FabSwingers.com forum: First experience questions before first meet

By *inky-Couple 69 OP Couple
over a year ago

Winnipeg

Was anyone nervous for their first swing experience. My husband had an experience before we met 18 years ago and I have recently showed interest in it. We are open to the experience but I am nervouse as well. How did you feel after the first time?

We are not looking to get with couple after couple but if we find a compatible couple, it would be great to arrange a meet a couple times a year. Was the experience something you wanted to do again? I feel we are definitely more comfortable seeking a couple that is older, settled and more experienced then we are.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

I was extremely nervous before our first meet. I still get nervous actually. As long as you're both happy with who you're meeting, sure of your boundaries and both prepared to say "stop" very clearly if you want to stop you'll be fine.

By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Yes the experience was something I wanted to do again, we met the guy a few times

By *reenleavesCouple
over a year ago

North Wales

We were terrified before our first club visit! Hasn't arranged to meet anyone. Just to go and see what it was like. We stood outside the entrance for a good ten mins, psyching ourselves up to ring the bell. Didn't realise we were on cctv

Once we were in, everything felt surprisingly normal! It's always million times more nerve wracking in your own head. I'm sure you'll find that once the meet gets started.

By *otwifingVixenCouple
over a year ago

Northants

I was soooooo nervous the first time we were going to play.... My husband had been on the swinging scene before but I was a newbie and had been faithful to only him for 12 years.

We'd talked in great detail about our rules, what we wanted, where our limits were.

In the week leading up my husband was awesome, reassuring me, checking in with me. It might sound cheesy but he sent me loads of those hotwife caption photos with captions relating to how incredibly sexy he found me and what we were going to. Just before we left he looked me in the eyes and told me I'd never been sexier - it worked a treat and even though I was still nervous my confidence was sky high and the excitement took over!