FabSwingers.com forum: Comparing kink lists

By *inna and Saint OP Couple
over a year ago

Sherbourne

Myself and my partner like to compare things on our list of things we would like to try.

It also allows us to be totally open about things we want to try but may not say face to face to start with.

Plus - things on the list can develop into much deeper levels of involvement than we would have expexted.

Sometimes - we share lists with potential partners and they drive new things or develop ideas we had not considered.

I have often been surprised as to what has come out and how it has taken us on some very interesting paths.

Of course - you A. have to be very open minded B. not take offence and C. be happy to accept hard limits or qualified responses as to how far they see it going.

By *ornycouplepzCouple
over a year ago

here and there

We are very similar to you guys ,there's no point in keeping thoughts/desires to yourself at the end of the day you don't know if your partner would be up for trying them if you don't discuss them