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"lol - always the case, those close up pics sort of hide quite a bit mind you someone can have a stonking body and face like a bag of bullets.. it does sound a tad shallow but at the end of the day everyones got to like each other - though have to say, personality does count a lot in this business. Some people are so hung uo on looks (their own) that they dont appreciate the multitude of sexual discovery " Have to agree that personality is important too, and that we would all have to get on in a group. | |||
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"Hey Everyone, Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!" And yet there's no pics of the male half on your profile.. lol | |||
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"lol - always the case, those close up pics sort of hide quite a bit mind you someone can have a stonking body and face like a bag of bullets.. it does sound a tad shallow but at the end of the day everyones got to like each other - though have to say, personality does count a lot in this business. Some people are so hung uo on looks (their own) that they dont appreciate the multitude of sexual discovery " Of course personality counts but if there's not that instant attraction you never get that far to find out! | |||
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" And yet there's no pics of the male half on your profile.. lol" hahahahah | |||
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"Hey Everyone, Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!! And yet there's no pics of the male half on your profile.. lol" that's correct, but my point is when you do get to see it!! I'll PM you one if you like | |||
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"Know that feeling well, saw a profile once, a couple from Rochester, some amazing public pictures of her, but then... " Lol | |||
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" Of course personality counts but if there's not that instant attraction you never get that far to find out! " yep, women have so many different tastes in guys, its really luck of the draw though. For me a great shag is always better than a naff/prissy goddess. Im sure they are about though | |||
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"And yet there's no pics of the male half on your profile.. lol that's correct, but my point is when you do get to see it!! I'll PM you one if you like " No need... Just thinking of the irony of the post saying that when there's no pics of the male on the profile, he always "looks like shrek" when a pic is sent. | |||
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"Hey Everyone, Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!" I'd say we fall into that category, which is why we post pics of me on our profile. That way people can make up their minds before contacting us,rather than asking us for a pic and then us getting the knock back when we've sent one. That must be a real downer! R XX | |||
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"Hey Everyone, Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!" ............. any irony in that fact that all your pictures in the public gallery contain pics on the female but not the male... just sayin'???? you could almost be accused of the same thing that you are complaining about... using the woman to lure in the couples..... just the whiff of irony..... | |||
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"Thats why we always have photo's of us both together and insist on the same ..... all that crap "hubby is shy, dont like his photo taken" is utter rubbish." XXXX | |||
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"i have to say there are some fit looking women on here with ugly looking hubbys. " | |||
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"i have to say there are some fit looking women on here with ugly looking hubbys. " | |||
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"we can only pull mingers so it doesn't bother us" This is funny! | |||
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"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit" like i said dont judge uless a wanna be judged | |||
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"i have to say there are some fit looking women on here with ugly looking hubbys. " i agree!! | |||
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"In our experience, the hubby is usually in pretty good nick, in the couples we've met. Kate's had more good looking blokes than I've had good looking wives. May be should start an opposite thread " Id vote for a recount if the opposite is found | |||
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"we can only pull mingers so it doesn't bother us" You calling us mingers lol | |||
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"we can only pull mingers so it doesn't bother us You calling us mingers lol" oi, don't tell everybody you've shagged us | |||
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"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit" I can see part of her face, and it looks pretty good to me. | |||
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"As a more 'mature' couple, interest in the bandying about of the word 'attraction' in all of this. Had this conversation with our meet on Saturday, and have had similar with others going back ages. For us, it's NOT about attraction - but it IS about a CONNECTION. Maybe we are the kind of people who find what is going on in someones naughty little mind is every bit as appealing (nearly said attractive then! Lol!) as how they look...? Just find it interesting, the comparison of words we all use to describe how we decide if another person or couple is someone we'd like to play with... As for the photos of the guy being a let down, we do show one of me (in our public gallery in the midst of coitus - headless admittedly, but it IS me...) and have no worries about doing so. I've come across very few couples in the whole of my life who I could say that both of them are equally as 'attractive'. Pork" in my experience, there has to be some sort of attraction before there can ever be a connection...however going back to the original post, unfortunately there are far too many 'couples' profiles on here that are nothing of the sort, so if 'he' or 'she' cannot provide a face pic then i would steer well clear... | |||
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"I'm an ugly looking hubby, and have a body shot on profile to prove it lol, but guess what I dont care!!, dont like me then walk away lol " | |||
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"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit I can see part of her face, and it looks pretty good to me." Good for you | |||
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"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit" who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do | |||
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"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? " Loads do. You've not been looking hard enough! We wouldn't though ... | |||
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"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? Loads do. You've not been looking hard enough! We wouldn't though ... " i know loads do but people sniping at someone for not have face pics displayed is - pointless | |||
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"OP you're amusing. Neither you or your partner have face pic. She might have a nice body but a face like Shrek as you put it. Horses for courses and all that shit who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do " I'd rather someone saw my face than my genitals quite frankly! | |||
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"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? Loads do. You've not been looking hard enough! We wouldn't though ... i know loads do but people sniping at someone for not have face pics displayed is - pointless" Always find it ironic that the profiles which insist on face pics with first message, don't even offer them in return... and we pass them by..... | |||
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"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do " Me. I have nothing to hide. | |||
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"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? Loads do. You've not been looking hard enough! We wouldn't though ... i know loads do but people sniping at someone for not have face pics displayed is - pointless" It's not the lack of face pics, more so any pics of most hubby's | |||
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"Our face Pics are not in our public gallery, but we do have them in private and send them on request, think the OP was referring to face pics being sent privately and not the ones on display, I could be wrong " No you're right that is what I meant and said x | |||
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"We do somtimes suffer from the same problem as the OP, at least mr T is easy on the eye x" Again it's subjective. Obviously he's going to be easy on your eye right? | |||
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"We do somtimes suffer from the same problem as the OP, at least mr T is easy on the eye x" Your pictures are some of the best i have seen, cant see your hubby though. | |||
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"Our face Pics are not in our public gallery, but we do have them in private and send them on request, think the OP was referring to face pics being sent privately and not the ones on display, I could be wrong No you're right that is what I meant and said x" Out of interest OP, by the term 'Shrek' do you mean not good looking or the size of a house - or a combination of both??? I am, of course, assuming you don't mean green too....... | |||
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"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do Me. I have nothing to hide. " XXXX | |||
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"I think that in all but one case, there were no pics of the guy on their profile and it was often like getting blood out of the proverbial stone to get them provide one.... " I totally understand why people would not have public pics on their profiles, but why don't they have some private to send out? Surely it's better to have everyone happy with the meet than turn upn and be told 'sorry, you're not our type'? | |||
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"I think that in all but one case, there were no pics of the guy on their profile and it was often like getting blood out of the proverbial stone to get them provide one.... I totally understand why people would not have public pics on their profiles, but why don't they have some private to send out? Surely it's better to have everyone happy with the meet than turn upn and be told 'sorry, you're not our type'?" Eaxctly - I'd more time and a lot more respect for people if they were upfront and honest about themselves. Okay, it may turn out that they are not for us, and vice versa, but purely from our own point of view, we would sooner know earlier that someone doesn't like the look of us and just move on, rather than try to hide the fact and come over as desperate to get a meet at any cost, which may well turn bad as a result. | |||
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"This is us ....... sooner you see what we look like BEFORE we stick our cocks/fannies and arses for the whole world to see " | |||
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"Hey Everyone, Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!" you look stunning! How do we know ur fella dont look like shrek ha we have same problem,a lot of really good looking young/mid and older woman,but their fella's let them down ha were not gods gift but we havnt fallen from the ugly tree either | |||
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"I need to get myself a hot girlfriend so I can fall into this category " we could always do it the other way round you can be the hot one with loads of pics and i'll be shrek | |||
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"Hey Everyone, Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!!" Seems remarkably audacious for a couple with no face pics or pics of the male. | |||
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" I get messages from guys who class themselves as good looking and I often think yak, who told you that but their veris invariably describe them as hot, sexy, etc. I describe myself as attractive but I'm sure there are plenty of people who would think differently. It would be very boring if we all liked the same type of people. One girls Shrek is another girls Jason Statham!" So true. It can be difficult to find couples where we like them both. Whether that is attraction or personality or whatever. Just one of those things. | |||
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"Hey Everyone, Just wondered if anyone else has this problem? We are looking to only meet couples! You read a profile and think great, they're pretty much the same as us you then look at the pic's and there are loads of the Women looking really hot but none of the Man. You ask if there are any pics of both, and when you get sent them he looks like Shrek!!! Lol . We know its not all about looks but there does need to be an attraction!! Seems remarkably audacious for a couple with no face pics or pics of the male." Seems audacious to comment when you've not read properly what was written!!! At no point did I say about not have face pics or pics of Male on profile!!! Quote " you ask if there are any pics of both and then you get sent" !!! | |||
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"If we're interested in someone, we make sure they get to see clear body and face pics of both us very early on, without us waiting to be asked. Our experience is that if we have to ask for their pics it means either we're not going to get them, or we're not going to be interested when we do. So we never ask " Just make sure you have a bag handy for the meet if you don't get a picture. | |||
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"If we're interested in someone, we make sure they get to see clear body and face pics of both us very early on, without us waiting to be asked. Our experience is that if we have to ask for their pics it means either we're not going to get them, or we're not going to be interested when we do. So we never ask Just make sure you have a bag handy for the meet if you don't get a picture. " No pics, no meet. My point was that we expect people to volunteer their pics rather than have to be asked | |||
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"who has the insanity to put their face pic up on public? not be seeing one of those shots from me for definite - far too much to lose and never understood why people do Me. I have nothing to hide. " We do, we'd prefer it if members of our family didn't know what we do with our spare time | |||
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"If the lady is with the guy doesn't that mean she finds him attractive?? Is that an insult to say wow your hot but your male partner/bf/hubby is pig ugly We all have different attractions to different ppl,would op not find it insulting if someone said your partner Is ugly no way would I touch that?? " Totally agree | |||
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"If the lady is with the guy doesn't that mean she finds him attractive?? Is that an insult to say wow your hot but your male partner/bf/hubby is pig ugly We all have different attractions to different ppl,would op not find it insulting if someone said your partner Is ugly no way would I touch that?? " I was going to say a similar thing - reading between the lines, usually indicates he's probably a really nice guy and a great lover...... Well thats what I'm counting on people thinking. D | |||
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"We understand the OP's moan to a degree, But we have never been able to understand why the guy can not have a body picture taken and uploaded at the very least. I am pretty sure 99.9% of people would not know David Cameron in a naked picture with the face blurred out !! so never understand the high profile job statement. " Mmmmmm Cameron mmmm | |||
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"how many times you seen a guy with a smoking hot girl on his arm and thought how the fcuk did that happen its a regular thing these days. fairplay to em " Its that beautiful thing that some women desire ..money ! See it all the time at Cap old sugar daddy with girl old enough to be his daughter. Believe it or not you see the old sugar daddy playing with similar young girls,because of who he's with. Shallow but money talks that life ! | |||
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"sometimes I'm glad being single and straight... I dont need to like the hubbys pics hehe " Oh.... I am crushed.... Pork | |||
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"We do somtimes suffer from the same problem as the OP, at least mr T is easy on the eye x Your pictures are some of the best i have seen, cant see your hubby though." Hubby is on some, he's the one with big tattoo on his arm. | |||
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"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes " Well if your handing out a pity fuck........hello | |||
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"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes " Why compromise?, we do it for both of us to have fun. Not a big turn for any couple if they see one of us looking upset and bored | |||
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"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes Why compromise?, we do it for both of us to have fun. Not a big turn for any couple if they see one of us looking upset and bored" Hence the smiley face | |||
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"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes Well if your handing out a pity fuck........hello " Does it still count if it happens again and again | |||
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"The thing that we find hard when looking for couples is a large gap in age between the man and woman. Hard to sort of find a common ground for attractiveness for all involved." Oh I don't know though... got an old head on young shoulders here Wolf | |||
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"how many times you seen a guy with a smoking hot girl on his arm and thought how the fcuk did that happen its a regular thing these days. fairplay to em " yeah walking round town and you see a chav with a right stunner! wtf | |||
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"Don't we all take one for the team sometimes " Well hello there...... | |||
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"how many times you seen a guy with a smoking hot girl on his arm and thought how the fcuk did that happen its a regular thing these days. fairplay to em yeah walking round town and you see a chav with a right stunner! wtf " some stunners like chavs | |||
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"What you might think is ugly...will be someone elses hot! We do often find it difficult to find couples that both of are attracted to and vice versa." Its totally difficult... not surprising tho.... and good fun trying to figure it out! | |||
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"wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ? " They were hot hot hot, and now they're not not not! | |||
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"wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ? " Alot of single straight guys have made these comments,funny no one has said about a lady letting herself go lol The thing about Alot of guys is they will say what the hell is she doing with him because they are jealous that they can't pull a lady like that lol | |||
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" We do, we'd prefer it if members of our family didn't know what we do with our spare time " why are they on fab too | |||
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"wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ? " The women probably have low self esteem, or kids or hubby has got money and is generous with it. | |||
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"wondering are the couples both good looking when they meet but the man lets himself go or how the hell do the guys that are now not hot end up with hot women ? The women probably have low self esteem, or kids or hubby has got money and is generous with it." That is a terrible quote,how bout the women is very happy,in love with the guy,fancies him,and sick of people judging her by saying what u doing with him, My god heard it all in this thread,such judgemental people on it | |||
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