problem

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By *he Secret Tea PartyCouple
over a year ago

London

I'm sure that won't be the reason for any lack of success

KM

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

You’ve been on here 5 weeks and have already had a meet. You’re doing better than most.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I mean ive only been with one lady in my life x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I found it hard on here as ive only ever been with one lady. Do other ladies think its a problem "

Is it a problem for you?

It wouldn't be a problem for us.

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By *lassic guyMan
over a year ago

my bed to your just ask

I don't see why it should be a problem

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I think others may not be interested because of my lack of experience

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have only been with one man, I sometimes wonder if it makes me a bit weird or if it is a good thing, but I don't see it as a problem.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Maybe im like to find someone who can show me what ive missed out on but are also understanding

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im just finding it so difficult

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I think others may not be interested because of my lack of experience "

Experience doesn't equal good.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being honest and open about it is commendable, and I don’t see any reason why it would be a problem. As with anything on here, some will prefer guys with experience and some won’t be bothered by it. Concentrate on being yourself, and don’t worry so much about what other people may or may not want you to be

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Im just finding it so difficult to find that lady

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As for " missing out " the saying goes you can't miss what you haven't had

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I think others may not be interested because of my lack of experience

Experience doesn't equal good."

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Being honest and open about it is commendable, and I don’t see any reason why it would be a problem. As with anything on here, some will prefer guys with experience and some won’t be bothered by it. Concentrate on being yourself, and don’t worry so much about what other people may or may not want you to be "
thanks x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Im just finding it so difficult to find that lady"

You've been here five weeks. It's quite difficult for single men anyway. Positivity is always preferable when presenting yourself

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I try and be positive but its hard on here x

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I try and be positive but its hard on here x"

If you click on the reply+quote underneath the post you're replying to we'll know who you're talking to .

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I try and be positive but its hard on here x"

Do you feel able to join in some of the forum threads? In a friendly and positive way. I know it can be daunting at first.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I try and be positive but its hard on here x

If you click on the reply+quote underneath the post you're replying to we'll know who you're talking to .

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ok sorry xx

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"I try and be positive but its hard on here x

If you click on the reply+quote underneath the post you're replying to we'll know who you're talking to .

ok sorry xx"

There's nothing to apologise for. Everyone was new once.

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By *sBlueWoman
over a year ago

Up North


"I found it hard on here as ive only ever been with one lady. Do other ladies think its a problem "

Not at all but I don’t think that’s the issue here

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Are there any ladies or couples interested in chatting and dont mind me lack of experience

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Are there any ladies or couples interested in chatting and dont mind me lack of experience "

I don’t mind lack of experience but your profile would put me off

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there any ladies or couples interested in chatting and dont mind me lack of experience

I don’t mind lack of experience but your profile would put me off"
in what way x

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By *oliday slutCouple
over a year ago

tenerife


"I found it hard on here as ive only ever been with one lady. Do other ladies think its a problem "
if true how do you know you would like cuckold and adult parties and threesomes with no experience I cannot imagine anyone taking you seriously

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I found it hard on here as ive only ever been with one lady. Do other ladies think its a problem if true how do you know you would like cuckold and adult parties and threesomes with no experience I cannot imagine anyone taking you seriously "
maybe im hoping for to much

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By *iss KinkWoman
over a year ago

North West


"Are there any ladies or couples interested in chatting and dont mind me lack of experience

I don’t mind lack of experience but your profile would put me off in what way x"

Maybe have a good look at your profile. Not allowed to give profile advice unless you ask for it

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

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"I found it hard on here as ive only ever been with one lady. Do other ladies think its a problem if true how do you know you would like cuckold and adult parties and threesomes with no experience I cannot imagine anyone taking you seriously "

Agree totally

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Are there any ladies or couples interested in chatting and dont mind me lack of experience

I don’t mind lack of experience but your profile would put me off in what way x

Maybe have a good look at your profile. Not allowed to give profile advice unless you ask for it "
could you give me advice please

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Ive taken advice on board and changed a few things thanks

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle


"Ive taken advice on board and changed a few things thanks "

Hiya pal

Mind you their is loads of helpful advice among the pile of threads from previous folk whom asked similar as yourself it's a great way to start then you can create something that fits around you personally it's a tool within the forum Search results from previous folk help advice profile.

Hope this helps

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

I have been with 2 I’m. It worried about numbers it making the best out of a meet cos if your food they willl want more of you.

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By *ackandtheunicornCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

How would anyone know? Unless you tell them it's highly unlikely anyone would ask outside of a ltr.

I can't imagine any women going, as you're putting the Johnny on, so how many have you shagged? Just ONE! OH, you better leave then, not interested anymore.

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle

If you want more experience, try a sex worker.

Most women probably wouldn't even notice you'd only been with 1 woman unless you mentioned it.

Is this your hang up or has someone said something while trying to get intimate

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"If you want more experience, try a sex worker.

Most women probably wouldn't even notice you'd only been with 1 woman unless you mentioned it.

Is this your hang up or has someone said something while trying to get intimate "
its a worry on my behalf

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By *iss.ddWoman
over a year ago

Leeds + Newcastle


"If you want more experience, try a sex worker.

Most women probably wouldn't even notice you'd only been with 1 woman unless you mentioned it.

Is this your hang up or has someone said something while trying to get intimate its a worry on my behalf "

Genuine question then - why are you on fabswingers?

Are you genuinely interested in the swinging lifestyle or do you just want to use it to get your dick wet?

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By *lowercandyWoman
over a year ago

Lancashire

Instead of focusing on getting a meet spend time in the forums, get out to social events

The site really is very much more than sex!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I want a lady where we can both enjoy eachother

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