FabSwingers.com forum: If you have nothing NICE to say…

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

The Forum would be such a nicer space if we all tried to follow this mantra.

Hope everyone’s Sunday is going well

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

Thumpers Mumma was a wise woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Less drama, more penis

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By *parkle1974Woman
over a year ago

Leeds

The forum would be boring.

I only come on because they are better than any soap opera with all the drama.

I vote "The Lounge" in next years soap awards

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

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By *den-Valley-coupleCouple
over a year ago

Cumbria

Arr, the old when you can't control the narrative try and Shute down healthy debate.

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By *ustBoWoman
over a year ago

Somewhere in Co. Down

Do you mean people shouldn't voice differing opinions in that case I disagree because it is good to see others points of view.

Rudeness and demeaning others is a great way to see who to avoid on here. It's better than fake niceness and then the exact same people back stabbing the same people who they have acted all nice to on here in the background . Some on here are great at having a fake pubic persona

Personally I prefer to see people's real personality so I can avoid those I don't want to interact with.

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

"Less drama, more penis

Yes!!!

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By *onnyadtMan
over a year ago

Uttoxeter

"The Forum would be such a nicer space if we all tried to follow this mantra"

But there's some good sport to be had.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It’s a recreational sex site forum for Heavens sake!

There are bound to be differences. If it offends just don’t participate!

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"The Forum would be such a nicer space if we all tried to follow this mantra.

Hope everyone’s Sunday is going well

No it wouldn't. False niceness is far worse and more harmful than any truth no matter how brutal.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The Forum would be such a nicer space if we all tried to follow this mantra.

Hope everyone’s Sunday is going well

No it wouldn't. False niceness is far worse and more harmful than any truth no matter how brutal.

The truth is rarely brutal save for when it falls on the deafness of ignorance

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

Sometimes you just can't resist bludgeoning an idiot even if it's a ban

The red fog comes down and I'm am blind to my rage. Its only the sticky feel of their blood on my shoes I can't stand.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

"The Forum would be such a nicer space if we all tried to follow this mantra.

Hope everyone’s Sunday is going well

No it wouldn't. False niceness is far worse and more harmful than any truth no matter how brutal.

The truth is rarely brutal save for when it falls on the deafness of ignorance "

The truth is oft brutal and deemed harmful by the maligned individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Meh, I'm an adult. I say whatever I feel... I also assume other adults will say what they think?... If we all disagree it's not the end of the world?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It feeds into the whole 'be kind' movement?... Which yes, is a lovely ideal. But in reality most folk just roll it out to shut down other folk if they disagree with their opinion... So still basically being bitchy but under a socially acceptable 'cloak' to be a dick towards others

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I see we all woke up and chose violence

Was only saying it’s nice to be nice.

Nothing about not having healthy debate or a difference of opinion or fake niceness or anything like that… Jheeze Louise

There’s times where people genuinely have a serious issue that they want to discuss in the Forum, and it either gets hijacked or it turns into a dick swinging competition and whatever the female equivalent is to that is.

Just saying but like everyone has clearly stated above. Forget everyone’s feelings and just do and say what you want regardless if it’s nice or not.

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By *haron StonerTV/TS
over a year ago

Haywards Heath

It's the naughty devil that sometimes forces the odd out of place insensitive quip.

Mostly it's just bad day transference and we all know sometimes making someone feel bad can feel good and restart your day. Weird.

Sometimes you've got to be the Harold Shipman and help out.

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By *ealitybitesMan
over a year ago

Belfast

It's nice to be nice.

It's also nice to actually be nice rather than just paying lip service.

Nice is subjective and can sometimes be just a kick in the arse away from being sychophantic which is not a nice attribute.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Sometimes you just can't resist bludgeoning an idiot even if it's a ban

The red fog comes down and I'm am blind to my rage. Its only the sticky feel of their blood on my shoes I can't stand. "

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