FabSwingers.com forum: so how long have you been swinging

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

so come on how long ??

us 28 years going into 29 very soon ... thats clubs ... home/away meets ... dogging ... hotels/holidays

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By *itsAndTaffCouple
over a year ago

Grays, Essex

About 6 years

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By *ave1976XXXMan
over a year ago

newmarket

Really new, 4ish.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A decade in the lifestyle now

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By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

I've been swinging on and off for over 18 years .the Mrs has been for 2 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 12 years,on & off,more off than on lately,not through lack of trying on my part.

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By *ap-scarCouple
over a year ago

Sleaford

We are very new to it... Since October and absolutely loving it. Made some real friends for life too, xx

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By *xfordjohnMan
over a year ago

Oxford

Depends if you mean continuously. I started with my first wife about forty years ago, then had a long break, then re-started in 2004 for a couple of years as a single, another long break and started again about four years ago and still going stromg.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

5 years

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

On and off for 10 years or so x

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By *rMs.NeekCouple
over a year ago

Worcestershire

Ms is relatively new. Under a year.

Mr is around 6 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

20+ years

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

14 years, on and off. Mostly off, not always by my choice

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By *eaSlutsCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

About 8 months

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We are still inexperienced and have only been experimenting in the lifestyle for the last 18 months.

So many things to try and not enough free hours haha x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

6 years on and off

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By *jonesMan
over a year ago

south west

4 years ...led astray by a lady I met on tinder ...

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By *aughtycp1 V2V CLUBCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton, Warwickshire.

12 years off and on x

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By *partharmonyCouple
over a year ago

Tonbridge

I (Luke) started in about 2016. I got together with Hannah in 2019 and started together some time around then with a big delay for Covid.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Since March this year. I'm loving it

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By *r easy1981Man
over a year ago

leeds

3 hours

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton

9 years

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By *ucianpoundCouple
over a year ago

Cap d’Agde, France

Did our first swap New Year 82/83 but most sex was off the agenda for years when the kids were little.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

1st time was my mate fucking my (now) wife - that was July 2000

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"1st time was my mate fucking my (now) wife - that was July 2000"
sounds exciting xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

3 years for me. Couldn’t imagine life without swinging now

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 4 years now, and wow it's made our relationship stronger. What a journey things get better and better.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

[Removed by poster at 28/06/22 06:10:38]

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been swinging on and off for about 15 years now met some amazing people

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A year next month. I'm a swingle.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

2 years in August

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Started around 18 years ago with friends but clubs etc only in the past 7 or 8 years.

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

Almost 10 years

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By *1nkseekersCouple
over a year ago

Bridgwater

17 years for us with lots of breaks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

we know of one couple who are in their early 80s whom we've known along time they got us into this scene telling us what to look out for and generally making things easy shes now 83 hes 81 and they are still very active her choice of guys to meet are in their 20s to 30s age range they've been swinging 56 years they look no where near there age mind ... but so nice to know your only as old as you feel

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By *igjohn78Man
over a year ago

lincoln

9 fun years and still loving it

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By *lthomasMan
over a year ago

Blackpool

About 34 years for me.

Stared in clubs in the late 80's with then G/F. Very word of mouth back then and house parties.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

About 14 years on and off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

On and off for about 20 years. Meet some lovely people, both for socials and more.

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By *tirling DarkCouple
over a year ago

Stirling

16 years but took 7 year break due to family commitments

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By *heshire-cat74Woman
over a year ago

Stoke on Trent

15 years off and on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

17 years

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By *un guy fun guyMan
over a year ago

somewhere

Under one year

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By *rumcouple2013Couple
over a year ago

Tamworth

Nine years for us. Still learning and exploring

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By *heGigglersCouple
over a year ago

near Birmingham

4 months

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By *ickshawedCouple
over a year ago

Wolverhampton

13 months so far for us. Been one hell of a year

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By *hocolateRodMan
over a year ago

London and over UK

"so come on how long ??

us 28 years going into 29 very soon ... thats clubs ... home/away meets ... dogging ... hotels/holidays"

About 8/9 years

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By *arkus1812Man
over a year ago

Lifes Departure Lounge in NN9

If you count the early 1960s version of swinging ie House parties, Car keys in a bowl, woman takes a set out of bowl and disappears upstairs with owner of keys.

Then my answer to the question would be around 60 years.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

4 years

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By *iobhan123Woman
over a year ago

Deal

13 years, disillusioned with it nowadays tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"13 years, disillusioned with it nowadays tbh"

We get that. Think probably the two year enforced break has made it difficult to get back in the saddle

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By *appy but hornyMan
over a year ago

wakefield

got married in 2003

fast forward to live aid 2 concert on tv 2005..me my wife and my mate watching it all boozed up

me and mrs on couch her feet in my groin and she started to rub my cock, after about 5 minutes she stated out of the blue...oooh you have pre cum on your shorts..total embarrassment on my part my friend laughed and called me a pussy, wife said yes he is and pretty useless in bed too my mate just laughed

nothing happened for half hour and then the wife went for a shower and i said sorry about that he said its fine but i have to say mate ive always thought that your sex life was good i said it is but i cant last long when having sex and shall we try and forget it because it pisses her off that im like this

yes sure sorry mate..the wife comes down in her dressing gown and gets back on the sofa and continues to rub my crotch i can tell shes horny so i ask her quietly if she wants a quickie upstairs..she nods her head no

over the next 10 minutes her dressing gown had become loose showing her bouncy tits, my mate noticed and you could clearly see him fidgeting with a hard on...just bloody sort yourself out my missus said to him so he adjusted his crotch for more comfort

her robe was now fully open showing her tits and thighs i was rock hard as we both waited the next move, when suddenly she stood up and said if anyone wants me ill be upstairs, and she walked out naked

i looked at my mate and said look if something happens tonight you cant tell anyone if not go home now, fuck off im staying he said

we went upstairs and found her on the bed naked legs wide rubbing her clit

what a turn on the sight was as we both took our clothes off and got on the bed

come on you first she said to me as she leaned over to suck my cock, i wanted to last but came almost straight away which she swallowed very quickly

your turn she said as my mate with his very thick cock was straight in her mouth she sucked him for a minute or two before he was pulled on the bed and told to fuck me hard

man they fucked for 10 minutes before she said dont come inside me come over my tits which he did...i was hard again and fucked her for a record 5 minutes or so before coming inside her

we had a drink before they fucked again and i watched him cum over her pussy

nothing happened again for several weeks until we were informed she wanted a repeat night, we played together regularly until he moved away and got married

still swinging to this day

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale/Leeds/Stanley

Despite our lack of verified meets, 6 years. New account plus covid has scuppered our attempts to get back in the game

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By *arried West End CoupleCouple
over a year ago

Glasgow

7 years we’ve been on here now

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By *ashaPCouple
over a year ago

derby

Him 8 years and me just a year

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By *orkshrCplCouple
over a year ago

Ripon

About four years x

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By *inkyDuo XXXCouple
over a year ago

somewhere near you

Female here....1 year. Male half about 3 years.

1 year as a couple.

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By *tirlingshire matureMan
over a year ago

falkirk

Almost 45 for us

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By *pertureTV/TS
over a year ago

New Ferry, wirral in stockings and sussies

had my frist mmf about 35 years ago, first mmm a few years before that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just over 12 months for us, havent had a great deal of experiences but what we have had we have loved

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By *ymbunnyfitCouple
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

Hubby long before me , together we’ve been playing on and off 20 years. Sadly more of than on last few years xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

37 years

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By *thfloorCouple
over a year ago

Brighton

We don't swing... We're still in denial

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By *illingdon_ladMan
over a year ago

Bicester

I've been swinging for 15 years or so. The wife about 10 years now, however swinging together is on hiatus at the moment due to the birth of our son. Not that I have been meeting alone (not that I'm particularly trying to)

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By *anilla switchWoman
over a year ago

Yes, thats my G spot

Under a year, having a fun journey

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By *avenvalCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

We started swinging by using contact mags and at house parties when we were 22 wears both 66 which means we have been swinging without a break for 44 years. We have enjoyed the excitement of every minute.

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By *r-8-BBCMan
over a year ago

LONDON

"so come on how long ??

us 28 years going into 29 very soon ... thats clubs ... home/away meets ... dogging ... hotels/holidays"

Close to a decade

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By *r SensualMan
over a year ago

London

Around 2 and a half years

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By *D of funCouple
over a year ago

Northampton

On and off for 9 years....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

11 years on and off

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By *urhiddendesireCouple
over a year ago

Darlington

Since 2003

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By *uzySuzyCouple
over a year ago

Lytham St Annes

about 10 years and lovin all the naughty fun ..took little steps at first

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

My earliest meets with couples - the first with a hubby just watching, the second with one videoing - were back in the mid-90's, so it's about 27 years for me...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"so come on how long ??

us 28 years going into 29 very soon ... thats clubs ... home/away meets ... dogging ... hotels/holidays"

For over 6 years...

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

can a single person really be classed a swinger , or is it just casual hooking up ... I always found myself more using swinger when I had various girlfriends that were into it as well .. now single I just see it simply as shagging about at times with people either. the same as me , or swinging couples that like 3rd persons

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

On and off for around 4 years now!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

12 years on and off

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Bloody hell. Its 8 years. Time flyes by when your having fun.

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By *carlettxCouple
over a year ago

Essex

For me 9 years , however dipped in and out a little bit

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By *ouAndKisses.Woman
over a year ago

Crewe

2 years nearly.

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By *oodvibrations68Couple
over a year ago

Lake Constance

25 yrs on and off...

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By *teve261970Man
over a year ago

Gateshead

26yrs on & off started 1996,

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my first time was age 24 (ish) same room sex with a friend and his GF and me and my GF

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By *eedsLocal2040Man
over a year ago

Leeds

This year very fresh

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By *mudge354Man
over a year ago

Sussex

Since 2010. Love the life, although its a lot harder now to get meets.

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By *ade crossTV/TS
over a year ago

chiselhurst

Not so much swinging but cruising and dogging about 35 years

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Must be around 25 yrs for me. First met a cpl at butlins niteclub and I've loved the thrill of it ever since

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