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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week" Good idea | |||
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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week Good idea " The only thing is friends can't message either | |||
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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week Good idea The only thing is friends can't message either" I can live with that fore a few days | |||
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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week Good idea The only thing is friends can't message either" Someone once suggested changing the age of people who can contact you to 98-99 which might help in this situation x | |||
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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week Good idea The only thing is friends can't message either Someone once suggested changing the age of people who can contact you to 98-99 which might help in this situation x" But if friends were trying to send message wouldn't be able to either not everyone uses the forum | |||
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"It's so annoying even at times the person who does it hasn't even left a comment in the thread ffs "What is their motive though Surely best kept to an open discussion | |||
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"Nothing wrong with that " Explain | |||
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"Nothing wrong with that Explain" Explain that’s nothing wrong with that | |||
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"It's so annoying even at times the person who does it hasn't even left a comment in the thread ffs
What is their motive though
Surely best kept to an open discussion
"Not sure but it's a strange one rather than sharing their opinion and totally agree with you | |||
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"Nothing wrong with that Explain Explain that’s nothing wrong with that " This that the other ey | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with messages in private off forum ? " But perhaps people don't want them  | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with messages in private off forum ? But perhaps people don't want them "Ok but still not any harm is there | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with messages in private off forum ? But perhaps people don't want them
Ok but still not any harm is there "It is if the person doesn't agree with being messaged via the forum | |||
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"There is nothing wrong with messages in private off forum ? But perhaps people don't want them
Ok but still not any harm is there "If I wanted countless daft stupid short messages from blokes who are desperate to connect with forum posters then thats not for me. Ithers may humour it. | |||
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"The forums are that For chatting openly... the end There not a free ticket to private message or harass said posters . Wel ti's that way I see it " you should only pm in the threads games that you have to pm in otherwise you shouldn't. | |||
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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week Good idea The only thing is friends can't message either Someone once suggested changing the age of people who can contact you to 98-99 which might help in this situation x But if friends were trying to send message wouldn't be able to either not everyone uses the forum " If a friend has messaged you before, they can still message you, even if you’re “looking for” changes. Sorry if I’ve misunderstood. To be honest you can still message friends with hidden profiles, too. X | |||
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"It's so annoying even at times the person who does it hasn't even left a comment in the thread ffs
What is their motive though
Surely best kept to an open discussion
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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week Good idea The only thing is friends can't message either Someone once suggested changing the age of people who can contact you to 98-99 which might help in this situation x But if friends were trying to send message wouldn't be able to either not everyone uses the forum If a friend has messaged you before, they can still message you, even if you’re “looking for” changes. Sorry if I’ve misunderstood. To be honest you can still message friends with hidden profiles, too. X" Sorry I didn't know they could message if it was hidden. No friends wanted to speak to me that week then | |||
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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week Good idea The only thing is friends can't message either Someone once suggested changing the age of people who can contact you to 98-99 which might help in this situation x But if friends were trying to send message wouldn't be able to either not everyone uses the forum If a friend has messaged you before, they can still message you, even if you’re “looking for” changes. Sorry if I’ve misunderstood. To be honest you can still message friends with hidden profiles, too. X Sorry I didn't know they could message if it was hidden. No friends wanted to speak to me that week then" Don’t be sorry lol! We’ve clearly both had similar problems haha! Good to try these tips to avoid annoying or intrusive messages x | |||
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"It's so annoying even at times the person who does it hasn't even left a comment in the thread ffs "Not everyone can comment in threads but they can private message if within the person's filters. | |||
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"It annoys me too. If I post on a forum it is for discussion in the forum. One thread I posted on not long ago was so bad I ended up hiding my profile for near a week Good idea The only thing is friends can't message either" You can still message a profile that is hidden so friends can still communicate   | |||
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"For over a year I was blocked from commenting directly on posts but could comment in private messages. Fab does exclude some people and its really hard to get this rectified - almost like a game of chance. Also, my humour can be quite dark so I.might private message a comment that would offend the "snowflake brigade" on here. I fully get it some people can be creepy with their private messages but filters can help or..... you could just stop posting on forums. " A years detention, seems a bit harsh. What did you post? (oh wait, don't, you may get another years detention (or reflection as they call it now)  | |||
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"The forums are that For chatting openly... the end There not a free ticket to private message or harass said posters . Wel ti's that way I see it " Erm, yes there is. Its called the "message privatly" button. Obviously not harass. | |||
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"For over a year I was blocked from commenting directly on posts but could comment in private messages. Fab does exclude some people and its really hard to get this rectified - almost like a game of chance. Also, my humour can be quite dark so I.might private message a comment that would offend the "snowflake brigade" on here. I fully get it some people can be creepy with their private messages but filters can help or..... you could just stop posting on forums. A years detention, seems a bit harsh. What did you post? (oh wait, don't, you may get another years detention (or reflection as they call it now) "I was on and off fab during that time. I wasn't "banned" banned but after the two weeks for new profiles to post my comments would never appear on the threads and I couldn't post my own ones. So I'd leave and rejoin | |||
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"Looking at this from a different viewpoint. If you have an active profile and looking for someone, setting age limits, type of person etc, then why wouldn't you want someone contact you? Posting in the forums shows at the very least you're an active member and have something interesting to say and sets you apart from all the profiles on here that are dormant. I'm sure I am not alone in knowing what to write anything meaningful in the first message (rather than just 'Hi, fancy a .......' whatever) so posts at least might give a topic to open a conversation. I don't know at that stage whether we'd hit it off or not. " Very good and well put. | |||
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"For over a year I was blocked from commenting directly on posts but could comment in private messages. Fab does exclude some people and its really hard to get this rectified - almost like a game of chance. Also, my humour can be quite dark so I.might private message a comment that would offend the "snowflake brigade" on here. I fully get it some people can be creepy with their private messages but filters can help or..... you could just stop posting on forums. A years detention, seems a bit harsh. What did you post? (oh wait, don't, you may get another years detention (or reflection as they call it now)
I was on and off fab during that time. I wasn't "banned" banned but after the two weeks for new profiles to post my comments would never appear on the threads and I couldn't post my own ones. So I'd leave and rejoin"'banned from tinder' as well... seems you have a common theme here..LOL LOL LOL | |||
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