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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Is this just me or are some people the same..

I dont really get sexually excited during sex. I prefer to please the women rather than myself.. And i rearly ever cum.. Ive had sex like 3 times this month but i didnt cum and still dont feel the need for a sexual release.. But when i do it takes me a good few hours to even reach orgasm..

Is this weird or do other people have the same problem.. Kinda knocks my confidence a lot..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yep, it's weird x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Definitely weird....maybe you should write this self same problem into Dear Deidre in The Sun?

I'm fairly sure she has a premiuim rate phone line you could call.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Definitely weird....maybe you should write this self same problem into Dear Deidre in The Sun?

I'm fairly sure she has a premiuim rate phone line you could call.

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I would rather shit in my hands and clap... Lol... I dont even know why... :-/

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this just me or are some people the same..

I dont really get sexually excited during sex. I prefer to please the women rather than myself.. And i rearly ever cum.. Ive had sex like 3 times this month but i didnt cum and still dont feel the need for a sexual release.. But when i do it takes me a good few hours to even reach orgasm..

Is this weird or do other people have the same problem.. Kinda knocks my confidence a lot.. "

Not everyone wants to have sex every minute of every day. Some people are happy going weeks/ months without.

It doesn't make you any less of a man. As long as you are happy it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

If it does bother you, see your doctor. It could be a hormone problem. Or something else... I'm not a doctor so I can't advise but I do know that hormones can affect sexual desire.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this just me or are some people the same..

I dont really get sexually excited during sex. I prefer to please the women rather than myself.. And i rearly ever cum.. Ive had sex like 3 times this month but i didnt cum and still dont feel the need for a sexual release.. But when i do it takes me a good few hours to even reach orgasm..

Is this weird or do other people have the same problem.. Kinda knocks my confidence a lot..

Not everyone wants to have sex every minute of every day. Some people are happy going weeks/ months without.

It doesn't make you any less of a man. As long as you are happy it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks.

If it does bother you, see your doctor. It could be a hormone problem. Or something else... I'm not a doctor so I can't advise but I do know that hormones can affect sexual desire."

Think i will see i doctor... Its been 5 years i been feeling like this..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Definitely weird....maybe you should write this self same problem into Dear Deidre in The Sun?

I'm fairly sure she has a premiuim rate phone line you could call.

I would rather shit in my hands and clap... Lol... I dont even know why... :-/"

....i think that is pretty much what Deirdes help line recommends.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I actually feel sorry for you to be honest, you're missing out on a lot of fun. Maybe there's a deep rooted cause for this because it doesn't seem 'normal to me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I actually feel sorry for you to be honest, you're missing out on a lot of fun. Maybe there's a deep rooted cause for this because it doesn't seem 'normal to me."

I seriusly dont know.. I wouldnt mind but im always horny lol.. I thought i was gay.. Just turned out to be bi.. Lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is this just me or are some people the same..

I dont really get sexually excited during sex. I prefer to please the women rather than myself.. And i rearly ever cum.. Ive had sex like 3 times this month but i didnt cum and still dont feel the need for a sexual release.. But when i do it takes me a good few hours to even reach orgasm..

Is this weird or do other people have the same problem.. Kinda knocks my confidence a lot.. "
I've met a few guys like this my oh used to have similar problems unless he stretched his legs in the right way which helped him ejaculate strange as it seem its actually quite common and often has a psychological cause my hubby even saw the doctor who said it was called retarded ejaculation hubbys has cured it self now lol I think its because he's comfortable in life in general

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"Is this just me or are some people the same..

I dont really get sexually excited during sex. I prefer to please the women rather than myself.. And i rearly ever cum.. Ive had sex like 3 times this month but i didnt cum and still dont feel the need for a sexual release.. But when i do it takes me a good few hours to even reach orgasm..

Is this weird or do other people have the same problem.. Kinda knocks my confidence a lot.. I've met a few guys like this my oh used to have similar problems unless he stretched his legs in the right way which helped him ejaculate strange as it seem its actually quite common and often has a psychological cause my hubby even saw the doctor who said it was called retarded ejaculation hubbys has cured it self now lol I think its because he's comfortable in life in general "

Thats exactly like me.. I have to stretch my legs in weird ways lol!! How did he cure it? Kinda sucks.. When i get to the point when i wanna do a facial nothing happens and its quite embarressing lol..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think its because he feels totally comfortable with me there's no expectation to perform no pressure he still has to tiptoe now and then if we wanna do facials tho lol x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

He used to hate blowjobs when I first got with him I found it strange he wouldn't let me give him one then explained why so I blindfolded him gave him a sensual massage and sucked him real good he exploded!! Lol xnow he can't get enough x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

what i dont understand is u say u dont want the release but u want to please a woman.. so u do still have a sexual desire.. so u must get some kind of release from pleasing a woman and not cumming..

alot of guys, especially in a dom/sub situation, like to be dommed by a woman but dont actually engage in a sexual act.

i watched that cathouse about the brothel in the states and alot of the whores said guys want to be humiliated or controlled but no sex..

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"He used to hate blowjobs when I first got with him I found it strange he wouldn't let me give him one then explained why so I blindfolded him gave him a sensual massage and sucked him real good he exploded!! Lol xnow he can't get enough x "

Haha.. I do love blowjobs but ive only ever cummed once from it haha..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It should ease if u relax and I know its easier said than done but don't think about it I'm not being funny but if u get off on a woman being satisfied even when u don't a lot of women a happy as long as she cums lol just be honest and relax!!! X

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