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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

Twice this week I politely rejected two different men only to be told

“you seem too vanilla anyway” by each.

Me stating what I like, how it pleasures me and my own clear boundaries - and being called vanilla for it - makes me laugh.

Guess I just wanted to share to encourage men to be polite after a woman courteously says no thanks. I know it’s tough in here for the lads but there’s really no need for it. Just say “thanks for answering” (or nothing at all) and move on.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Add some chocolate and make yourself stracciatella.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm finding more and more men confuse being dominant with having a woman to use as a fuck doll.

The tide is turning though. There are plenty of guys looking for the soft, sensual side of things.

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By *ady CurvaceousWoman
over a year ago

Kent


"I'm finding more and more men confuse being dominant with having a woman to use as a fuck doll.

The tide is turning though. There are plenty of guys looking for the soft, sensual side of things. "

To be fair, half the guys on here who say they're experienced doms are actually just misogynistic, malicious and inexperienced idiots who think choking, spitting and slapping is being "dom"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding more and more men confuse being dominant with having a woman to use as a fuck doll.

The tide is turning though. There are plenty of guys looking for the soft, sensual side of things. "

That surely must be what 99% of single men on here are looking for though?

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By *harpDressed ManMan
over a year ago

Here occasionally, but mostly somewhere else

Rejected people lash out.

In other news...

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"That surely must be what 99% of single men on here are looking for though? "

Nope

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Twice this week I politely rejected two different men only to be told

“you seem too vanilla anyway” by each.

Me stating what I like, how it pleasures me and my own clear boundaries - and being called vanilla for it - makes me laugh.

Guess I just wanted to share to encourage men to be polite after a woman courteously says no thanks. I know it’s tough in here for the lads but there’s really no need for it. Just say “thanks for answering” (or nothing at all) and move on.

"

Some gents are just foolish, and return to playground reactions when rejected. Thrre are however great gents and all of your fabtasies will come true!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I'm finding more and more men confuse being dominant with having a woman to use as a fuck doll.

The tide is turning though. There are plenty of guys looking for the soft, sensual side of things.

Indeed, those that watch too much porn and confuse it with Real life.

To be fair, half the guys on here who say they're experienced doms are actually just misogynistic, malicious and inexperienced idiots who think choking, spitting and slapping is being "dom" "

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