FabSwingers.com forum: Would you swing with some old/young enough be parents/children

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Know this sort question about how young is to young and all that crap.. as long as you a consenting legal adult then that fair enough.

But the question is would you play with someone young enough be your children? Or children that age or younger?

Similarly would you play with a couple old enough be kids. Xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

To me, age is just a number.

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By *iewMan
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over a year ago

Angus & Findhorn

just personal choice really

enjoy if you do

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd never play with guys young enough to be mines, or younger, (27&24) for ME that's just wrong...each to their own tho!

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By *hynottsCouple
over a year ago

nottingham

no we will not play with any one younger than our children just dont seem right to us . but i have been looking at the young mens bulge alot so can see that mite just change one day

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By *ornyGCCouple
over a year ago

Slaithwaite

We play with a very hot couple who are in their early 50's and are just about to have fun with an 18yo couple.

Variety is the spice of life

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By *empting Devil.Woman
over a year ago

Sheffield

I prefer not to.

But when meeting in clubs it's slightly different - there are mature young guys and young older guys.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

well seeing as my kid is only 8 and my parents are 80+ there is a broad range in between!! however, as a personal preference i find anyone under 35 too immature and anyone over 55, well..too old haha but im not being ageist its just personal choice

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Depends if they want to swing with us!

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By *iss_tressWoman
over a year ago

London

It doesn't work for me: in the past I've played with men young enough to be my children and old enough to be my dad.

I'm comfortable and enjoy playing with men my own age or slightly older. Sex for me is more than the physical bumping and grinding of bits - it's also cerebral, and I'm seldom on the same wavelenght of people at extreme ends of age scales to me.

One of my playmates is 38 and more than an equal mental match for me, which adds to my play.

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By *heekychezzaWoman
over a year ago

warrington

I've no kids so can't use that as a measure. When meeting as a single I would not arrange meets with very young guys say 18 - 35, but that's more about I don't think they're going to find my wrinkles and saggy bits sexy, and some concerns about what we would have in common to talk about. Playing in a club is a whole different matter though....age just doesn't come into then....if there is an attraction on both sides I'd be up for it

As to the guys similar ages to my parents...well I haven't found any on the site, although there probably are one or two but I certainly wouldn't see their age as a problem...the only issue for me would be me finding them sexually attractive.

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By *iamondsmiles.Woman
over a year ago

little house on the praire

No, by choice. But my partner is 2 years older than my mother

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my hubby is 20 years older than me, i have met 20 year old men in the past and i am 51, so it doesnt bother me.

i normaly meet men who are aged 40 to 60.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have a playmate that is younger than my son.

doesn't bother me but older does

Cali

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Not for me, I prefer from 30 plus x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't think age should be an issue, I do find older women very attractive

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes I would , yes I have

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

I've met people younger than my youngest child. Never met someone nearing my mums age. Yet.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum

I am happy to play with all ages, although I prefer men to be in their 30s.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Personally i wouldnt but thats only because im not really attracted to late teen/early 20s of guys mid 50s and above

dont bother me if others do, i dont think its wrong i just see no attraction in people tho ages

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age difference only works out if both sides are OK with it. I'd love to have fun with 18yr olds and up, but I very much doubt that they'd find me attractive!

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By *umbriaman1962Man
over a year ago

outside of penrith

no i could not play with anyone same age as my kids there are 20 to 23,

when daughter has friends round getting ready for night out , i could not look at them like that, would just seem wrong, same as if my daughter at a friends house would hate to think of friends dad etc looking at her as sex object!

i did meet a mid 20s couple few months back for a 3 some , only time in my life could not go hard just felt wrong.

just too young for me seem good idear before meeting them

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By *arnaclebillMan
over a year ago

Robin Hood County

Well as I am 72 and I have played with women in their 20's who are young enough to be my Granddaughter I guess the answer is yes I would. As long as it is legal (18 or over) then it's OK by me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes, I've played with both age groups

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'm 50 next week so this thread has given me hope lol at least some people like older. Di x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age is a number. I have played with women and men who are old enough to technically old enough to be my parents but it doesn't bother me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Being 20 years older than my wife it happens all the time , especially as she prefers to play with younger folk - lucky me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

this is where alot of maturer/older couples turn us down cos were basically old enough to be thir kids

were not just on here lookin for older couples,but it is a swinging site and were on here to act fantasies out.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Youngest for me has been 19 and I had reservations to begin with, but have met him a few times and plan to meet some more. Oldest was 49, but he's a fireman so is very fit as he has to be for his job. Would never play with someone my parents age, don't find people of that age attractive.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

mr would :D

mrs wouldnt

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

the last person in my mind when I'm playing is a family member....so age is somewhat irrelevant

I wouldnt rule out an age gap relationship...but that would have probably a bit more ingredients needed to make it work...as its bad enough with those in my own age group lol

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By *thyorksCouple
over a year ago

ROTHERHAM

She does not like to meet any guys near our kids age,it's her choice & i have to go with it which is totaly fine with me..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Off course. So long as age of consent. I'm not planning on marrying them. So yeh bring it on

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have kids who are 19 and 23 and a grandson, so it would be wrong in our eyes to play with people around the same age as my kids, older i play with up too about 59 dont know why just not met any older lol x

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By *eakcoupleCouple
over a year ago

peak district

G once had a girlfriend younger than his daughter, R has had men in clubs younger than her sons. As long as everyone is of legal age and happy about things, why not?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We have age restrictions no younger than our children and certainly not old enough to be our parents, sex in an old peoples home has no attraction

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Whilst I might get a semi over a horny 21yr old babe, and Perky might get very 'damp' over a hung young stud, the reality is we're here to swing, not just fuck, and that includes being friends with people.

'At our age' (God help us! Lol!) we have a different outlook and are just at a different point in our lives to people who are young enough to be our kids. If we were to meet a young couple (say 20-25) we wouldn't feel right about it as we'd feel like we are just using them, rather than sharing the experience with them.

Each to their own, though, as in most things.....

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age doesn't bother me too much, but this topic did remind me of one of my first dogging experiences. I was about 19 at the time (this was before the age of the internet) and I popped down to a dogging spot on the coast here in the north west in my MkIII Ford Escort

I wasn't having much luck but then I came across a couple in a BMW.

I waited a while and she got out the car completely naked, had a pee then got back in and put the window down. That was enough of a "sign" for me so I plucked up the courage, got out my car and said hello exchanged a few words and was invited to pop in the back if I wanted. We had a chat and it turned out they where in their mid 40's, told them I was 19 and of course she said I was her sons age so it wouldn't feel right doing anything, and she was also suprised at finding a 19 year old out dogging as she thought it was just for "oldies". We continued having a chat for a while about this and that and then I left them too it.

I went to that some area many times after but never saw there again.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

chatting to most of my swinging mates me being very ery old but we all think as long as they AINT YOUNGER THAN OUR YOUNGEST CHILD lol

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By *eminiman61Man
over a year ago

mansfield

Ive done both but in an ideal world Id prefer someone around my age.... Pretty much the same as others have said

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

When I was in my early twenties I was messing about with 40+ men, now I'm in my forties I still prefer older, and am meeting a gentlemen in his seventies soon. I just prefer the outlook and approach of men my age and above generally.

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By *reelove1969Couple
over a year ago

bristol

no definately not

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

no I wouldn't meet people of my children's age or my parents its just my preference. Mr N feels the same

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Prefer my own age group and that includes clubs too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"this is where alot of maturer/older couples turn us down cos were basically old enough to be thir kids

were not just on here lookin for older couples,but it is a swinging site and were on here to act fantasies out.

But a fantasy is like a notch on the bed post, something to tick off a list and I think I'm far more than that

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We don't have kids so it doesn't bother us, we'd be having sex with them not looking to adopt!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

From a profile on Fab No!

but at a club or social its a different matter.

Suppose that makes us Hypocrites

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

But a fantasy is like a notch on the bed post, something to tick off a list and I think I'm far more than that"

sorry if you felt affended, but its not going to be a 'we got our fantasies now were leaving the site' we're here to have some fun x (and to act some fantasies out too)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I adore couples in there 40s & 50s but my wife won't venture above 39. Lol great combination

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

The chance to swing with a lady / couple young enough to be my kids would be great.

Think anyone old enough to be my parents are out of the question though.

(before you look i am 52 !!).

As many have said... age is just a number !

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

yes, age is just a number, if the sex is great, then why not, it's interesting to try them all, lol

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By *ittle Minx 73Woman
over a year ago

South Suffolk

Age is but a number.

My man is 14 years older than me but looks 10 years younger than his age and my favourite male swinging friend is 18 years older than me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Know this sort question about how young is to young and all that crap.. as long as you a consenting legal adult then that fair enough.

But the question is would you play with someone young enough be your children? Or children that age or younger?

Similarly would you play with a couple old enough be kids. Xx"

Im 19 so cant really get younger than me lol, I have a limit of 35 purely for that reason as my mom is only a couple years older and i just tend to go for late 20's/early 30's anyway.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"no we will not play with any one younger than our children just dont seem right to us . but i have been looking at the young mens bulge a lot so can see that mite just change one day

same here.. always prefered the more mature older guys.. but recently..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Iv always preferred women older than me. Theres always more to talk about and i find them more open and non judgemental and up for a good time.

But age is just a number id say. Like i say. Your only as old as the person you feel...so ladies your more than welcome to feel me anytime hehe

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By *erseypairCouple
over a year ago

liverpool

we would but not prearranged if we met a cpl at a party or club and we had some sexual chemistry then deffo yes but not a private meet knowing our daughters older than them- strange but we have done this several times now

ps good post

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By *phroditeWoman
over a year ago

(She/ her) in Sensualityland

Prefer men to be somewhere between 40 and 60 ish...As personality is really important to me I am more likely to have things in common with that age group than with people much younger or much older. Personal preference I guess

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I've no kids so can't use that as a measure. When meeting as a single I would not arrange meets with very young guys say 18 - 35, but that's more about I don't think they're going to find my wrinkles and saggy bits sexy, and some concerns about what we would have in common to talk about. Playing in a club is a whole different matter though....age just doesn't come into then....if there is an attraction on both sides I'd be up for it

I've got no problem with your 'saggy bits'

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 19 so cant really get younger than me lol, I have a limit of 35 purely for that reason as my mom is only a couple years older and i just tend to go for late 20's/early 30's anyway. "

and what a hottie you are for a 19year old!

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By *nfieldishCouple
over a year ago

Enfield

Age not an issue....

Though immaturity in the very young would be a concern.......

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

There are young older people and older young people, if you see what I mean. The problem for me would be OLD older people and IMMATURE young , if your attractive to me and have some life that's good. If your younger but act like a little kid, then no that would be a turn off too, you would have to be a bit more mature. Don't forget, you are not a number!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i am a cougar! i am cos i find hot young bodies so sexy.. so i rarely go with anyone over 25.. yes i have been with guys who r 18 or 19 and i could have a child that age.. but i dont understand why that wouldnt be right.. its not as if it IS my child or that they are still children :/

I was 18 once and i certainly didnt feel like i wasnt ready for sex.. oh and all guys contact me, so im hardly grooming them or anything

age is just a number.. do any of u feel the age u r?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

oh and as for maturity.. im here for NSA so why should i care if they can hold a decent convo or their choice of music haha

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Im 22 yayyyy but 23 soon..cant wait to fall within some individuals age limit lol

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By *inkyandsweetCouple
over a year ago

SW London

Don't mind.... We are playing with a 21year old female at the mo... As long as they look good looking then that's all good for us.!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Providing the other partner/s are legal and willing or fit and able; then i think within your own personal preferences, its ok

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

same here as long as everything is legal then its all good xx

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By *oodmessMan
over a year ago

yumsville

errrrm... sexual purposes?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Almost every person I contact try to chat with say (to you, to young for us, I have kids your age sorry) ..... Wish people could be as open minded in Kent as some of the people on the forum xx

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By *he Ring WraithMan
over a year ago

Bradford

"Almost every person I contact try to chat with say (to you, to young for us, I have kids your age sorry) ..... Wish people could be as open minded in Kent as some of the people on the forum xx

Oddly most say i am too old.... is there an optimum age for swingers on Fab i wonder.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Some of my best playmates were women 15 years old than me when i first started, mature, experienced and know what they want, does it for me

I generally stay away from younger partners, as confidence often comes with age, but thats just a generalisation, as there was one young girl who had more life than the Duracell bunny

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have done, yes.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every person I contact try to chat with say (to you, to young for us, I have kids your age sorry) ..... Wish people could be as open minded in Kent as some of the people on the forum xx

Oddly most say i am too old.... is there an optimum age for swingers on Fab i wonder."

Oddly enough there isn't and I prefer my own age, shame you are so far away

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i am a cougar! i am cos i find hot young bodies so sexy.. so i rarely go with anyone over 25.. "

wish you would,have yet to experience an older woman

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Mr T gave a woman a good seeing to last night and she was shall we say, slighty older hehe

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By *anmjmosesMan
over a year ago

Northampton

"Know this sort question about how young is to young and all that crap.. as long as you a consenting legal adult then that fair enough.

But the question is would you play with someone young enough be your children? Or children that age or younger?

Similarly would you play with a couple old enough be kids. Xx"

I guess it should be down to attraction. Saying that, I think I would have a psychological block that would stop me from playing with someone old enough to be my mum...

but then again. I met a couple at a club. she must have been about 47/48 (being a gentleman and not asking her age). Attractive n looked good for her age...and I gave her a good seeing to

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Really enlightening to read other people's _iews on this. I confess that I've always gravitated to my own age group, and very rarely to those much younger. I think it must be the assumption that most younger people wouldn't want to play wit someone much older - maybe I should test that one out a little more!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Almost every person I contact try to chat with say (to you, to young for us, I have kids your age sorry) ..... Wish people could be as open minded in Kent as some of the people on the forum xx

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Yeah like that matters, it's very strange comment lol you would'nt say I've got a sister your age etc

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By *adja_lazloCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

"To me, age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I had meets with a 24yr old she is younger than.my kids did it seem.odd maybe was it worth it you bet it was.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

when I was 18 I had regular sex with 38 year old, I never thought of my mum, thanks god lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Your child is your child. Age of a sexual partner should have no association with your children surely?

Unless I u r frucking their mates which might not go down to well.

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By *now-bbw-bunnyCouple
over a year ago

southend-on-sea

Preferred cpls same age as us but its sometimes nice to have a young buck!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My parents are 48 and 44, my son is 9!!

Wouldn't go over or near parents ages, wouldn't go below 24 as that's how old my younger brother is.

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By *nnyMan
over a year ago

Glasgow

The minimum parent to child age gap is (legally) a bit under 17. Even the grandparent to grandchild gap is (legally) not quite 34.

That'd be, for example, a 20 year old playing with a 54 year old.

If all parties agree, is that a problem?

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By *lassic1Man
over a year ago

bellshill

I think it strange that when at or planning a meet and the sexual tingles are all there between all parties ....how can you start reflecting to family similarities ??Only a year ago I had a meet with a couple ..he 48 she 18 (and bbw) once the juices started to flow the rest was natural and very nice I may add.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Those age differences are just revolting

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me, age is just a number.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Your child is your child. Age of a sexual partner should have no association with your children surely?

Unless I u r frucking their mates which might not go down to well.

I once met a 25 yr old, all I could think of was he should be sat here with his mates not a woman old enough to be his mother as he was the same age as my daughter. And in clubs when I see the young people all I see is those the same age as my kids

Does that kind of make sense now? For us it really is age IS a number

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By *inktherapyCouple
over a year ago

Gloucester

We have it on our profile that I won't play with anyone young enough to be my son/ old enough to be my dad. I actually narrow the age limits still further to 35-51 (I'm 42) and say that there's 'some' flexibility - but, in reality, there's not much. I rarely find men my dad's age attractive enough to shag (an occasional one, maybe) and with younger men I just wonder why they'd want to be shagging a wobbly 42yo!

I have played with people outside those limits in clubs - clubs it's more 'the moment' and also you can both see what each other looks like straight off.

I've also tried playing with men in their 20s in a 1-2-1 outside of clubs - none of them have been brilliant. Perhaps I was just unlucky in the ones I met, but I prefer my playmates to know what they're doing, not for me to take on a Mrs Robinson role. And there's hardly anything in common for any chit-chat afterwards

Just my experiences/ thoughts - I know others have a damn good time!

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By *ouple2playCouple
over a year ago

Solihull

We really enjoy the extra naughty feeling it gives us to play with much older singles / couples - and they are a lot more aware of my needs and can hold a great conversation.

So definitely sleep with people my parents age, and a bit more (please lol) - just our 'thing'.

No children yet, but jury's still out on younger....

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By *ranny-CrumpetWoman
over a year ago

The Town by The Cross

Yes but it is very much dependent on the individual.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"The minimum parent to child age gap is (legally) a bit under 17. Even the grandparent to grandchild gap is (legally) not quite 34.

That'd be, for example, a 20 year old playing with a 54 year old.

If all parties agree, is that a problem?"

The problem to me is he is old enough to be her grandfather so i know exactly what i think he is and its not a nice thought at all

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

yeah..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No one under 30. Prefer ladies older than me. Late 40's and 50's

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I have played with younger, same age and much older.

I'm not desperate at all but you like who you like.

Age is just a number, sexy is timeless.

If she is 40s or 50's and carries herself well with that naughty spark in her eye then "yes please!"

Why not?

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By *eryBigGirlWoman
over a year ago

East Yorkshire

I agree with the age is only a number philosophy!! My regular playmate has just turned 22 and yeah it took me a while to get round the fact I am old enough to be his mother but he's very mature, very intelligent and very gorgeous so hell I'm just enjoying the ride

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By *ayseanMan
over a year ago

Cardiff

Very interesting thread,I have always been attracted to ladies older then me since I can remember! And have had alot of fun with women who are just as old or close to the age of my parents,but never has that made me feel guilty or felt its wrong,iv always thought of older ladies as just being sexier too then women my own age or younger,and intellectually more on my level,many of my friends would joke about this with me but we all have our preferences and as long as its legal I say go for it and enjoy yourself,the only thing I would say to people with age limits is not everyone who is the same age have the same maturity level,but of course I respect differing opinions on the subject

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

take what youcan get on this site or you may go without for a year! lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age isn't the issue with me, because time wasting doesn't seem to have age limits

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By *arambarMan
over a year ago

swindon

Older - yes.

Younger - no.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"To me, age is just a number.

exactly if only all the women had that _iews!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as I am 72 and I have played with women in their 20's who are young enough to be my Granddaughter I guess the answer is yes I would. As long as it is legal (18 or over) then it's OK by me."

I love the big age gap...love seeing older with younger. Oldest cpl I met were late 60s I was 19 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as I am 72 and I have played with women in their 20's who are young enough to be my Granddaughter I guess the answer is yes I would. As long as it is legal (18 or over) then it's OK by me."

I love the big age gap...love seeing older with younger. Oldest cpl I met were late 60s I was 19 x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Well as I am 72 and I have played with women in their 20's who are young enough to be my Granddaughter I guess the answer is yes I would. As long as it is legal (18 or over) then it's OK by me."

I love the big age gap...love seeing older with younger. Oldest cpl I met were late 60s I was 19 x

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By *innamon!Woman
over a year ago

no matter

certainly no one old enough to be my parent no.. ergggg thats just nasty !!young enough to be my child or as old as my kids.. slightly different ..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yes i would, and have done, i suppose though its different for guys, tell me if im wrong

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Age can be important but if two consenting adults hit it off and theres an attraction then whats the problem

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't understand why people say its wrong to meet someone young enough to be their child. If ur child is 21 then do u still see them as children, did anyone feel like a child at 21

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I prefer younger men, have done and do see men as young as my own children

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"To me, age is just a number.

And, yes, I've played with someone same age as my youngest.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

No,not for me and thats my personal choice ,each to their own

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By *nvictusMan
over a year ago

Beeston

To date my playmates have been from 22 to 52, I don't have an issue as long as we are all consenting.

I don't have a grown up child though, but I do understand those who are uneasy about playing with people the same age as their children.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I don't understand why people say its wrong to meet someone young enough to be their child. If ur child is 21 then do u still see them as children, did anyone feel like a child at 21"

I think it is the word 'children' therefore implying an unhealthy interest

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By *histler21Man
over a year ago

Ipswich

"I don't understand why people say its wrong to meet someone young enough to be their child. If ur child is 21 then do u still see them as children, did anyone feel like a child at 21

I think it is the word 'children' therefore implying an unhealthy interest"

Use the word 'progeny' then...

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

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By *hattyman80Man
over a year ago

stockport

I personally see age as a number. As Long as they're consenting adults them I'm on board. I see some people's profiles rigidly sticking to for example 35 - 50 and I wonder what's the difference between 34 and 35 lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I wouldn't play with any female under the age of 25, I wouldn't really be comfortable playing with someone who is a similar age to my eldest son.

As for older, when I started swinging I regularly used to play with a couple where the lady was 19 years older than me (I was 33), we had some great times together.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

children, yes

parents, they would have had to have been pretty young when they had me

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By *llrounder69Man
over a year ago

North Lincs

Just not keen on younger than 30, they always seem to lack experience but have no upper age preference, some of the best sex i have had has been from women over 58.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

19 id say youmgest id go reasonable kids should a grown up a bit by that age but some still not mature enough but you would know who is mature n who not mature enough to play with and oldest id play with 55/58

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we are pretty open to this anyone from 18 to 80 lol x

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By *mallteaserWoman
over a year ago

Central

Open here too, xxx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Well I've always gone for older men and my ex was 11 yrs older than me. But younger is good too

I do draw the line @ 30 for now

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By *amnationsedgeMan
over a year ago

Ashborne

Have been with a woman older than me, was fun and I don't see why alot of people take age so seriously on this site. Older and younger both have their positives and where one may have experience the other has energy, really it should be down to the individual rather than just cutting off everyone beyond a point.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Experience and energy are all very subjective and I don't believe can be connected to age. In the past I've been with people older than me who have been experienced and energetic. Now I've reached the age I have I just hope I find someone much younger who has the same qualities!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Sure i would. I LOVE older women, a lot of them are so much sexier.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

i love to younger woman, but not many younger women like the older guy lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

my wife is younger than my daughters lol

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By *oco_slimCouple
over a year ago

lewisham

No not younger. I have kids in early 20's so it would feel funny knowingly playing with a man of 25. If I didn't know.... Well

Older, as long as they can play unaided & there was an attraction, I'd be more than happy to get stuck in.

Coco x

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

not had kids so as long as legal all good, BUT tend to avoid youngsters because I like a more experienced hand....

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By *rightonsteveMan
over a year ago

Brighton - even Hove!

"not had kids so as long as legal all good, BUT tend to avoid youngsters because I like a more experienced hand...."

Just a hand?

I have age filters (as a basis) so I think that covers the OPs question.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Have been with a woman older than me, was fun and I don't see why alot of people take age so seriously on this site. Older and younger both have their positives and where one may have experience the other has energy, really it should be down to the individual rather than just cutting off everyone beyond a point."

I think you will find its any site not just this one that take age seriously

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love to younger woman, but not many younger women like the older guy lol

It usually depends how much money the older guy is willing to throw their way!

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"i love to younger woman, but not many younger women like the older guy lol

It usually depends how much money the older guy is willing to throw their way!

XXXX"

thats a bit cynical lol, i've met a few younger women off here at no cost, well only the petrol lol, and i think they have enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

crap

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I like older guys, generally treat me better than some young ones, don't care how much money they have

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like older guys, generally treat me better than some young ones, don't care how much money they have"

Well, Gem, theres some people on here obviously think the younger lady is only interested in one thing MONEY, and i'd say thats crap, and i think your right, with an older guy its more about mutual pleasure, well it is with me lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I ONLY play with the mature male the older the better

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Been there done that and shall continue to do so with gents as young as in their 20s. Age is just a number to me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A lady old enough to be my mother would be around 70, so no, I don't think I would, but it really depends what she looked like.

The same goes for a younger lady. If I found her attractive and if she wanted to have fun with an old fart like me, then I suppose I would.

It's not that straight forward is it?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ONLY play with the mature male the older the better "

your in a minority here then, we should talk lol xx

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I ONLY play with the mature male the older the better

your in a minority here then, we should talk lol xx

Have winked you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

We agree Age is but a number.

Great sex and the feelings that brings is about attraction and age doesn't really come into it for us. Nice, sexy, flirtatious, good looking people please

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By *arine15Man
over a year ago

Blackhall

I had a foster daughter 29 years ago who was a young slut age 16 on the game at the time. Saying that I never touched the girl but found out years later my nephew was fucking her.

Three years ago i contacted a girl aged 24 on site and arranged a meet with her.

Low and behold it turns out this young lady is the daughter of my late foster kid. Seems like mother like daughter.

Also the 27 year old was adopted and has never met her real mother.

So being over 30 years difference in age I say yes go out a fuck em if they old enough .

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By *arine15Man
over a year ago

Blackhall

Further to my previous post I have a daughter 42 and a son 39 . Am also divorced from there mother for over 10 years .

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't see a problem with it. If you get on and there hot... Why not

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"I had a foster daughter 29 years ago who was a young slut age 16 on the game at the time. Saying that I never touched the girl but found out years later my nephew was fucking her.

Three years ago i contacted a girl aged 24 on site and arranged a meet with her.

Low and behold it turns out this young lady is the daughter of my late foster kid. Seems like mother like daughter.

Also the 27 year old was adopted and has never met her real mother.

So being over 30 years difference in age I say yes go out a fuck em if they old enough . "

You had a foster child, and a member of your family was having sex with her ?

You have had sex with your foster daughters daughter?

What 27 year old who was adopted?????

WHAT !!!!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I don't have any kids of my own but my late wife was older than me so my elder stepdaughter is just 7 years younger than me so a "don't have sex with someone young enough to be your daughter" would limit me somewhat!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like older guys, generally treat me better than some young ones, don't care how much money they have

You obviously took what I said about money seriously and didn't notice the laughing smiley.

We both had a sexual/social relationship with a woman young enough to be our daughter and we haven't a pot to piss in

On the other hand though, what do you think attracts all those young women to guys like Hugh Hefner, Peter Stringfellow etc?

Perhaps there may sometimes be just a smidgen of truth in that earlier comment eh?

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I like older guys, generally treat me better than some young ones, don't care how much money they have

You obviously took what I said about money seriously and didn't notice the laughing smiley.

We both had a sexual/social relationship with a woman young enough to be our daughter and we haven't a pot to piss in

On the other hand though, what do you think attracts all those young women to guys like Hugh Hefner, Peter Stringfellow etc?

Perhaps there may sometimes be just a smidgen of truth in that earlier comment eh?

XXXX"

agreed on that point, but thats there careers lol

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

love older women.

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By *unover40Couple
over a year ago

yeovil

depends on the person, not the age, j has had great fun with guys younger than son but not simply because of their age. Lots of young guys like older women too

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

As long as its not illegal...Who cares MIX IT UP!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I had a foster daughter 29 years ago who was a young slut age 16 on the game at the time. Saying that I never touched the girl but found out years later my nephew was fucking her.

Three years ago i contacted a girl aged 24 on site and arranged a meet with her.

Low and behold it turns out this young lady is the daughter of my late foster kid. Seems like mother like daughter.

Also the 27 year old was adopted and has never met her real mother.

So being over 30 years difference in age I say yes go out a fuck em if they old enough . "

She was young vulnerable and in your care yet you call her a slut and to add to it you arrange to meet her offspring and insult her. Like mother like daughter. Yet you arranged to meet her ok you didn't know who she was but you no bettor than the foster daughter or her daughter you arranged to meet didn't you or is it just women who are judged and it's ok for males to do what you do with the very 'type ' of girls who you judge.

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By *ickiemintMan
over a year ago

Somewhere NW London

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By *ady4ladyWoman
over a year ago

liverpool

"I had a foster daughter 29 years ago who was a young slut age 16 on the game at the time. Saying that I never touched the girl but found out years later my nephew was fucking her.

Three years ago i contacted a girl aged 24 on site and arranged a meet with her.

Low and behold it turns out this young lady is the daughter of my late foster kid. Seems like mother like daughter.

Also the 27 year old was adopted and has never met her real mother.

So being over 30 years difference in age I say yes go out a fuck em if they old enough . "

I believe you are living in cloud cuckoo land and that it is a fantasy. But if what you say above is true then you need medicating

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"depends on the person, not the age, j has had great fun with guys younger than son but not simply because of their age. Lots of young guys like older women too

Exactly, we can never understand the "not with anyone young enough to be our kids" thing.

Where do we draw the line?

Old enough to be my parents?

Same age as my brother/sister?

Etc, etc, if we all used that criteria nobody would have sex at all!

We're there to have sex with like minded, consenting, mutually attracted adults, not adopt or be adopted by them.

XXXX

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I think if you find someone that is on a sexual par or challenges you a little then it shouldn't matter age , race, sexuality or whatever. Just play safe and have fun. We've all been in relationships where either the sex was crap and they were nice or great sex but dull to be around.

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