FabSwingers.com forum: Filming!!

By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

No you're absolutely right OP. No way is that happening x

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

I would never allow filming or pictures to be taken (even using my own devices) you never know where it could end up. I'd feel like a performing seal x

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would never allow filming or pictures to be taken (even using my own devices) you never know where it could end up. I'd feel like a performing seal x"

You do look awesome with a couple of balls balanced in your nose

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By *ummerforeverMan
over a year ago

greenford

To me, it’s a bit like going to a concert and filming the whole time rather then enjoying the atmosphere and whole event. It’s a no from me also, I find clubs are great ways to avoid this as by nature there should be no filming.

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would never allow filming or pictures to be taken (even using my own devices) you never know where it could end up. I'd feel like a performing seal x

You do look awesome with a couple of balls balanced in your nose

Prefer them on my chin

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By *valanche1001Man
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would never allow filming or pictures to be taken (even using my own devices) you never know where it could end up. I'd feel like a performing seal x

You do look awesome with a couple of balls balanced in your nose

Prefer them on my chin

Oooffftt

Oh no hang on that was a different thread.

Ah sod it, I stand by that statement

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

"I would never allow filming or pictures to be taken (even using my own devices) you never know where it could end up. I'd feel like a performing seal x

You do look awesome with a couple of balls balanced in your nose

Prefer them on my chin

Oooffftt

Oh no hang on that was a different thread.

Ah sod it, I stand by that statement "

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By *stoppMan
over a year ago

Durham

I've been filmed and photographed during cuckold meets.. on those occasions i came away with a copy of the film and photos.

At the outset i request the cameras are used so as to not include my face.

I have in the past and still do photograph couples and women at levels including nude also during sex. I always discuss levels and limits first, I also show them all photos etc before leaving, any they are not happy with are deleted instantly.. I never ask for a copy at private shoots they get the SD card, sometimes they will allow a couple for me to keep with the understanding they stay private. It is a trust thing and that has to established at the outset.

I only post up photos i have been given permission to do so.

My work with professional paid models is on other sites, again its with their permission only even though i paid them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Doesn’t bother me at all I quite like being filmed

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By *aughtycpl276927Couple
over a year ago

PRESTON

We love to play on cams suppose that’s the same thing really

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We enjoy the filming aspect, Mrs can't help but perform when the camera is on her.

We may suggest it, though never demand.

It works for us, it means Mrs gets to enjoy two guys together and Mr sits back on occasion to record, allowing Mrs and gent to enjoy a little time one on one.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think. "

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

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By *om Bert2020Man
over a year ago

Jersey / Swansea

I don't mind as long as my face not included,l don't have any tattoos or marks that could identify me.

So more than happy as long as face not seen during the session ??

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!! "

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU!

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By *etcplCouple
over a year ago

Gapping Fanny

Different strokes for different folks.

We enjoy filming and being filmed, but its all down to whats agreed at the time.

For some it can be a thrill to rewatch, but I do agree that sometimes you can get caught up filming and not enjoying yourself.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

That is your choice and you have every right to stand my it, with out compromise.

As for me I don't mind some guys have film our meets. I know one man that has put a few videos on his profile on a different site. It just amazes me that people like it.

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU! "

Ask for public comment by starting a public post then don’t like it when people comment.??

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By *luebell888Woman
over a year ago

Glasgowish

I don't mind being filmed but it is always done with my phone of a male friends phone who I trust 100%.

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By *arkhelgaCouple
over a year ago

leeds

Been filmed,thoroughly naughty, would recommend 100%,life as they say is very shortXxxxxxxxxxM&HXxxxxxxxxxx

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU!

Ask for public comment by starting a public post then don’t like it when people comment.?? "

There is commenting and there is being a prick. Note the effing difference. More importantly, note you don't own monopoly to being a smarty pant!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No objection to being filmed, in fact I find it quite the turn on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We once got a bit carried away one particular deviant occasion & pretty sure a phone came out which filmed some of it. Since then we've had that horrible feeling in the back of head that one day it may resurface

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"We once got a bit carried away one particular deviant occasion & pretty sure a phone came out which filmed some of it. Since then we've had that horrible feeling in the back of head that one day it may resurface

You know what, that's my take on the matter too: something popping up down the road.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We filmed a couple of our meets and ourselves a lot

. Never show faces though x

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By *ang Average guyMan
over a year ago

Farnborough

I was against but have agreed a couple of times and now love watching them back

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By *oan of DArcCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

You know what, that's my take on the matter too: something popping up down the road. "

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In this instance you're talking about being filmed without consent which is a totally different scenario.

Personally I love being filmed and watching it back with hubby, but obviously with everyone's approval

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

Its a personal choice.

If you dont want to you dont have to.

Visa versa.

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

Did with 1 guy a few times. There was 1 condition, that I didn't have to see it lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

as long as pre planned i dont see the problem if you dont want to be filmed just say no and move on ..

we film sometimes if the guy agrees its do on my phone no other copies as soon as cucks seen it then its deleted ... we dont want to keep anything like that its just a ''moment'' thing...

however those that record without you knowing well they are pure scum if we found we were being recorded againts our wishes then the police would be involved no matter what

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Tom likes to film, he'll wank over them till our next meet. I rarely watch them myself. We've never been with anyone who minded and if we post clips online there are never any faces shown

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think. "

You raise good points OP having said that, I'm in a few home movies haha but it don't bother me personally. But do see your valid points, might reconsider

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By *ashaPCouple
over a year ago

derby

Don’t mind being filmed all agreed and consented to before hand.

Been known to even stream on fab cams lol

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"We filmed a couple of our meets and ourselves a lot

. Never show faces though x"

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By *d_deeTV/TS
over a year ago

cheshire

I film with a couple of regulars.

So much easier to get pictures from.

Never show their face and all approved by them before posting.

If I meet and someone not happy then I agree with their wishes and don't film

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By *utterypopcornCouple
over a year ago

oxford

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU!

Ask for public comment by starting a public post then don’t like it when people comment.??

There is commenting and there is being a prick. Note the effing difference. More importantly, note you don't own monopoly to being a smarty pant!

Wow. A prick you are the one who calls people egocentric and selfish for there requests that you don’t agree with. I feel there is only one prick here sir and it in your user name

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

The dog that got hit, you know yourself.

See how us common people have managed to do justice to a fine topic without prickish comments.

Get a life!

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU!

Ask for public comment by starting a public post then don’t like it when people comment.??

There is commenting and there is being a prick. Note the effing difference. More importantly, note you don't own monopoly to being a smarty pant!

Wow. A prick you are the one who calls people egocentric and selfish for there requests that you don’t agree with. I feel there is only one prick here sir and it in your user name

Sorry to point this out, but the word in front of “requests” in your post above should be “their”, not “there”.

If you are going to go to war with someone, make sure your weapons don’t backfire.

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By *asycouple1971Couple
over a year ago

midlands

We like taking pics and the odd filming.

Pics and vids are never posted without the other persons consent.

Him

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I find it a huge turn on but had to be with people u trust x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I find it a huge turn on but had to be with people u trust x"

This

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU!

Ask for public comment by starting a public post then don’t like it when people comment.??

There is commenting and there is being a prick. Note the effing difference. More importantly, note you don't own monopoly to being a smarty pant!

Wow. A prick you are the one who calls people egocentric and selfish for there requests that you don’t agree with. I feel there is only one prick here sir and it in your user name

Sorry to point this out, but the word in front of “requests” in your post above should be “their”, not “there”.

If you are going to go to war with someone, make sure your weapons don’t backfire."

Be careful mate, comments like this might have the OP name calling you as a prick.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU!

Ask for public comment by starting a public post then don’t like it when people comment.??

There is commenting and there is being a prick. Note the effing difference. More importantly, note you don't own monopoly to being a smarty pant!

Wow. A prick you are the one who calls people egocentric and selfish for there requests that you don’t agree with. I feel there is only one prick here sir and it in your user name

Sorry to point this out, but the word in front of “requests” in your post above should be “their”, not “there”.

If you are going to go to war with someone, make sure your weapons don’t backfire.

Be careful mate, comments like this might have the OP name calling you as a prick.

Nuh, mate. You see, when a bully gets bullied back, all the saints sing hosanna. Its all groovy here, cool and good in the hood.

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By *ixey and CopperCouple
over a year ago

Exeter

We've taken photos before, but always swap phones/cameras.

That way we're in control of the content they'll have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU!

Ask for public comment by starting a public post then don’t like it when people comment.??

There is commenting and there is being a prick. Note the effing difference. More importantly, note you don't own monopoly to being a smarty pant!

Wow. A prick you are the one who calls people egocentric and selfish for there requests that you don’t agree with. I feel there is only one prick here sir and it in your user name

Sorry to point this out, but the word in front of “requests” in your post above should be “their”, not “there”.

If you are going to go to war with someone, make sure your weapons don’t backfire.

Be careful mate, comments like this might have the OP name calling you as a prick.

Nuh, mate. You see, when a bully gets bullied back, all the saints sing hosanna. Its all groovy here, cool and good in the hood. "

I genuinely do not understand how you can suggest their post was remotely bully like, tbh your response and the other guys I replied to come across more that way.

Even your opening post was quite aggressive.

Don't get me wrong, I get what you're saying, if people are demanding for recordings then yeah it's self centered, but if that's their thing, their kink and it isn't yours, so be it, who are we to suggest they're wrong or egocentric because it's not what we seek?.

I think the couple that responded to you missed that you mentioned the term 'demand', and felt they needed to defend against your opening post.

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By *evaquitCouple
over a year ago

Catthorpe

This thread's rudderless, it's all over the show

For the record we love a vid and a pic, on our devices only though but we always send faceless copies to whoever we play with.

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

A lot of violence in the air, innit?

On a more serious note, the (un)usual 'its their choice, walk away if it ain't your thing' line may seem innocuous but it is a display of micro aggression!

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By *ilad4kicksMan
over a year ago

Ashford

I guess some people like to keep memories of their meets. For me if we both get a copy and we also agree genuine no sharing it’s ok with me but each to their own just discuss before a meet rather than put people on the spot at the actual meet

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

"A lot of violence in the air, innit?

On a more serious note, the (un)usual 'its their choice, walk away if it ain't your thing' line may seem innocuous but it is a display of micro aggression! "

Where is the micro aggression there?

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By *ollydoesWoman
over a year ago

Shangri-La

I do fail to understand though, while your opening post explains very well your feelings on the subject. Why do you then end it by asking for other people's thoughts on it to then argue everyone who thinks different. Its one thing to say if you don't want to do something as you don't like it, but to then actually make the comments insulting people who do enjoy it is pathetic.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I do fail to understand though, while your opening post explains very well your feelings on the subject. Why do you then end it by asking for other people's thoughts on it to then argue everyone who thinks different. Its one thing to say if you don't want to do something as you don't like it, but to then actually make the comments insulting people who do enjoy it is pathetic. "

Funnily enough, it's very egocentric, dismissing others views and even posting aggressively when challenged, then suggesting others are the problem. (shrugs)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"A lot of violence in the air, innit?

On a more serious note, the (un)usual 'its their choice, walk away if it ain't your thing' line may seem innocuous but it is a display of micro aggression! "

A micro aggression? I can’t say I’d see the example you gave as such, it looks like a take it or leave it comment, having said that, there may be something I’m missing

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By *rispyDuckMan
over a year ago

Chinese Takeaway near you

Funnily enough, it's very egocentric, dismissing others views and even posting aggressively when challenged, then suggesting others are the problem. (shrugs)"

This comments are bang on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not a chance. If anything explicit is going to be online or used for anyone other than myself, I’d start an OF and get paid for it!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think. "

But you got your face picture on here ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would never allow filming or pictures to be taken (even using my own devices) you never know where it could end up. I'd feel like a performing seal x"

What difference does it make ? You got your tits out on your profile lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Aslong as no faces I'd be for it it's hot aslong it's filmed on my phone and edited bluring faces etc

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By *eliWoman
over a year ago

If you're not comfortable with it OP, that's fair enough. There are valid reasons to not be!

I've not been filmed/photographed in a good few years now, I only did when with a very trusted friend and used my phone. You've got to have that trust and also know when things don't sit right for you.

I'm not sure how I'd feel about someone photographing/filming me now, it requires a lot of trust and intimacy for me to feel comfortable enough. One day maybe!

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

We film and take stills as long as the other person is happy. Gimp mask is your friend

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By *lacksausage OP Man
over a year ago

Birmingham Airport

"We film and take stills as long as the other person is happy. Gimp mask is your friend

Where an I get one? Genuine question. I've missed out on many a play because of my 'fear' of some Shaggate down the line.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well you don't need to do it OP. Some people enjoy it. It's unfair to label them for it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Pretty integral part for us as most of our meets entail pics/vids of Rosie being sent to me from wherever she is to enjoy. Don’t think I’m important enough for some kind of scandal but if I ever run for PM I’ll own it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No problems with pics and short clips. Easy to crop someone's face out. We only meet couples though, and swapping partners requires just as much trust as filming/pics.

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By *eediousMan
over a year ago

Smallville

"For me, it's a NO, NOT BY THE HAIRS ON my CHIN!

Seriously, is my aversion to filming while swinging misplaced?

I mean you allow someone else to film you naked, for free, and they get to keep it? Do have to film at all? I think it's an egocentric selfish thing to demand that or even want to do it.

Well, I may be talking out of back pocket so let's hear what others think.

Egocentric and selfish???? You know you don’t have to see these people you do have the choice to walk away!!!

This is where I tell you, you can walk away too.

My feeling and I'm not forcing it on YOU!

Ask for public comment by starting a public post then don’t like it when people comment.??

There is commenting and there is being a prick. Note the effing difference. More importantly, note you don't own monopoly to being a smarty pant!

Wow. A prick you are the one who calls people egocentric and selfish for there requests that you don’t agree with. I feel there is only one prick here sir and it in your user name

Sorry to point this out, but the word in front of “requests” in your post above should be “their”, not “there”.

If you are going to go to war with someone, make sure your weapons don’t backfire.

Be careful mate, comments like this might have the OP name calling you as a prick.

Comments were not meant for the OP, but the person who responded to him in the thread.

Don’t really care about being called a prick by some nameless faceless somebody online. Thick skin here.

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