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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

What's your worst experience on here... Whether it be an abusive email, a meet which didn't work out, seeing somebody you know etc Etc

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

bloody hell after 11 years of meeting i could fill the whole thread with my odd/wierd/nutty meets

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"bloody hell after 11 years of meeting i could fill the whole thread with my odd/wierd/nutty meets "

Lol.... Suppose there plenty of others like you....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would say we have been lucky so far but treat it all as an experience with no real bad encounters.

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"I would say we have been lucky so far but treat it all as an experience with no real bad encounters. "

That's great... I like hearing that, maybe there are Least a small percentage of normal people x

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales

Had my iPhone stolen. He said he was going out to get something from the car, and I could see my phone the whole time. Only when I realised he wasn't coming back, I picked up my phone, to find it was an empty case. Bastard.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my iPhone stolen. He said he was going out to get something from the car, and I could see my phone the whole time. Only when I realised he wasn't coming back, I picked up my phone, to find it was an empty case. Bastard. "

What a twat!

Must admit, I leave money round the house, but put it away, if meeting someone. Did you not have some details, mobile etc, to pursue it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my iPhone stolen. He said he was going out to get something from the car, and I could see my phone the whole time. Only when I realised he wasn't coming back, I picked up my phone, to find it was an empty case. Bastard. "

i had a guy off here rob me

we got a hotel room and after we had played i went for a shower, when i came out he had gone along with everything of balue in my bag

never accured to me at the time to take my bag in the bathroom with me, i do now, thing is you get funny looks off guys when you carry your bag around with me like you dont trust them

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

value*

my typings shite today lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have been pretty lucky on here, think the worst things that have happened are, getting messaged by my younger cousin , and having some of our pictures pinched and plastered on a porn site!!! Haven't had any bad meets,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

turning upto a meet with drinks,hour and half later. a really good looking couple,but after 1 too many the fem gets d*unks and goes to bed..that was the end of our night.

Had a very similar meet local to us,really is of putting,especially to newbies,puts you off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my iPhone stolen. He said he was going out to get something from the car, and I could see my phone the whole time. Only when I realised he wasn't coming back, I picked up my phone, to find it was an empty case. Bastard.

i had a guy off here rob me

we got a hotel room and after we had played i went for a shower, when i came out he had gone along with everything of balue in my bag

never accured to me at the time to take my bag in the bathroom with me, i do now, thing is you get funny looks off guys when you carry your bag around with me like you dont trust them "

See, I would think thats strange too. It wouldn't even occur to me that you were worried I'd steal from you. Not how my mind would work

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge


"Had my iPhone stolen. He said he was going out to get something from the car, and I could see my phone the whole time. Only when I realised he wasn't coming back, I picked up my phone, to find it was an empty case. Bastard.

i had a guy off here rob me

we got a hotel room and after we had played i went for a shower, when i came out he had gone along with everything of balue in my bag

never accured to me at the time to take my bag in the bathroom with me, i do now, thing is you get funny looks off guys when you carry your bag around with me like you dont trust them "

Well, I don't bloody trust them! I don't know them so if they are offended then that is their problem. If they get arsey about it - bye, bye.

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By *aybe_amyWoman
over a year ago

Wales


"Had my iPhone stolen. He said he was going out to get something from the car, and I could see my phone the whole time. Only when I realised he wasn't coming back, I picked up my phone, to find it was an empty case. Bastard. "

I did follow it up, and through some helpful people on here who'd previously met him, I was able to give the police his details, and they DID find him. However, as he denied it, my only option was to go through the courts, and I took the option of taking the loss and NOT having the sordid details of my private life publicised.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had my iPhone stolen. He said he was going out to get something from the car, and I could see my phone the whole time. Only when I realised he wasn't coming back, I picked up my phone, to find it was an empty case. Bastard.

i had a guy off here rob me. That's so bad

we got a hotel room and after we had played i went for a shower, when i came out he had gone along with everything of balue in my bag

never accured to me at the time to take my bag in the bathroom with me, i do now, thing is you get funny looks off guys when you carry your bag around with me like you dont trust them "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

After a meet in a dublin hotel.

my belt and onegirls Bra disappeared

Just rather strange

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Rascist inbox messages to me and some of my friends too. Just made me laugh that people will spend time to spread abuse about me to others whi iv known for ages lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

our first meet consisted of playing in the same room. she wouldn't go near me and he was all over Ruth. she then decided to get dressed and leave so I left Ruth too it and went downstairs to sit in silence with her. that dented my confidence a lot! we haven't had an offer to play since and we haven't looked.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bloody hell after 11 years of meeting i could fill the whole thread with my odd/wierd/nutty meets "

oi you said you wouldnt tell anyone , xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our first meet consisted of playing in the same room. she wouldn't go near me and he was all over Ruth. she then decided to get dressed and leave so I left Ruth too it and went downstairs to sit in silence with her. that dented my confidence a lot! we haven't had an offer to play since and we haven't looked. "

You get that sometimes, dont worry about it, plenty more would play with you im sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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You get that sometimes, dont worry about it, plenty more would play with you im sure

"

we haven't let it get to us. just put it down to rushing into things. we have had a couple of socials with a couple of really nice couples that made us realise it was worth staying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our first meet consisted of playing in the same room. she wouldn't go near me and he was all over Ruth. she then decided to get dressed and leave so I left Ruth too it and went downstairs to sit in silence with her. that dented my confidence a lot! we haven't had an offer to play since and we haven't looked. "

I've had a similar incident in a club when the other female walked off. We both stopped and the guy got pissy that we wouldn't carry on.

And we've had a couple where boundaries had been discussed on 2 occasions to confirm their definition of soft swing, but they then changed it to exclude me, when we said we weren't interested in that they were genuinely shocked and said that I should respect that he would clearly be jealous seeing me touch his wife while quite seriously stating that as we happily do full swap then I obviously wouldn't get jealous and that we were selfish for not playing...

To be honest, when you hear some horror stories I've got off light in 6 years of swinging.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Met a real loon couple of years ago, the reason I left site and didn't return until recently . Not saying anymore cause she probably still here somewhere but she was a fucking lunatic who scared the shit out of me. Just a nasty nasty bitch and I never want to clap eyes on her ever again the abuse I got from her and some of her men was unbelievable. She found out where I lived , where I worked and where I drank it was a nightmare. Think I gave to much away much more careful now and it will never happen again. Was told later by some one on here that she had taken a real shine to me and wanted more. I hate her for what she did

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"our first meet consisted of playing in the same room. she wouldn't go near me and he was all over Ruth. she then decided to get dressed and leave so I left Ruth too it and went downstairs to sit in silence with her. that dented my confidence a lot! we haven't had an offer to play since and we haven't looked.

I've had a similar incident in a club when the other female walked off. We both stopped and the guy got pissy that we wouldn't carry on.

And we've had a couple where boundaries had been discussed on 2 occasions to confirm their definition of soft swing, but they then changed it to exclude me, when we said we weren't interested in that they were genuinely shocked and said that I should respect that he would clearly be jealous seeing me touch his wife while quite seriously stating that as we happily do full swap then I obviously wouldn't get jealous and that we were selfish for not playing...

To be honest, when you hear some horror stories I've got off light in 6 years of swinging."

to be honest it sounds like we had it easy compared to you. I'm happy sharing Ruth but the second she feels uncomfortable with anything we would be out of there pissy fit or not

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

only eva had one serious drama where we met a guy who seemed real cool .. we went back to his and all was going well .. made it to the bedroom and i had sex with him which was cool then wen i showed interest in my guy he got out of bed and ordered us out of his house before he rang the police !!

i still to this day aint worked out wot that was all about unless he actually wasnt single and his missus was on her way home from work or something .. baffling !! .. but hey ho thats one out of many so cant complain

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wow.... Judging by some of the stories on here I've been really really lucky. Can't say I've had a bad meet or anything like what you guys have been through. Worst for me is being ignored after making an effort to mail someone.... God I count my self lucky!!!

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By *weet DevilMan
over a year ago

dukinfield

had a picture stolen from a party i would have give it to them if they asked

and worst thing !! met this woman said she was 40 pics looked fab beyond yer wildest dreams met up and this 80 odd yer old came up to me when i said thats not you in the pics she said well no one would meet me if i told the truth

urgggggggggggg so annoying

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We've been lucky really.

Got stitched up once, travelled to Watford which is about an hour from us and went to the pub where we had arranged to meet. It was a proper shit hole and very dodgy.

They never turned up and never replied to any mails.

You live & learn eh.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

never had a bad meet but arranged a meet, an hour before the meet got asked to buy a pizza and disguise as a pizza delivery guy to stop there neighbours from thinking it was suspicious lol hence then the meet never took place lol mad hey lol

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol


"never had a bad meet but arranged a meet, an hour before the meet got asked to buy a pizza and disguise as a pizza delivery guy to stop there neighbours from thinking it was suspicious lol hence then the meet never took place lol mad hey lol"

lol classic !!

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"never had a bad meet but arranged a meet, an hour before the meet got asked to buy a pizza and disguise as a pizza delivery guy to stop there neighbours from thinking it was suspicious lol hence then the meet never took place lol mad hey lol"

At least you got a pizza.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"bloody hell after 11 years of meeting i could fill the whole thread with my odd/wierd/nutty meets "

so could I - but my biggest fear is when one of my meets decides to turn the tables and I am the main feature in the story on here lol

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By *ardybumsCouple
over a year ago

peekin under duvet is it safe?


"had a picture stolen from a party i would have give it to them if they asked

and worst thing !! met this woman said she was 40 pics looked fab beyond yer wildest dreams met up and this 80 odd yer old came up to me when i said thats not you in the pics she said well no one would meet me if i told the truth

urgggggggggggg so annoying "

but did you do the deed ?

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"had a picture stolen from a party i would have give it to them if they asked

and worst thing !! met this woman said she was 40 pics looked fab beyond yer wildest dreams met up and this 80 odd yer old came up to me when i said thats not you in the pics she said well no one would meet me if i told the truth

Oh sorry but that story is so funny! Did she honestly think you wouldn't mind?!?

urgggggggggggg so annoying "

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!


"never had a bad meet but arranged a meet, an hour before the meet got asked to buy a pizza and disguise as a pizza delivery guy to stop there neighbours from thinking it was suspicious lol hence then the meet never took place lol mad hey lol

At least you got a pizza. "

Sloppy Guiseppe?

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By *H.coupleCouple
over a year ago

edinburgh

Sounds like a few nightmare meets on here, luckily we've only had one meet and it was an amazing night with a great guy.

We've been speaking to a few couples and they seem really nice. We're very new to this but think that people who don't rush things seem more genuine, if that makes any sense

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"never had a bad meet but arranged a meet, an hour before the meet got asked to buy a pizza and disguise as a pizza delivery guy to stop there neighbours from thinking it was suspicious lol hence then the meet never took place lol mad hey lol

At least you got a pizza.

Sloppy Guiseppe?"

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham

Wow sum crazy stories on here.... Sum right nutters on here

Stealing stuff is the lowest thing.... I'd wanna find them and give them a good beating.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


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We've been speaking to a few couples and they seem really nice. We're very new to this but think that people who don't rush things seem more genuine, if that makes any sense"

I think we'd agree with that in a way, but I suppose just because someone is keen doesn't mean they're fake.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I've had two bad experiences on here quite recently one a few weeks ago a guy fairly local who I arranged a social with. I picked him up in a public place soon as he got into the car he grabbed me kissed me as I tried to pull away he grabbed my head and forced it down to where he had lobbed his cock out. I was calm said to get off me or I press the SOS button in my car and the cops would track me ( good old BMW). And another one Saturday a guy arranged to meet me so I drove 20 miles to the hotel to find he didn't turn up. Funny by the time I got home his profile had been deleted. His loss as I was chatting to someone else on here and ended up having the best meet I've had from here so far lol. Best thing is the no show had set a new profile up and keeps checking me out! He was soon reported lol. Infact I should thank him, by him letting me down I met a genuine guy who blew my mind! X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Our worst experience has to be befriending a couple and opening up to them about certain issues...they were all supporting and understanding then used what they knew to manipulate me into a situation they knew I wasn't happy with the idea of. I thought they were friends and trusted them but ended up feeling taken advantage of.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"never had a bad meet but arranged a meet, an hour before the meet got asked to buy a pizza and disguise as a pizza delivery guy to stop there neighbours from thinking it was suspicious lol hence then the meet never took place lol mad hey lol"

wouldnt it look more suspicious the pizza delivery man going in the house and not coming out?

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By *litterbabeWoman
over a year ago

hiding from cock pics.

I had a fella I never met only chatted to stalk me on line and want to put me in a castle so no one else could have me...

Another wanted to play came early on my leg, said he wanted to go out to the off licence and he did a runner... I wasn't bothered about the premo but thought he was a t***er for running....!

Had 2 no shows... So their loss...

Plenty of really nice peeps though

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Once upon a time, back in the day, someone pulled out the marching powder. Being a greedy sod i cained an awful lot. Got my girl and a hot girl sucking me off but the general wasn't having any of it

Never made that mistake again!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a guy ages ago who I had met on more than one occasion tell me over coffee after the shag that he was at the clinic on Monday and they were treating him for clamidia, he was aware that he should keep it in his pants for a week but decided that on the Wednesday, 3 days after the treatment that it was ok to shag me!

Funny thing was he was shocked that I wasn't interested in any more meets

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

I had a woman prolapse her pussy and then shit herself .. she blocked me and never verified me - not what i expected though she was a bit odd.

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

delete delete delete your too old mate your too old mate your too old mate

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By *uke olovingmanMan
over a year ago

Gravesend

also being ignored and told to get a divorce

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Had a guy ages ago who I had met on more than one occasion tell me over coffee after the shag that he was at the clinic on Monday and they were treating him for clamidia, he was aware that he should keep it in his pants for a week but decided that on the Wednesday, 3 days after the treatment that it was ok to shag me!

Funny thing was he was shocked that I wasn't interested in any more meets "

Oh my god... That's the worse so far... Cunt!!

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"I had a woman prolapse her pussy and then shit herself .. she blocked me and never verified me - not what i expected though she was a bit odd. "

Must have been an experience lol

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

NOt yet....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

OMG!!!

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I'm not allowed to say

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A couple of idiots getting d*unk and no shows, so think I have got off lightly

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Worst meet i've ever had was from another site but I have seen the lady on this one too..

We had been chatting for a while had some naughty cam sessions, she had 2 kids so took a while to arrange a meet. Anyway one evening I drove too her place, knocked on the door and her teenage son answered. She shouted from the stairs too come up...I thought she was going to tell me we couldn't do anything and she was sorry and we would rearrange...

She took me into her bedroom, locked the door, was all over me, i was 21 and not gonna turn down a blow job, we started having sex but the killer was when her son started knocking on the door...i left soon after...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Another bad experience I had was from this site when I had used my own name. I like to be upfront and honest... But some guy started stalking me, had looked up my facebook profile and knew stuff about me..Soon blocked him and made a new profile, using a different name!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Had a guy ages ago who I had met on more than one occasion tell me over coffee after the shag that he was at the clinic on Monday and they were treating him for clamidia, he was aware that he should keep it in his pants for a week but decided that on the Wednesday, 3 days after the treatment that it was ok to shag me!

Funny thing was he was shocked that I wasn't interested in any more meets

Oh my god... That's the worse so far... Cunt!!"

Lol I think so!

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By *lkmazabukaMan
over a year ago

bristol

I've had a experience on here too! Mine was a case of abusive mail from a couple I declined to meet! Can't go into details as admin might ban me like the 1st time for "airing my dirty laundry in a public forum"

Lol

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Worst meet i've ever had was from another site but I have seen the lady on this one too..

We had been chatting for a while had some naughty cam sessions, she had 2 kids so took a while to arrange a meet. Anyway one evening I drove too her place, knocked on the door and her teenage son answered. She shouted from the stairs too come up...I thought she was going to tell me we couldn't do anything and she was sorry and we would rearrange...

She took me into her bedroom, locked the door, was all over me, i was 21 and not gonna turn down a blow job, we started having sex but the killer was when her son started knocking on the door...i left soon after..."

That is a bit messed up.... I don't know what goes through some people's minds... Why invited you round when her son is there....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've had a experience on here too! Mine was a case of abusive mail from a couple I declined to meet! Can't go into details as admin might ban me like the 1st time for "airing my dirty laundry in a public forum"

Lol"

Snap!!

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By *restatynCplCouple
over a year ago

Rhyl


"Worst meet i've ever had was from another site but I have seen the lady on this one too..

We had been chatting for a while had some naughty cam sessions, she had 2 kids so took a while to arrange a meet. Anyway one evening I drove too her place, knocked on the door and her teenage son answered. She shouted from the stairs too come up...I thought she was going to tell me we couldn't do anything and she was sorry and we would rearrange...

She took me into her bedroom, locked the door, was all over me, i was 21 and not gonna turn down a blow job, we started having sex but the killer was when her son started knocking on the door...i left soon after...

That is a bit messed up.... I don't know what goes through some people's minds... Why invited you round when her son is there.... "

Well SOMEONE had to operate the video camera from behind the wardrobe!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Happened just this week. Arranged for a couple to visit, him 50, her 50, pictures showed a very good looking couple, slim, smart etc. They didn't have a cam, but chatted on phone so was happy to invite them across to mine. They turned up and I was utterly flabbergasted. Both were at least 60, were clearly same people as pics, just ten or more yrs ago, and were showing their age. I could not go through with a meet and so had to tell them I was not feeling well. Felt terrible, but then again, I was duped.

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Worst meet i've ever had was from another site but I have seen the lady on this one too..

We had been chatting for a while had some naughty cam sessions, she had 2 kids so took a while to arrange a meet. Anyway one evening I drove too her place, knocked on the door and her teenage son answered. She shouted from the stairs too come up...I thought she was going to tell me we couldn't do anything and she was sorry and we would rearrange...

She took me into her bedroom, locked the door, was all over me, i was 21 and not gonna turn down a blow job, we started having sex but the killer was when her son started knocking on the door...i left soon after...

That is a bit messed up.... I don't know what goes through some people's minds... Why invited you round when her son is there....

Well SOMEONE had to operate the video camera from behind the wardrobe! "

Hahaha love it!!!

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By *ityboy2001Man
over a year ago

All NW

I watched a guy put on my jeans after a meet - they were too tight so it was pretty funny

Nothing bad apart from timewasters and fake profiles messing us around... Wish there was a way to keep fab 100% genuine...now we are just wary and check on the verifications on the people verifiying your new play mates, funny lots of people with just one veri...

Good meets make up for it !

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"I watched a guy put on my jeans after a meet - they were too tight so it was pretty funny

Nothing bad apart from timewasters and fake profiles messing us around... Wish there was a way to keep fab 100% genuine...now we are just wary and check on the verifications on the people verifiying your new play mates, funny lots of people with just one veri...

Good meets make up for it !"

Agree it is a shame so many time wasters and fake people.... It can be hard work filtering through them

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By *haroninlondonWoman
over a year ago

Bromley

It's tough being a single girl on meets - there are some psychos out there! Worst was having fun with a guy in various positions when he decided to take condom off without telling - didn't notice until he came. I went mental at him.

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"It's tough being a single girl on meets - there are some psychos out there! Worst was having fun with a guy in various positions when he decided to take condom off without telling - didn't notice until he came. I went mental at him. "

That's shocking.... And totally unacceptable... Violating people's rights

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

met a guy at a party , we started a relationship and never met as singles just as c ouple, he was great to start off with then got abusive, screaming and shouting at me calling me names, and wen i wouldnt shag him he pushed me out of car and drove off and left me, he is an idiot and still on the site x

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool


"Happened just this week. Arranged for a couple to visit, him 50, her 50, pictures showed a very good looking couple, slim, smart etc. They didn't have a cam, but chatted on phone so was happy to invite them across to mine. They turned up and I was utterly flabbergasted. Both were at least 60, were clearly same people as pics, just ten or more yrs ago, and were showing their age. I could not go through with a meet and so had to tell them I was not feeling well. Felt terrible, but then again, I was duped."

same happened to me a few years ago, pic was very nice guy, suit, smart, ... the guy who turned up was about 20 years older than he said, and totally mental, he said he lived in a barracks ! and shared a room with 5 other soldiers, and that i was welcome to go back there when they were all out. Exit stage left,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Happened just this week. Arranged for a couple to visit, him 50, her 50, pictures showed a very good looking couple, slim, smart etc. They didn't have a cam, but chatted on phone so was happy to invite them across to mine. They turned up and I was utterly flabbergasted. Both were at least 60, were clearly same people as pics, just ten or more yrs ago, and were showing their age. I could not go through with a meet and so had to tell them I was not feeling well. Felt terrible, but then again, I was duped."

we had something along those lines when i was married and with met with my ex

We had been talking to a couple and they sent a pic of her and the photo was of a woman in white underwear with long blonde hair and about a size 12 id say, we met them and she had short cropped black hair and was eaily over a size 20, and very unkept looking to be polite, we looked at each other as if to say WTF! so my ex being as he was, asked straight out ride what they was playing at with the pic and her hubby said straight out right, oh yeah that pics about 15 year old now but noone will meet her looking like that so i have to send old pics out

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"Happened just this week. Arranged for a couple to visit, him 50, her 50, pictures showed a very good looking couple, slim, smart etc. They didn't have a cam, but chatted on phone so was happy to invite them across to mine. They turned up and I was utterly flabbergasted. Both were at least 60, were clearly same people as pics, just ten or more yrs ago, and were showing their age. I could not go through with a meet and so had to tell them I was not feeling well. Felt terrible, but then again, I was duped "

See this, I don't get. Why feel the need to pretend to be unwell etc. They've lied and mis-represented themselves and will probably continue to do so....until someone calls them on it. Of course they may just continue anyway, but if I met someone and they were clearly using 10 year old pics I'd end the meet telling them exactly why, not by making out it's my problem (unwell / emergency etc)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a couple of fantastic meets with one woman, then she seemed to think it was exclusive, got abusive with friends on facebook, abusive texts and 50 odd calls in a row!

the threat of legal action soon put a stop to it.

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By *arry_Uk OP   Man
over a year ago

birmingham


"Had a couple of fantastic meets with one woman, then she seemed to think it was exclusive, got abusive with friends on facebook, abusive texts and 50 odd calls in a row!

the threat of legal action soon put a stop to it."

Psycho lol... Scary shit

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I've had little bits that happen, like people misleading others, but the worst I've been involved with was a single guy who'd flown several thousand miles for a meet, and she didn't pick him up at the airport, nor answer his texts or calls. He's a lovely guy, very genuine, honest and attractive. So I stepped in, to help him out.

I phoned and texted her, and finally she sent a slimline apology to him, via me. She had no valid reason that she could give either, she didn't even try to pretend. He ended up having to buy a full price ticket home, as his ticket was a restricted cheap return, so massively out of pocket. Glad I could help him out a little, though she seemed a nasty piece of work for having done so much to abuse someone's generosity of spirit.

This wasn't a last minute meet arrangement, they'd planned it for weeks!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the worst expeience is to spend weeks setting up a meet , then they back off at the last minute , for no good reason ..

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