FabSwingers.com forum: Single after being a cpl in the scene

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Hey there, just wondering if anyone has become single after being in the scene as a cpl? Id love to go clubs parties meets etc again as really loved it when as a cpl. Its soo different going to a normal club now lol anyone else have this problem?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Found myself in same position. Though as a woman I guess its a bit different for me. Got offers left right n centre, although im not quite ready to meet yet.

Just here chatting to friends et the mo. X

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Hey there, just wondering if anyone has become single after being in the scene as a cpl? Id love to go clubs parties meets etc again as really loved it when as a cpl. Its soo different going to a normal club now lol anyone else have this problem?

god yes. imagine it maybe even harder as a single guy. but much of my enjoyment was the sharing the experiences. something I no longer have

I am still going but have cut off all 1on1 play meets.

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i started swinging as a couple when i was married, ive been single for about four years now, took a bit of time off after my marrage breakdown but have been swingiing as a single about 3 years now

To be honest im quite happy to go to places alone and didnt find it made much difference, i had to brave up since i was single lol if i didnt go places alone id never go anywhere so its a case of boting the bullet for me and just doing it, i still do find it very daunting and intimidating going new places alone but i suppose its just something we have to learn to deal with

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

yeah you have a point x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Me too, used to play as a Couple before I got divorced and now it's not that easy to go to swingers clubs and play as a couple..

I do miss it, even just going to look and playing when we got home.

Too many guys give genuine single guys a bad rep.

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By *ickmacpheeCouple
over a year ago

durham

Am single fem now after being part of a swinging couple for years. I too have not yet braved up enough to have any pre-arranged meets alone. Although I did shock myself by once attending a club overseas and whilst it was enjoyable I did feel both a spare part to begin with and then a bit overwhelmed when folks started to approach me and I realised I was the only single fem there! It was odd driving home and not having my ex-partner to discuss it with which was always a huge turn on!! I loved swinging and the diverse folks I got to meet (and the sex, lol I loved the variety of sex) and hope I get my bottle back and 'click' enough with someone to dip my toes back in !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I started out as a couple but once i began playing with girls i didnt want a bf anymore. I luv being a single swinger. As for discussing what ive got up to, thats what my lovely swinging friends are for. Luv swapping our dirty tales! Im very outgoing so no prob goin to clubs alone etc but do feel for people shyer than me- must be difficult

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By *ornykev64Man
over a year ago

Suttton

Yeah doin that now club membership couple and sorry you are a lepper as a single guy

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By *reyyaMan
over a year ago

North Yorkshire

Maybe something should be done to provide for single men and women

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

definitely more challenging as a single.....I just wish people would reply to messages, even if just to say thanks but no thanks. I need to think more "outside the box" but I won't lower standards.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

Definitely more challenging as a single male but if you've put in the effort as half the couple you once were, maintained friendships and relationships - you should be OK.

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