FabSwingers.com forum: bisexuality

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

if you have exsperimented in the past and thought its not for me doesnt meen that your bisexual does it ? so many narrow minded people about omg

not that there is anything wrong with doing what ever you want with whoever you want to

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

my _iew on it is, if you try it and it is not for you, you are straight

good luck for the future

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

but some people's stance is so firm , the very fact you did it once, maybe twice is enough for them to exclude you

and that is their choice, don't let it worry you.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My _iew is the same as View

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My _iew is the same as View and Tease.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think you need to try it again

Just to make sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My _iew is the same as View and Tease and Scarletstar

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"I think you need to try it again

Just to make sure

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My _iew is the same as View and Tease and Scarletstar and Soxy

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"my _iew on it is, if you try it and it is not for you, you are straight

good luck for the future"

we wont meet bi men.. but if you tried it and didnt like it so never intend to fo it again then we would take it as you being straight.. and we are pretty strict about not meeting bi men. just our opinion tho..

But you do have also to understand the number of guys that would happily say that tried it didnt like it so never again, rapidly hiding all the veris from men..yes we have had that, in order to get a meet so can see why people

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

just how do you know though if someone is telling the truth ?

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By *ENDAROOSCouple
over a year ago

South West London / Surrey

"I think you need to try it again

Just to make sure

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"just how do you know though if someone is telling the truth ?

oh you take your time believe me they generally get found out.. theres that wonderful thing called gut instinct.. and it works everytime..you double check everything including veris..

No rushed meets usually means no mistakes for us we would only meet after face to face chat and youd be supprised what you can get from body language when you ask certain questions.. but the we have no plans to meet many from fab simply because of the fact its full of non gen people sadly..

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By *arnayguyMan
over a year ago

Durham Tees

"just how do you know though if someone is telling the truth ?

Mr is going to stick his cock up your arse and ask you if you like it. If you say yes, he'll know you are bi and throw you out!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just how do you know though if someone is telling the truth ?

oh you take your time believe me they generally get found out.. theres that wonderful thing called gut instinct.. and it works everytime..you double check everything including veris..

I think fab is pretty representative of the world out there. There's non-genuine people everywhere.....

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

What is it that some heterosexuals find unacceptable about bisexuals?

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By *teveanddebsCouple
over a year ago

Norwich

Well I'd guess that someone not comfortable with their sexuality may feel threatened.

Or they think it's catching

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Nothing wrong with it.. Im bisexual.. I love pussy and cock..

One of my fantasies is to be taken by a male and female.. I find it a real turn on...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just how do you know though if someone is telling the truth ?

Easy get your man to kiss them , the none bi will run s mile xxxx

I won't

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By *hreesomefunguyMan
over a year ago

Bristol

I tried it and liked it .......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"What is it that some heterosexuals find unacceptable about bisexuals?"

Start a thread to ask.....

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By *ngieandMrManCouple
over a year ago

hereford

"What is it that some heterosexuals find unacceptable about bisexuals?

Start a thread to ask.....

No - Yes - No... that's in response to the OP in its simplest form.

My question is simply reiterating 'an' aspect of the OP's opening gambit that thus far has been commented on but not answered, so didn't see the point in opening what might been seen by some as a duplicate thread

My intention being to perpetuate this thread not hijack it just to clarify any doubt if there was any

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I know lots of men who i have met and they tried out some MM contact and then never again -- but thats ok as life is one long learning curve.

The stigma that bi men have is in the main they are seen "dirty old man" because they play with other mens cocks etc....were as ...

The platform we sit Bi women on is in the "omg thats so erotic two women getting it on"; because thats who in the main we see it..and its acepted as clean horny fun

Two apposing _iews ..and i dont care either way; im just me a bisexual guy and hapy to enjoy the company of nice people

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"What is it that some heterosexuals find unacceptable about bisexuals?"

We will have nothing to do with bi's on here simply because of the unbeleivable number on here that have told us infact insisted that Mr Fun can't be straight as all men want cock !!! well excuse us !! that isn't the case and with these ones the attitude that have taken in messages well no way on earth that we would meet them far too pushy..and give you the feeling that in a meet they would be the same and no point in a meet where you feel it could end in a fight for the guy over stepping the mark and and trying things on.. But then thats the same with everything in the swinging lifestyle no one has the right to push anything onto others, so we stopped all bi men.. yep sure there are genuine ones but the major percentage that we have had contact with has been pushy rude and insisting Mr must try it as he can't be straight no such thing !!! so we blanket block/don't meet all sorry but same goes for it all.. we won't meet under 35 year olds most unders that have contacted us have been rude, ignorant and immature so bugger it we haven't time to entertain that so no one under 35.. More than happy to meet socially with bi men, under 35's gay men etc but no further than a drink would never play with them...That's the way it goes I would say the minority spoil it for the rest but the bi men that have contacted us its the majority of them.

Its always certain people spoiling it for others on here.

But at the end of the day we are here for fun with the people we want to have fun with.. we are not bi we are both 100% straight and prefer meeting with the same that's where our pleasure is so why should be do any different just to keep others happy !!! Each to their own..

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By *rust2Couple (MM)
over a year ago

Falkirk

Not sure labels alway apply, as long as you're honest with yourself mate. The number of guys who class themselves as straight whilst enjoying cock is staggering. Infact in the last 2 yrs or so on fab, my partner and I have been approached many many times by other guys, I'd say under 1% listed as bi/ gay. So well done for trying, for considering whether it's honest to call yourself str8. I think you are str8 but just my _iew. Much worse are men who think its ok to suck cock, even take it too but think kissing a guy is too gay - how insulting to gay men. Like to see them try shagging their wives or girlfriends then turn away for a kiss lol. We had a message from a young "str8" guy the other day who said "no way I'd be doing any gay stuff" then asked if we'd both suck his cock! No thankyou, Im a str8 looking gay guy who has standards. Good luck mate, and well done for being so open with yourself.

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By *uncpl2015Couple
over a year ago

Bridgend Area

"Not sure labels alway apply, as long as you're honest with yourself mate. The number of guys who class themselves as straight whilst enjoying cock is staggering. Infact in the last 2 yrs or so on fab, my partner and I have been approached many many times by other guys, I'd say under 1% listed as bi/ gay. So well done for trying, for considering whether it's honest to call yourself str8. I think you are str8 but just my _iew. Much worse are men who think its ok to suck cock, even take it too but think kissing a guy is too gay - how insulting to gay men. Like to see them try shagging their wives or girlfriends then turn away for a kiss lol. We had a message from a young "str8" guy the other day who said "no way I'd be doing any gay stuff" then asked if we'd both suck his cock! No thankyou, Im a str8 looking gay guy who has standards. Good luck mate, and well done for being so open with yourself. "

you may have hit the nail on the head.. maybe it is the straight bi guys (guys who say they are straight that aren't) that infact make them think that we as a genuine straight couple are infact doing the same as them and putting straight just for the hell of it...

Thats the thing if everyone was open and honest in this enviroment and happy in their own skin and sexuality then there would be no need for people keep posting threads about it.. thats not aimed at the OP as his question is different by the way which we answered further up in our opinion the Op is honest and we would class him as straight.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

"What is it that some heterosexuals find unacceptable about bisexuals?"

I think:

some are truly put off by thinking about the act

some think bi guys less manly

some homophobia

some because they consider them a higher risk

but most because of the dishonesty in the approach to meet, pretending to be either str8 or bi to hoodwink an opportunity to play

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

COCK OR PUSSY YOU DICIDE

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Both

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I is bored with the bisexual debate so I'll now amend my position to say that all men are potentially bi.

What they all need to turn them is a healthy helping of ginger tranny cock right up their manginas until they see stars, a bruise on the top of their heads from banging against the headboard, and to be left with an arse like a yawning hippos mouth.

I'll convert you all like a filthy evangelist, so stop pretending bitches.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I is bored with the bisexual debate so I'll now amend my position to say that all men are potentially bi.

I'll convert you all like a filthy evangelist, so stop pretending bitches. "

I was just going to say I don't know why hetero men in couples wouldn't meet a bisexual man but I am terrified reading that lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Don't get caught up in having a label. The first time i experimented with some bi fun it was not for me but i some times like bi fun now if the moment takes my fancy. Also remember just because you are bi dose mot mean you have to do oral or take it up the ass some women or gay guys don't. Just have some fun.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was told different . I tried it a cpl of times 5 years ago and I was told because I had im bisexual.

I put it as my sexual orientation on another site I'm on and this one and recently tried it again and it was just how I remembered.

I am what I am ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I is bored with the bisexual debate so I'll now amend my position to say that all men are potentially bi.

I'll convert you all like a filthy evangelist, so stop pretending bitches. "

I want to watch that!!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just how do you know though if someone is telling the truth ?

oh you take your time believe me they generally get found out.. theres that wonderful thing called gut instinct.. and it works everytime..you double check everything including veris..

I love this post, it's such rubbish and works on the assumption that all bi men would even fancy a bit of the male half.

I'd like to know what body language give aways you look for and what questions you ask to gauge the response? I assume the limp, unmanly handshake we all have is a starter.

Do you now, or have you ever watched Eurovision?

What's your opinion on the colour pink?

Can you do the dance routine to the Steps classic "Tragedy"?

Can you spell the word "fabulous"?

Have you ever been in a Turkish prison?

How do you feel about the work of miss Kylie Minogue?

What's your opinion on the decor in here?

Are you bisexual?

Are you?

I bet you are, you want to touch Mr's willy don't you?

Admit it gayboy!

I'm sorry but to say you are able to tell just from meeting someone is as ridiculous as some people saying they have gaydar. You could meet me in bloke mode in a social situation and not have a clue, I guarantee it.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just how do you know though if someone is telling the truth ?

oh you take your time believe me they generally get found out.. theres that wonderful thing called gut instinct.. and it works everytime..you double check everything including veris..

I love this post, it's such rubbish and works on the assumption that all bi men would even fancy a bit of the male half.

I'd like to know what body language give aways you look for and what questions you ask to gauge the response? I assume the limp, unmanly handshake we all have is a starter.

Do you now, or have you ever watched Eurovision?

What's your opinion on the colour pink?

Can you do the dance routine to the Steps classic "Tragedy"?

Can you spell the word "fabulous"?

Have you ever been in a Turkish prison?

How do you feel about the work of miss Kylie Minogue?

What's your opinion on the decor in here?

Are you bisexual?

Are you?

I bet you are, you want to touch Mr's willy don't you?

Admit it gayboy!

I can say no to all those apart from I can spell 'fabulous'. Maybe I need to embrace my feminine side lol

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By *inkyScot22Man
over a year ago

Anniesland

*hums I Kissed A Girl*

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"just how do you know though if someone is telling the truth ?

oh you take your time believe me they generally get found out.. theres that wonderful thing called gut instinct.. and it works everytime..you double check everything including veris..

I love this post, it's such rubbish and works on the assumption that all bi men would even fancy a bit of the male half.

I'd like to know what body language give aways you look for and what questions you ask to gauge the response? I assume the limp, unmanly handshake we all have is a starter.

Do you now, or have you ever watched Eurovision?

What's your opinion on the colour pink?

Can you do the dance routine to the Steps classic "Tragedy"?

Can you spell the word "fabulous"?

Have you ever been in a Turkish prison?

How do you feel about the work of miss Kylie Minogue?

What's your opinion on the decor in here?

Are you bisexual?

Are you?

I bet you are, you want to touch Mr's willy don't you?

Admit it gayboy!

It is a bit like the generalisation that all male hairdressers must be gay!

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By *uicyjaynkinkykayCouple
over a year ago

slough

Most men who's say they st8 are prob aint ... I'm bi and my partner is st8... I have no doubt that any will judge me ... But who cares I don't as I love both men and woman xxxxx

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