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"Although it’s not exactly what you asked in this thread we’ve had long term female partners that have been exactly what you’re describing. If we ever stumble across the right male to welcome into our sexual hobbies in this way then we’d love to have that. It’s been quite a surprise since we started welcoming males into our dynamic in that the genuinely respectful and suitable men a very hard to find. " Thanks for sharing. It is surprising how often I hear that comment from couples and see it in the forums. It’s pretty frustrating for the good guys out here that there seem to be so many idiots out there giving us a bad name and making people wary. | |||
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"I enjoyed a fantastic long term relationship with a married couple where I was the 3rd person in their sex life. It lasted about 2.5 / 3 years but then their eldest child got too old to be sent off to babysitters and the fun had to end." Shame! Fun while it lasted though. | |||
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"Hi there, again not exactly what you are asking but I would love a long term sexual relationship with two mature guys. How wonderful and fulfilling that would be. " How wonderful indeed! If I find a second I will let you know! ?? | |||
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"We like the idea of becoming friends with someone for regular meets but we've always found it never works in reality Well he getting messages everyday asking when we are next meeting despite us having said it will be a monthly thing Or they moan if we advertise a meet, because we should have asked them first if they were free etc People always seem to want more that we want to offer so we stick to one offs " Yeah there need to be simple rules that are respected by all parties but it’s not much to ask is it. | |||
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"Don't you think that the male joining the couple gets more out of it than the couple though.. I mean, as a mfcouple it's quite fun to vary who joins us. It could become samey otherwise..??? " I see your point. Although if you find the right person and you all feel free to explore all your kinks, I feel like it should take quite a number of meets before you get bored! | |||
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"that’s interesting point - i was going to start a thread just on this topic. I have been playing MFM with a couple for at least 8 years ! Your point is really well made - as the sex has got better and better because we have all become such good friends. We have great chat at bar/dinner and are always texting each other. Exactly my findings with the right playmates / friends And the sex is fantastic as i know what their kinks are and they know what mine are… you lose all sense of shyness - " | |||
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"I enjoyed a fantastic long term relationship with a married couple where I was the 3rd person in their sex life. It lasted about 2.5 / 3 years but then their eldest child got too old to be sent off to babysitters and the fun had to end." Sounds perfect | |||
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"I enjoyed a fantastic long term relationship with a married couple where I was the 3rd person in their sex life. It lasted about 2.5 / 3 years but then their eldest child got too old to be sent off to babysitters and the fun had to end. Sounds perfect" It was, they were a great couple | |||
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"We’ve had regular males over the years that have become good friends as well as lovers. They do take a lot of finding and it’s something all parties have to work at; however the rewards are worth it !" Totally agree…. | |||
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"Don't you think that the male joining the couple gets more out of it than the couple though.. I mean, as a mfcouple it's quite fun to vary who joins us. It could become samey otherwise..??? " Precisely which is why when we've had the conversations with guys we've always said meets would me once a month at most but we will still get a txt on a few days later saying I'm free tonight if you'd like me to pop over then even you politely do no they ask if your free at the weekend etc It makes you not want to see people more than once & you end up wanting to block people you actually had a decent first meet with because they start becoming a pest | |||
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"Don't you think that the male joining the couple gets more out of it than the couple though.. I mean, as a mfcouple it's quite fun to vary who joins us. It could become samey otherwise..??? Precisely which is why when we've had the conversations with guys we've always said meets would me once a month at most but we will still get a txt on a few days later saying I'm free tonight if you'd like me to pop over then even you politely do no they ask if your free at the weekend etc It makes you not want to see people more than once & you end up wanting to block people you actually had a decent first meet with because they start becoming a pest " That must be annoying - also dont these guys have other things to do …like chores/shopping at the weekend…most weekends i am busy at Waitrose (posh i know!) | |||
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"Don't you think that the male joining the couple gets more out of it than the couple though.. I mean, as a mfcouple it's quite fun to vary who joins us. It could become samey otherwise..??? Precisely which is why when we've had the conversations with guys we've always said meets would me once a month at most but we will still get a txt on a few days later saying I'm free tonight if you'd like me to pop over then even you politely do no they ask if your free at the weekend etc It makes you not want to see people more than once & you end up wanting to block people you actually had a decent first meet with because they start becoming a pest That must be annoying - also dont these guys have other things to do …like chores/shopping at the weekend…most weekends i am busy at Waitrose (posh i know!)" No Waitrose anywhere near me | |||
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" When we’ve thought about it we conclude that a “regular” would necessarily become a part of our “real” lives. Obviously you have to chat right? The more you chat the more you learn about each other and the more involved you become in each other’s lives. There is therefore a definite divide for us and it the price of this is less understanding of particular sexual needs then so be it. For us the sex is enhanced by having a third join us and we’re confident enough to get what we want out of the encounters. We always make sure though that our guest leaves happy too. " Lucky guys | |||
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"We enjoyed a MMF relationship for 10+ years - great fun whilst it lasted, Now looking for another buddy, but really struggling to find any male that fits the bill and willing to make the effort." Too bad you are looking for white guy! Would love a long tern friendship with couple like you! | |||
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"Hi all, just wondered whether any couples on here have long term arrangements, friendships, relationships - whatever you want to call it - with a regular third? Mmf, particularly bi mmf, is my favourite way to play and I have enjoyed many over the years. But they have usually been one-offs, and I can’t help but think it would be nice to have repeat performances - in my experience sex usually gets better when you build a connection and understanding, learn what turns your partners on and how to push their buttons. Plus repeat performances give you more time to explore all the delightfully dirty acts and scenarios your naught hearts desire! And frankly finding new people takes time and effort. I’m sure there will be a few couples on here who have ‘regulars’. If anyone is happy to share it would be very interesting to hear your experiences and how you fell into something regular. Thanks in advance! " We would love to find a guy for regular mmf fun trouble is you have to find a decent guy out of all the ones that are just after one offs and when you do find one all 3 of you have to like each other | |||
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"Although it’s not exactly what you asked in this thread we’ve had long term female partners that have been exactly what you’re describing. If we ever stumble across the right male to welcome into our sexual hobbies in this way then we’d love to have that. It’s been quite a surprise since we started welcoming males into our dynamic in that the genuinely respectful and suitable men a very hard to find. Thanks for sharing. It is surprising how often I hear that comment from couples and see it in the forums. It’s pretty frustrating for the good guys out here that there seem to be so many idiots out there giving us a bad name and making people wary." The last line ..I feel you mate,same tought here. | |||
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"Don't you think that the male joining the couple gets more out of it than the couple though.. I mean, as a mfcouple it's quite fun to vary who joins us. It could become samey otherwise..??? I see your point. Although if you find the right person and you all feel free to explore all your kinks, I feel like it should take quite a number of meets before you get bored! " Then why don’t you find a female partner and offer that relationship to her and another male? It seems you want your cake and eat it without really investing in what real couples do to strengthen and develop their relationship. What I see from you is, you want your jollies without putting in the work and now complaining like a spoiled little child. You want it little boy then you build it!! I have no doubt you probably think you are the better lover in this relationship also. Come and go as you please cause all kinds of issues then disappear back to your safe haven and then return when you feel fit and well. All I see is you floating around like fairy dust, talking about right dynamics. There’s plenty of people in Poly relationships so what’s stopping you. All of the above | |||
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