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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Can I ask why people so rude you text them Nice but they you ignore at least they can say no thanks we are not interested but no ignore why

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Is it me you're looking for

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me you're looking for"

I can see it in your eyes

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn


"Can I ask why people so rude you text them Nice but they you ignore at least they can say no thanks we are not interested but no ignore why "

I'd always thought a no thank you to a message would be nice, but it's normally ignorance. Probably due to the 200 odd idiots that have messaged them before you...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I get well over a hundred messages a day. I have found that even a polite response of no thank you results in more messages from them explaining why I should. It's too much like hard work. I have to ignore and then block if needed to keep my sanity tbh

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Is it me you're looking for

I can see it in your eyes "

I can see it in your smile

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get well over a hundred messages a day. I have found that even a polite response of no thank you results in more messages from them explaining why I should. It's too much like hard work. I have to ignore and then block if needed to keep my sanity tbh"

This.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes that true but when you send someone messages is nice get some answers even when say no

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They probably don’t want any comebacks off someone that can’t take a no. A lot of people can’t take a not interested/rejection. (Not saying you can’t) Also it can be almost impossible for some to reply to everyone due to the sheer number of messages…

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Yes that true but when you send someone messages is nice get some answers even when say no "

What difference does it make? It is still the same answer…

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By *remiumbondMan
over a year ago

Morpeth

I agree when you get 100’s of messages a day. I’ve responded to people who have asked a question or asking for help and not received a thank you, kiss my arse or anything!!!!!

Just bad manners in my opinion

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By *iromancergirl1Woman
over a year ago

bolton


"I get well over a hundred messages a day. I have found that even a polite response of no thank you results in more messages from them explaining why I should. It's too much like hard work. I have to ignore and then block if needed to keep my sanity tbh"
This

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Yes you are right but when people ignore you you start lost your confidence and don't understand why

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By *adeiteWoman
over a year ago

Stafford


"Yes you are right but when people ignore you you start lost your confidence and don't understand why "

It's because we get 100s of messages a day. Replying to 100s takes alot of time. And it also gives most a reason to reply back to us, trying to convince us why we shouldn't be saying no.

Fab rules state no reply means not interested. Delete your sent emails then you won't be obsessing over why x,y,z didn't reply.

Focus on the ones they do reply and wish yo meet, not the ones that don't.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Perhaps you are messaging people without reading what they’re looking for?

Also, as others have said, no thank you often leads to why and then on to abuse.

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By *oberts_onMan
over a year ago

King's Lynn

I don't get peoples mentalities, if someone says no, that's it, end of. Just idiots spoiling it...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Can I ask why people so rude you text them Nice but they you ignore at least they can say no thanks we are not interested but no ignore why "
possibly look at your profile text and elaborate. We wouldn’t respond to that

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else


"I don't get peoples mentalities, if someone says no, that's it, end of. Just idiots spoiling it..."

So the idiots are spoling it by preventing you getting actively rejected, and having to settle for bring passively rejected by getting no response at all?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

You text them one word and expect a response? How is someone meant to reply to 'nice' are you referring to their boobs, their hair, the pile of disregarded clothes in the corner of the photo, you need to send people a message they can work with a message worthy of a reply

Can you imagine how many messages some profiles get a day

Someone once said do you call up every takeaway and say thanks but no thanks to the menu popped through your door, no & the same applies to here

A message unless it's a reply is unsolicited and therefore shouldn't expect a response infact by responding youll then be able to override any filters they may set

It really should be made clearer on the sign up process that no response means no thank you

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"Can I ask why people so rude you text them Nice but they you ignore at least they can say no thanks we are not interested but no ignore why "

Please use the Forum search and read every other post on this subject.

Then you'll know

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"It really should be made clearer on the sign up process that no response means no thank you "

Noooo, we have so many 'secret' filters we cannot lose

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