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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago

I get that there will be some crazy stupid and annoying messages but...does it really annoy females who receive too many???

I've seen so many statuses complaining about receiving too many messages... surely you don't have to read them all...?

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By *oobyHotwifeWoman
over a year ago

Thurrock

No you don't but it still takes time to delete them, to look through to see if any are of an interest etc or to see if any are from people you know

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By *inna and SaintCouple
over a year ago

Sherbourne


"No you don't but it still takes time to delete them, to look through to see if any are of an interest etc or to see if any are from people you know "

You are looking at this from the wrong side of the fence.

As a single male - you are 10 a penny.

Most adopt a shotgun approach and just chance it.

Often it is bloody obvious you are TOTALLY opposite to what you want and have mot been arsed to read a detailed profile

As a couple we just got deluged by single males and it was too much to process and we got pissed off with the ignorance of chancers so we blocked single males.

Now triple that nuisance if your a solo female.

Its like watching a mallard duck being roped (insert other word) by male mallards - they simply drown

So I fully get it why ladies get onto the filter and block.

Most males do not experience this themselves so dont appreciate how 1 chancer is a PITA but dozens just drive you to distraction.

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

This is why I only send females a maximum of 10 unanswered messages.

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"I've seen so many statuses complaining about receiving too many messages... surely you don't have to read them all...? "

Welcome to the forums, see you again when you come back to complain that your messages don't get read

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I've seen so many statuses complaining about receiving too many messages... surely you don't have to read them all...?

Welcome to the forums, see you again when you come back to complain that your messages don't get read "

This

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By *inky-MinxWoman
over a year ago

Grantham


"This is why I only send females a maximum of 10 unanswered messages."

You're funny, clever funny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that there will be some crazy stupid and annoying messages but...does it really annoy females who receive too many???

I've seen so many statuses complaining about receiving too many messages... surely you don't have to read them all...? "

No we don't. BUT the posts about how rude/ignorant it is not to read and just delete or to read, delete and not reply just proves there's literally no way to please everyone lol

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London


"This is why I only send females a maximum of 10 unanswered messages.

You're funny, clever funny "

Thanks!

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"I've seen so many statuses complaining about receiving too many messages... surely you don't have to read them all...?

Welcome to the forums, see you again when you come back to complain that your messages don't get read "

sorry to disappoint but that wont happen... I'm not that soft.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

The trick is to block folk outside your range from messaging you.

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By (user no longer on site) OP   
over a year ago


"The trick is to block folk outside your range from messaging you."
that makes sense

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"I get that there will be some crazy stupid and annoying messages but...does it really annoy females who receive too many???

I've seen so many statuses complaining about receiving too many messages... surely you don't have to read them all...? "

It annoys me when I have a shit profile and people send messages. They should just have a wank.

The whining is a form of ego boost.

"I have 20,000 unread messages, look how hot and popular and fuckable I am!!"

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