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By *inkyfilthymind OP   Man
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks

Morning lovely fabbers.

What role that kissing plays in your arousal?

I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)

It is a turn, I am curious to know how much

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

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By *inkyfilthymind OP   Man
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me! "

It is a shame isn’t it? I prefer to not meet people who don’t kiss as well.

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By *rettyflamingoWoman
over a year ago

Where the flamboyance of flamingos live

Can’t have a meeting without the kissing , it’s a huge turn on for me.

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By *RANDMRSJAECouple
over a year ago

chester

It’s where it all starts!!! Makes my bits tingle

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By *inkyfilthymind OP   Man
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks


"Can’t have a meeting without the kissing , it’s a huge turn on for me. "

. I have a friend that I meet for coffee in between work and we just kiss and get worked up (a lot )

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By *inkyfilthymind OP   Man
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks


"It’s where it all starts!!! Makes my bits tingle "

Bits Tingle - there is a lovely image to start off hump day

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By *illxxMan
over a year ago

motherwell

Kissing is very important when I meet. I once met a couple and kissing wasn’t allowed it just wasn’t the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Absolutely love kissing and feel it's an essential part of great sex.

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham


"Can’t have a meeting without the kissing , it’s a huge turn on for me. "

I’ll look forward to it xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can’t have a meeting without the kissing , it’s a huge turn on for me.

. I have a friend that I meet for coffee in between work and we just kiss and get worked up (a lot )"

Wow!!! I would love to be involved with regular meets with someone like that. Amazing!!!!

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By *ongandthickMan
over a year ago

exmouth

Kissing & caressing the start of something good to come.

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By *ames5169Man
over a year ago

Birmingham

Kissing is the best ! Love it with someone dresses really hot x with slow undressing and glimpses of underwear x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me! "

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

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By *egoMan
over a year ago

Preston

Kissing is vital for me,

Blowjobs and I’ll go flaccid, snog me and I’m up again..

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford

No kissing? Very robotic without kissing.

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By *uriousblondwifeCouple
over a year ago

wickford


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird."
This

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

Nothing makes me crave a woman more than a good kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is the ultimate turn on for me. A good kiss that you can lose yourself in will have me in a right tizzy

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

I love kissing, I cant imagine sex without it, it's the best start to any foreplay.

Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird."

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms."

Its a most do part

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By *eadinthecloudsMan
over a year ago

Manchester

Kissing sends me wild. If they ain't kissing I ain't meeting.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms."

I think we established long ago that the majority of forum contributors consider kissing essential and quite forcefully insist they won't meet the likes of us. That's fine I recognise a respect incompatibility.

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By *he Wrangler and BelleCouple
over a year ago

Bishops Strortford

A deep, lasting kiss is truly the most intimate and wonderful thing that we can share. A good kiss can lead to other pleasures and a bad one can kill passion stone dead.

What role does it play in arousal?

The most important for me. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.

I think we established long ago that the majority of forum contributors consider kissing essential and quite forcefully insist they won't meet the likes of us. That's fine I recognise a respect incompatibility. "

What’s said in the forums compared to my inbox are very different things. I take the “no kissing, no meet” comments with a gigantic pinch of salt as it doesn’t match the reality in my experience

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By *jb1811Man
over a year ago

Plymouth

Absolutely need to kiss to get aroused. A good kiss is better than anything to get the motor running so to speak.

Plus always get told I'm a good kisser, so don't want it to go to waste after all.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Morning lovely fabbers.

What role that kissing plays in your arousal?

I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)

It is a turn, I am curious to know how much"

It plays no role in my arousal when I'm with people other than my husband. My triggers centre around other things in that situ. There's such a huge and varied range of ways in which humans get sexual pleasure and for me kissing passionately with relative strangers is not one I enjoy.

I understand that this excludes us from most people who contribute to the forum but that's the way this swinging lark works. You find out who you're compatible with and take it from there.

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.

I think we established long ago that the majority of forum contributors consider kissing essential and quite forcefully insist they won't meet the likes of us. That's fine I recognise a respect incompatibility.

What’s said in the forums compared to my inbox are very different things. I take the “no kissing, no meet” comments with a gigantic pinch of salt as it doesn’t match the reality in my experience "

You're gorgeous, I bet your in box is busy . We get enough interest to keep us happy

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.

I think we established long ago that the majority of forum contributors consider kissing essential and quite forcefully insist they won't meet the likes of us. That's fine I recognise a respect incompatibility.

What’s said in the forums compared to my inbox are very different things. I take the “no kissing, no meet” comments with a gigantic pinch of salt as it doesn’t match the reality in my experience "

Exactly. I don't kiss men, but I have never, ever in the decade we've been swinging had any guy show the slightest reservation in fucking me.

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By *he Artful TodgerMan
over a year ago

Yorkshire but travel

Kissing definitely makes things more sensual and as a single guy helps with arousal, always will be part of a more memorable meet

Without it, sometimes meets can feel more mechanical, many coupes have limits, it’s a sausage market out there and you just have to respect the boundaries and go with the flow…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Love kissing and it definitely helps to keep my aroused, huge part of any meet

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By *urnhambiguyMan
over a year ago

Swindon

Kissing a woman is an essential start to the arousal process, full of passion before stripping each other off and exploring each other's bodies

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Kissing a woman is an essential start to the arousal process, full of passion before stripping each other off and exploring each other's bodies"

Do you kiss men? Just curious if it's too personal ignore me

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me! "

Oh god...I wouldn't be able to play with anyone who doesn't like kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Kissing is essential for me

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By *inkyfilthymind OP   Man
over a year ago

Heathrow / Berks


"Morning lovely fabbers.

What role that kissing plays in your arousal?

I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)

It is a turn, I am curious to know how much

It plays no role in my arousal when I'm with people other than my husband. My triggers centre around other things in that situ. There's such a huge and varied range of ways in which humans get sexual pleasure and for me kissing passionately with relative strangers is not one I enjoy.

I understand that this excludes us from most people who contribute to the forum but that's the way this swinging lark works. You find out who you're compatible with and take it from there. "

You called it right in the earlier post. It’s the differences that make fab work.

Personally, I don’t think swinging and fab meets are only about penetrative play. And kissing is essential in meets with full on sex - I do ok in terms of meets where I don’t miss kissing

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms."

Exactly how long do you have to have known someone before you’ll kiss them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Oh I love kissing and can really get off on it. I know quite a lot of people on FAB do not kiss which is a massive deal breaker for me!

I don’t get the not kissing thing, it’s just weird.

I think it’s weird that people enjoy swapping spit with randoms.

Exactly how long do you have to have known someone before you’ll kiss them?"

I need to have romantic feelings for them and want to pursue them as a love interest rather than a random fuck.

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By *4DY-FWoman
over a year ago

Newcastle

Kissing is a must for me

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By *9 kisses.Man
over a year ago

clacton on sea

Kissing for me is a massive turn on

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex


"Morning lovely fabbers.

What role that kissing plays in your arousal?

I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)

It is a turn, I am curious to know how much

It plays no role in my arousal when I'm with people other than my husband. My triggers centre around other things in that situ. There's such a huge and varied range of ways in which humans get sexual pleasure and for me kissing passionately with relative strangers is not one I enjoy.

I understand that this excludes us from most people who contribute to the forum but that's the way this swinging lark works. You find out who you're compatible with and take it from there.

You called it right in the earlier post. It’s the differences that make fab work.

Personally, I don’t think swinging and fab meets are only about penetrative play. And kissing is essential in meets with full on sex - I do ok in terms of meets where I don’t miss kissing"

In terms of forum contributors there's a fairly narrow band of criteria for fab meets and limited acceptance of anything outside of that.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We love kissing, it's a huge turn on for us.

Mrs

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By *pslad99Man
over a year ago

colchester

MAJOR PART

It’s what gets me going it’s a must in a meet.

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

It's odd how almost everyone here claims that kissing is essential yet when it comes to getting down to action I've never fucked any guy that is the slightest bit bothered about it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Morning lovely fabbers.

What role that kissing plays in your arousal?

I am a big fan of it and I think there is a connection between a sensual or passionate hard kiss and how hard I get (no pun intended)

It is a turn, I am curious to know how much"

our personal preference is that the act of kissing with someone you're not emotionally involved with (ie girlfriend/boyfriend - married etc) is off limits. It sort of feels more loving, meaningful,intimate than just swinging fun activities. It doesn't have that personal sensation of deepness when not a person you're in love with.

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