STI checks

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Are we being too cautious asking for an STI check from a guy prior to a meet, even when we practice safe sex?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Ask for whatever you want and be committed to it.

It’s up to them if they don’t want to play by your rules.

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By *lknhungMan
over a year ago

Luton

"Are we being too cautious asking for an STI check from a guy prior to a meet, even when we practice safe sex? "

Absolutely not safety is key and you all wanna feel comfortable that you’re not putting yourself at any risk, I always have a recent check to show a new partner.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Are we being too cautious asking for an STI check from a guy prior to a meet, even when we practice safe sex? "

No. Everyone who is non-monogamous should have a recent sti test.

Also, most peoples definition of safe sex includes unprotected oral, which is less likely to pass on sti's but it is still a risk, so STI tests are important.

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By *icecouple561Couple
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over a year ago

East Sussex

As long as you provide evidence of one too.

How recent do you require and what evidence to you ask for that they haven't had unprotected sex since their test?

I think everyone should do this casual sex thing in the way that suits them best, never compromise.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always ask for an STI test because condom's aren't a fail safe. They can come off or get lost.

I ask anyway. If, they're not willing to provide. I don't play

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