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Yet another timewaster!!

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By *amiss OP   Couple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Message from a single guy. Liked the look of him and asked him to ring us. Said he would ring at 8pm this evening. No phone call but he was online at the time and 40 mins after that!!....Blocked him! This is why we don't meet many people off this site. Sorry abot rant, know it's been done before. Must tell us something!!..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Men !

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

Maybe he had a really busy, stressful day and simply forgot. It happens. You might have blocked a really good meet.

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"Message from a single guy. Liked the look of him and asked him to ring us. Said he would ring at 8pm this evening. No phone call but he was online at the time and 40 mins after that!!....Blocked him! This is why we don't meet many people off this site. Sorry abot rant, know it's been done before. Must tell us something!!.."

I don't understand why you blocked him, he could have been talking on the phone with a family member or whomever or he might not have had credit to ring you.

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

I often show up as online but I'm not on the site - just left a window open.

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By *amiss OP   Couple
over a year ago

chelmsford

There are plenty of other good meets on here hopefully. We have stressful days but always stick to our commitments.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Message from a single guy. Liked the look of him and asked him to ring us. Said he would ring at 8pm this evening. No phone call but he was online at the time and 40 mins after that!!....Blocked him! This is why we don't meet many people off this site. Sorry abot rant, know it's been done before. Must tell us something!!.."

You could have rung him instead!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

How is one phonecall a commitment?

It happens - I've done it myself. No malice or rudeness intended.

You could have messaged him on site if you saw him online. A friendly hi and asked if it was ok to call.

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By *amiss OP   Couple
over a year ago

chelmsford

So we are 2hours down the line, really long phone call to his family!

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By *oxy_minxWoman
over a year ago

Scotland - Aberdeen

I wouldn't class him as a time waster either!

Maybe you should have asked him before blocking him! Everyone has things going on, and I am often showing as online, when in fact I am doing other things, just a thought!!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc

Maybe because you've blocked him he doesnt want to bother you?

Orrr maybe he forgot to log off and something else came up?

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By *issBehavingxxWoman
over a year ago

Glasgow


"So we are 2hours down the line, really long phone call to his family!"

Maybe he's noticed you've blocked him and taken that to mean you're no longer interested..... Don't see why he would call if he's blocked

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By *eeriseWoman
over a year ago

Manchester and that's all you need to know


"So we are 2hours down the line, really long phone call to his family!"

Why are you getting annoyed? Why didn't you take his number that way you would have been in control.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"So we are 2hours down the line, really long phone call to his family!"

Going to be hard for him to call if he has noticed you blocked him on here. I often leave the site open, doesn't mean I'm on here all the time though.

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By *amiss OP   Couple
over a year ago

chelmsford

Ok, point taken ladies, thanks for your input. Onwards and upwards...!!

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By *B9 QueenWoman
over a year ago

Over the rainbow, under the bridge

And he has not wasted anyone's time. You could easily be doing other things whilst waiting or not waiting for a call.

There seems to be an immense amount of anger at one missed call.

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Maybe because you've blocked him he doesnt want to bother you?

Orrr maybe he forgot to log off and something else came up?

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He could be unconscious on the floor!

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By *amiss OP   Couple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Maybe because you've blocked him he doesnt want to bother you?

Orrr maybe he forgot to log off and something else came up?

Now I feel guilty!!

He could be unconscious on the floor! "

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Maybe he decided that you weren't worth bothering with?

As I said on another thread today the term timewaster is bandied about way too easily. To me it only applies to someone that fails to show up at a meet or refuses to commit to a meet. Someone that stops messaging is possibly annoying, arguably rude but not really a timewaster...

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Maybe because you've blocked him he doesnt want to bother you?

Orrr maybe he forgot to log off and something else came up?

He could be unconscious on the floor! "

I did initially put that, but didnt want to tempt fate

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By *amiss OP   Couple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Maybe because you've blocked him he doesnt want to bother you?

Orrr maybe he forgot to log off and something else came up?

He could be unconscious on the floor!

I did initially put that, but didnt want to tempt fate

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Let's hope he is ok!!

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By *els_BellsWoman
over a year ago

with the moon n stars somewhere in gtr manc


"Maybe because you've blocked him he doesnt want to bother you?

Orrr maybe he forgot to log off and something else came up?

He could be unconscious on the floor!

I did initially put that, but didnt want to tempt fate

Let's hope he is ok!!"

if not, just blame wyrd

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By *yrdwomanWoman
over a year ago

Putting the 'cum' in Eboracum


"Maybe because you've blocked him he doesnt want to bother you?

Orrr maybe he forgot to log off and something else came up?

He could be unconscious on the floor!

I did initially put that, but didnt want to tempt fate

Let's hope he is ok!! if not, just blame wyrd "

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By *amiss OP   Couple
over a year ago

chelmsford


"Maybe because you've blocked him he doesnt want to bother you?

Orrr maybe he forgot to log off and something else came up?

He could be unconscious on the floor!

I did initially put that, but didnt want to tempt fate

Let's hope he is ok!! if not, just blame wyrd

"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he decided that you weren't worth bothering with?

As I said on another thread today the term timewaster is bandied about way too easily. To me it only applies to someone that fails to show up at a meet or refuses to commit to a meet. Someone that stops messaging is possibly annoying, arguably rude but not really a timewaster..."

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Maybe he decided that you weren't worth bothering with?

As I said on another thread today the term timewaster is bandied about way too easily. To me it only applies to someone that fails to show up at a meet or refuses to commit to a meet. Someone that stops messaging is possibly annoying, arguably rude but not really a timewaster..."

a timewaster is a no show, not someone that doesn't make a call, agree fully with you

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