FabSwingers.com forum: Would you not fuck another man's wife if you couldn't kiss her ?

By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

Honest answers only . Like really you would miss out on sex for not getting a kiss.?

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

I would not have sex with anyone I couldn't kiss.

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By *upersonic SamMan
over a year ago

wigan

Not for me, I like the intimacy of the act, if I just wanted a hole to pump I'd buy a fleshlight.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would not have sex with anyone I couldn't kiss."
that’s a shame Xxx

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By *ornywelsh2sumCouple
over a year ago

Neath valley.

We would pass. Kissing is a big part of forplay for us both.

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By *hoirCouple
over a year ago

Clacton/Bury St. Edmunds

Kissing is huge for me but if she is a smoker then it is best we don't kiss anyway.

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By *UNTIMEJAMESMan
over a year ago

cheshunt

Been to many swingers clubs and it’s been a Case of joining in sometimes your kissing someone different who fucking or sucking you

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Wouldn’t bother me n the slightest. Plenty of great sexual experiences to indulge in that don’t involve kissing.

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By *axBonkersMan
over a year ago

Doncaster

Not a issue, plenty of other places for lips and tongues

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By *ickdasterdly51Man
over a year ago

Lingfield

I'm not sure I'd want to kiss another man's wife, particularly if he was watching. I've always felt the intimacy of kissing should be between lovers. Seems like I'm in a minority of that view.

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By *entDomMan
over a year ago

Paddock Wood, Kent

I was going to see a cuckold couple but they stipulated no kissing and I must say I felt kissing was very much a part. I can understand why hubby didn't want it. But wasn't as appealing

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By *andb69Couple
over a year ago

leeds

No man has ever shown the slightest reservation in fucking me because I wouldn't kiss them. For me sex is fun, kissing is for romance. Why would I want to get romantic with someone I'd just met?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My old fwb had a no kissing rule, it was actually quite hot! Being that close but not being able to kiss

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What's the 'other man's wife' part of the question? Is it actually his decision? Surely the woman decides?

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By *tinerant scribeMan
over a year ago

County Durham

"I would not have sex with anyone I couldn't kiss. that’s a shame Xxx "

Are you not fond of kissing?

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By *icecouple561Couple
Forum Mod
over a year ago

East Sussex

Mr N is quite happy to have sex with another woman without kissing her

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By *sandyou69Couple
over a year ago

bath

Ditto

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By *sandyou69Couple
over a year ago

bath

Im happy what ever pleases other couple

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Had a meet like this once and can’t say that I enjoyed it

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Not a issue, plenty of other places for lips and tongues

Agree 100%

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I'd respect their boundaries and decisions and have some fun! Yes I love to kiss but wouldn't be a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Yea i would. Chosse a position where the lips on her face aren’t accessible ??

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I was a long term regular for an amazing couple on here and she only kissed me when he was out of the room

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No man has ever shown the slightest reservation in fucking me because I wouldn't kiss them. For me sex is fun, kissing is for romance. Why would I want to get romantic with someone I'd just met?"

This is the answer...

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By *uminsiderMKMan
over a year ago

St Austell

As the song goes, "some girls will, some girls won't" - I've happily fucked wives who haven't allowed kissing...

....it's nice if they do, but not a big deal if they don't...

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It depends on the situation.

Mrs likes to kiss, though she also has the fantasy of being tied, blindfolded and ball gagged, won't be any kissing in that scenario, I would imagine

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"Honest answers only . Like really you would miss out on sex for not getting a kiss.?"

It will make it less intimate but you can still have fun...

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By *ommenhimCouple
over a year ago

wigan

"What's the 'other man's wife' part of the question? Is it actually his decision? Surely the woman decides?"

Apt name! …. How did you get to that?

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

I'd fuck another women without kissing aswell wouldn't be a deal breaker.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I would follow what ever rules the couple put in place. They're the ones taking the risk on me, I am a guest

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Many moons ago. I had a session with a man and wife. They stipulated no kissing. I was deep in her pussy with her legs wrapped around me. He stepped out of the room and she grabbed my face and stuck her tongue in my mouth. Then she heard him coming upstairs and stopped me. This happened about three times. Seems he wasn't keen on her kissing, but she was well up for it

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"What's the 'other man's wife' part of the question? Is it actually his decision? Surely the woman decides?"

I'd be for it .my wife mentioned she don't think she could kiss though but literally do everything and anything else

haha

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By *luemanblueMan
over a year ago

Livingston

Absolutely

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I respect the couples boundaries, and hope they would respect mine. But have to admit, kissing another mans wife, especially in front of her husband is a huge turn on for me.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"I would not have sex with anyone I couldn't kiss."

Same here. Kissing is needed just to build up foreplay etc.

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By *xxLandNxxxCouple
over a year ago

Nuneaton

Kissing isn’t an issue for us, but find it off putting when people want intimacy, we get get that from each other. Prefer it to be about sex and enjoying the naughtiness of it rather than trying to feel emotionally connected to another person.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

It happened to me once. The couple was initiating the meetings with single males (I was their first one) and they said to me to be only a voyeur (I could touch her, but no kissing at all).

In the middle of the session, she decide to suck me while the husband was fucking her from behind (but still no kissing).

In the end of the session he asked to me to fuck her very quickly just to cum in her back.

It was a bit strange because he asked me explicitly to fuck only for few minutes…

I don’t know if I want to have a similar experience again to be honest…

I really appreciate kissing. I prefer to be 100% voyeur instead of fucking with limitations like no kissing/minutes to fuck

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By *ue and robCouple
over a year ago

ware

We keep kisses to ourselves it's the 1 thing that's totally ours

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

"No man has ever shown the slightest reservation in fucking me because I wouldn't kiss them. For me sex is fun, kissing is for romance. Why would I want to get romantic with someone I'd just met?"

Exactly this

Also never been turned down

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Because I respect boundaries and when joining a couple we all work on pre agreed boundaries of course I would and do.

I find kidding very sensual and intimate and know that it is for the latter reason that many couples reserve that for themselves.

It's still a nice fuck.....

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By *orkcoastguyMan
over a year ago

Bridlington.

Whoops: typo. For 'kidding' read 'kissing', though you guessed anyway......

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By *harAndBryCouple
over a year ago

Peterborough / Stamford

My *thing* is watching Char with other people and I love seeing her kissing...I think I'd miss it if it wasn't there. Char is a big kisser and sex isn't the same for her without it.

(Bry)

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By *rHotNottsMan
over a year ago

Dubai & Nottingham

No interest in meeting or fucking anyone who doesn’t kiss

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By *m3232Man
over a year ago

maidenhead

I love kissing but would respect their rules and boundaries.

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By *outhwesthornMan
over a year ago

hallen

I love kissing would have to kiss first or that would be it

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By *ed LipstickWoman
over a year ago

Fucksville

No I couldn't meet anyone without kissing. I've turned down a couple I wasn't allowed to kiss the man, only the female.

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By *ascal1475Man
over a year ago

york

It wouldn’t be a deal breaker but kissing is a very important part of the build up for me.

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By *rMrsBrightsideCouple
over a year ago

Newcastle

I love the kissing part, it adds to it all for me. We have had a couple of meets with no kissing and it definitely lacked something for me.

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By (user no longer on site) OP
over a year ago

"Kissing isn’t an issue for us, but find it off putting when people want intimacy, we get get that from each other. Prefer it to be about sex and enjoying the naughtiness of it rather than trying to feel emotionally connected to another person."

This right here

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By *sedpussylickerMan
over a year ago

Leicester

I’ve found out I struggle to get aroused without any kissing

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By *eeds fun guyMan
over a year ago

yorkshire

"I love the kissing part, it adds to it all for me. We have had a couple of meets with no kissing and it definitely lacked something for me.

Kx"

Me too lips, neck, boobs, tummy button, then …..

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

If I’ve been invited as a dom or special guest for a couple I can do it without kissing - but it’s better with it !!

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By *iltsTSgirlTV/TS
over a year ago

Chichester

Had a few quick fuck only plays in clubs with women and no kissing. Didn’t bother me to much was quite nice to bang away for 10min pretend I cum in condom snd then went back to bar for abit and off to play with someone else

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By *otMancCoupleCouple
over a year ago

Manchester

"No man has ever shown the slightest reservation in fucking me because I wouldn't kiss them. For me sex is fun, kissing is for romance. Why would I want to get romantic with someone I'd just met?"

We agree with this 100%

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By *ull English with teaMan
over a year ago

London

On the lips or cheek?

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

Yes but it would be purely lust without kissing

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By *otandhardcouple2Couple
over a year ago

stockton

Interesting discussion with fair responses to both outlooks

For ourselves, we have a no kissing boundry, this was decided by the Mrs, without any pressure from me in any way whatsoever,

She says that kissing is " just for us" the LOVE of our relationship......sex with another guy is precisely that = sex, without the love .

We respect everyone,s boundries and so far have had that respect given to us, and its never spoilt anyone enjoying the lust/ excitement of involving another guy in our swinging sex life.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I always request a kiss on the cheek from both partners in the couple prior to penetration.

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By *omRachCouple
over a year ago

Wirral

Kissing is an integral part of foreplay and paves the way for what is to follow.

For me its a must!

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By *ittenAndTheFoxCouple
over a year ago

plymouth

"What's the 'other man's wife' part of the question? Is it actually his decision? Surely the woman decides?"

This is normally something that a couple decides together. Everyone has their own dynamic and if someone can’t respect that that don’t join quite simple. For us we enjoy kissing as much as fucking but would be happy to go with what ever boundaries are in place if we liked someone xx (MrFox)

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

we would not meet anyone not into kissing thats our choice but respect what other's choices are ...

when we first stated we were a no kissing couple but for us it just did not feel right

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By *ongandthickMan
over a year ago

exmouth

I love kissing but it has to be by mutual consent so allways ask beforehand especially with couples as maybe not to husbands liking to see his partner kissing someone else.

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By *ohnandJulieCouple
over a year ago

"Honest answers only . Like really you would miss out on sex for not getting a kiss.?"

Does your wife kiss other men when she fucks them?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Need to kiss tbf

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By *ucka39Man
over a year ago

Newcastle

It's more about attraction and chemistry then anything else for me

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By *antricSeeker60Man
over a year ago

Durham

Sex without kissing isn’t for me much prefer a fab snog to an empty shag.

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By *oeBiggs321Man
over a year ago

Reading

I’ve done it many times without kissing, it does have a different feel but if that’s the couples choice that it’s off limits that’s up to them, you can still have a lot of fun

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Would maybe find it a bit strange but don’t think it would put me off!

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By *ocoTemptationMan
over a year ago

london

In a club I could possibly work around it but for a private meet it would feel too much like fun with a hand tied to my back.

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By *lex.and.SexCouple
over a year ago

Bedale

We had a meet recently with a couple that didnt kiss. Cant deny, as we said to them, that it does make things a little more challenging but only a little.

It means that practically for a lot of men you really do have to start out with your own partner for a fair while because certainly for me I wont get the flag past half mast without some kissing; but thats pretty much the only limitation. Other than resisting the instinct to kiss in certain situations.

Its hard not to lean in for one when shes just coming up for air after an amazing blowjob, but with self control its perfectly achievable.

We'd have missed out on an amazing session if we hadnt worked around the limitations, no regrets at all :D

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

What about licking them? Does that count?

Like, fine, no kissing, but can I lick their face? Or their eyes? Or inside their mouth?

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