FabSwingers.com forum: Soft Swap to Full Swap

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Guys & Gals

We’ve been a soft swap couple our whole time on fab, and whilst we’ve not got lots of experience we’ve enjoyed this level of fun.

Recently, we’ve experienced a lot of knock backs due to being soft swap only, which is fine as we all want different things and no one should change what they’re looking for to suit others.

However, our question is how did you find going from a soft swap couple to then a full swap couple? Did you just take the plunge and do it, put a lot of thought into it or what?

This may seem pointless to a lot of people but we’re finding soft swap only couples where there’s a 4 way mutual attraction difficult to come by. If you are one of the elusive soft swap couple please feel free to contact us

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

We're not your target market so this isn't to suggest that we are

The thing is if you find it difficult to find a four way attraction for soft swing it'll be no different for full swap. We went from full to soft but noticed no difference.

As to whether you should just dive in or talk about it a lot I'd say that depends on your personal dynamic. Do you like to have set boundaries?

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By *aveandSue1Couple
over a year ago

Doncaster

We started off with a soft swing meeting that didn't involve any cross over contact of any sort. Both couples did there own thing.

Second meet with the same couple there was mutual kissing, stroking etc then the third meet it was everything but "penetrative sex".

As I recall Sue sucked the guy off while they did 69 and his wife did the same for me.

I say,as I recall, it was a very long time ago!

After that we thought we might as well go for full swop but had to find another couple as the soft swingers weren't up for it.

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

"We started off with a soft swing meeting that didn't involve any cross over contact of any sort. Both couples did there own thing.

Second meet with the same couple there was mutual kissing, stroking etc then the third meet it was everything but "penetrative sex".

As I recall Sue sucked the guy off while they did 69 and his wife did the same for me.

I say,as I recall, it was a very long time ago!

After that we thought we might as well go for full swop but had to find another couple as the soft swingers weren't up for it.

This ideally what we’re for. Meet a couple we get along with then play soft, working up to…wherever we all feel comfortable.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Guys & Gals

We’ve been a soft swap couple our whole time on fab, and whilst we’ve not got lots of experience we’ve enjoyed this level of fun.

Recently, we’ve experienced a lot of knock backs due to being soft swap only, which is fine as we all want different things and no one should change what they’re looking for to suit others.

However, our question is how did you find going from a soft swap couple to then a full swap couple? Did you just take the plunge and do it, put a lot of thought into it or what?

Honestly, we don't give a shit about the knockers.

We do what we want, and we are sure you do.

Enjoy the journey.

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By *hors fantasyCouple
over a year ago

Blackpool

We started as full swap, sometimes in the club soft swap happens but we would have no interest in getting dressed up to go to a house meet for soft swap,

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By *aughtycp1Couple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

We absolutely love soft swap. Some of our most erotic experiences have been with soft swap couples x

Mrs N x

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"We started off with a soft swing meeting that didn't involve any cross over contact of any sort. Both couples did there own thing.

Second meet with the same couple there was mutual kissing, stroking etc then the third meet it was everything but "penetrative sex".

As I recall Sue sucked the guy off while they did 69 and his wife did the same for me.

I say,as I recall, it was a very long time ago!

After that we thought we might as well go for full swop but had to find another couple as the soft swingers weren't up for it.

This ideally what we’re for. Meet a couple we get along with then play soft, working up to…wherever we all feel comfortable."

But you are a single guy!

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By *ocusMan
over a year ago

Cambridge

But you are a single guy!"

My wife is getting back into the kink scene but there's no rush to create another profile at the moment.

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By *arren and AliciaCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

This is what we are looking for soft swap then maybe onto full swap we are finding it hard to find a couple just for soft swap everyone just wants to dive right in lol

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