FabSwingers.com forum: single men think they are doing me a favour

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

What makes you think they are??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

Rubbish :D

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

because a similar amount of couples may think they can shout and single guys will jump like performing seals....

strange in all categories to be honest.

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By *orseydaveMan
over a year ago

Norwich NR5

Find guys who are grateful then, i guess you initiated the contact and accepted the meet, so take youre time and find the guy right for you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Its normally the couples who think they are doing single guys a favour mostly,giving demands out,expecting single guys to obey to every little thing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"because a similar amount of couples may think they can shout and single guys will jump like peforming seals."

EXACTLY

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

because guys think that cos ur on a site like this then u will sleep with anyone! they dont understand u still have standards and wishes..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i get message from a few men who seem to think like that.

i think its because they have met better looking women than me and cant understand why i dont fancy them as well.

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By *layfullsamMan
over a year ago

Solihull

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

Not saying its made up but cant understand why a single guy would act like he is doing you a favour ?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

ALL single men or just some ?

and what do you mean by favours ?

If they are practical ones, send em my way.

I'm crap at DIY and could do with a couple of shelves putting up

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By *abioMan
over a year ago

Newcastle and Gateshead

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

probably for the same reason I know of a lot of couples who think by meeting single guys they are doing us a favour.......

it is one of those things that go both ways.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

we don't - this site isn't about 'favours' anyway, it's about meets and fun

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

Same as some couples and single women who think that they can click their fingers and single men will just come running. That it is all their or no way.....

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????

probably for the same reason I know of a lot of couples who think by meeting single guys they are doing us a favour.......

it is one of those things that go both ways....."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Same as some couples and single women who think that they can click their fingers and single men will just come running. That it is all their or no way.....

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By *ovelybumCouple
over a year ago

Tunbridge Wells

Well for us they are,simply because the guys we choose to play with are helping us to fulfill some of our fantasies. They are always treated with respect and we always get the same in return

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

This permanent downer and constant berating of single guys by a members on here is really getting tedious.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This permanent downer and constant berating of single guys by a members on here is really getting tedious. "

Well said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

Maybe u need to elaborate on why u feel like that , as couples we all have horror stories about single guys but they're not all the same , we've had some great guys meet us in the past , if you explain the situation I'm sure you'll get a more balanced _iew , to tar them all worth the same brush is unfair

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well most of the single men we meet are lovely kind and considerate... If they are not we wont meet them again.... You will always get a bad apple as im sure there are bad couples out there also...best to make sure before you meet.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well for us they are,simply because the guys we choose to play with are helping us to fulfill some of our fantasies. They are always treated with respect and we always get the same in return

I guess 'favour' is the wrong term - but if you're looking for single guys for company and fun - and either you or they make first contact, one responds, you meet and have a good time - then there's enjoyment and benefit for all!

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

Some very big brushes on here tarring all us singles....

Not ALL single guys are the same in the same way not ALL couples are!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This permanent downer and constant berating of single guys by a members on here is really getting tedious. "

because sadly there is a fair few bitter single males who join sites liek this with the wrong attitude of it being a quick fuck place.. hence the "block single guys" option on profiles..

its not ALL single males.. but sadly enough to wear alot fo people down over time!

as for the guys who come on with the wrong attitude, so do fems and couples when they think all guys will be 100% respectful...

so lets educate these people into how it really is on here and then with understanding they wont get so frustrated XD

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

theres a few single guys on here who have done us a favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Single guys will always been the easy target to moan about on here no matter what,

There are good and bad in every gender/couples on here,but single guys get the flack for it

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"This permanent downer and constant berating of single guys by a members on here is really getting tedious.

because sadly there is a fair few bitter single males who join sites liek this with the wrong attitude of it being a quick fuck place.. hence the "block single guys" option on profiles..

its not ALL single males.. but sadly enough to wear alot fo people down over time!

as for the guys who come on with the wrong attitude, so do fems and couples when they think all guys will be 100% respectful...

so lets educate these people into how it really is on here and then with understanding they wont get so frustrated XD "

the percentage who do behave probably won't read this so any rant is more likely be wasted, it indulges the author but achieves very little.

the same opened about woman and couples

there are the same in ALL categories

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

Can't just blame the guys, we know couples and single girls that behave in the same ways and make out they're doing you a favour by spending time with you.

Very difficult to single out anyone in order to blame them, it's just an attitude and attitudes have no place in swinging.

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It's definitely true that some men assume both in clubs and here, that if you enjoy sex, then you are clearly going to sleep with anyone with a cock. However, they are normally the same sort of people who can't get laid outside the swinging community so see this as a quick way for a shag that's cheaper than a hooker. Having said that there are lots of egos on here just like there are in the "normal" population. Some men (single or not) are twats and so are some women/couples. Do what you do outside of a swinging environment when you get unwelcome attention from a bell end, ignore them.

Of course the flip side is that some people find the arrogance attractive and therefore just occasionally the "right love, drop your knickers" approach does work.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Can't just blame the guys, we know couples and single girls that behave in the same ways and make out they're doing you a favour by spending time with you.

Very difficult to single out anyone in order to blame them, it's just an attitude and attitudes have no place in swinging.

Wolf

Don't know why but this reminds me of a French Comedian I saw years ago (yes they do exist) and he said.

"Some people think the French are arrogant because they hate the English, this is not true at all............. We are arrogant because we hate everybody!"

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By *evilwolfCouple
over a year ago

Leicestershire

"Can't just blame the guys, we know couples and single girls that behave in the same ways and make out they're doing you a favour by spending time with you.

Very difficult to single out anyone in order to blame them, it's just an attitude and attitudes have no place in swinging.

Wolf

Don't know why but this reminds me of a French Comedian I saw years ago (yes they do exist) and he said.

"Some people think the French are arrogant because they hate the English, this is not true at all............. We are arrogant because we hate everybody!" "

Vive la difference!

I look at it as care in the community rather than doing anyone a favour anyways

Wolf

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

FFS..I only said I could save u thousands on ur energy bills....some people!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

One couple wanted me to meet them , they ended the last of several messages with "be ready for when we call for you" . They did "call" for me and because I didn't go running they got upset . Just took it for granted that mr messy was available when ever they wanted and they were doing me a favour by inviting me over. Personally I would rather keep it in my jeans than meet people like that :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just as a juxtaposition to the indignant "Not all single guys are like that" crew, I'd just like to say that any couple would be lucky to have me round.

And when you do I'll drink all your beer, Nick any of your missus underwear that takes my fancy. Block up your toilet with loo roll. Jizz over both your faces, wipe my cock on your tv remotes and leave loudly to wake your neighbors while dressed like a street walker.

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By *kin BohnerMan
over a year ago

derby

"Just as a juxtaposition to the indignant "Not all single guys are like that" crew, I'd just like to say that any couple would be lucky to have me round.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh now look what you did ...you all frightend the OP away lol

Me thinks he was having a bad day lol

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By *emmefataleWoman
over a year ago

dirtybigbadsgirlville

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"
I think that many single guys would say the same of couples tbh.

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By *xodussxMan
over a year ago

sheffield

Not a favour???? Ok I will charge you next time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

We haven't come across any who think that or give the impression they do. Most of the ones we have encountered have been friendly chatty and far more polite and open than many couples in the scene.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This permanent downer and constant berating of single guys by a members on here is really getting tedious. "

I don't put single guys down lol but I do get what op meant. I think. When I had a couple's profile I'd get loads of messages from guys that assumed we needed another man because my former master couldn't fuck me properly. Or that I should be grateful that someone like them wanted to fuck me.

However I just didn't meet them and meet lots of other lovely single guys instead

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Single guys will always been the easy target to moan about on here no matter what,

There are good and bad in every gender/couples on here,but single guys get the flack for it "

as i said before.. the reason there is an option to block single guys is because they are the main perpertrators.. but people understand isnt ALL single guys

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

i dont know

why do single guys think they are doing you couples a favour?

oh sorry this isnt a joke?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"This permanent downer and constant berating of single guys by a members on here is really getting tedious. "

all the good looking single guya are welcome to do me a favour anytime

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By *fun.4.youMan
over a year ago

London

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

Why do idiots post stupid questions in forums? You can't even clarify your position or come back to provide reaction? You should stop posting in the forums immediately.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????

Why do idiots post stupid questions in forums? You can't even clarify your position or come back to provide reaction? You should stop posting in the forums immediately."

stop offering advice

it may be seen as doing them a favour

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just as a juxtaposition to the indignant "Not all single guys are like that" crew, I'd just like to say that any couple would be lucky to have me round.

Now that's what I call doing us a favour!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ignorance, rudeness, and disrespectful behavior doesn't discriminate by the sex or martial status of a person.

Kind of pathetic for anyone put down single males. Plenty of couples/women here doing the same thing and they are verified too.

Its the shear number of spam profiles appearing here which is the biggest turn off for me.

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By *reenonionsMan
over a year ago

Nr Exeter

"why do single men think they are doing us couples a favour?????"

Really?

Delusional thread topic I'd say

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By *izzy RascallMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

If you ask for a single guy and you get one, and it all turns out hunky dory then I can see where a favour is. Dosent mean he isnt getting a favour in return though

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

"Single guys will always been the easy target to moan about on here no matter what,

There are good and bad in every gender/couples on here,but single guys get the flack for it

as i said before.. the reason there is an option to block single guys is because they are the main perpertrators.. but people understand isnt ALL single guys"

This was in the Ha Ha Bonk joke book I had as a kid (that's the sound of a man laughing his head off, by the way).....

Q. Why do white sheep eat more than black sheep?

A. Because there's more of them.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Its normally the couples who think they are doing single guys a favour mostly,giving demands out,expecting single guys to obey to every little thing "

Agreed!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Just as a juxtaposition to the indignant "Not all single guys are like that" crew, I'd just like to say that any couple would be lucky to have me round.

LMFAO!!!!!

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By *ornykev64Man
over a year ago

Suttton

I think no one should expect favours i know its hard for couples and woman but we all want the same thing fun check the profile

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

I am always really grateful when a single man does me a favour

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