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By *ichelinstar1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough & North West

I have been chatting to a couple for the past few weeks. We’ve had a social meet and there are some further plans in place for this weekend. I’ve never met a couple before so not really sure how it will go . Anyone care to share some advice?

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just follow their rules but don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with either. Remember that they have thousands of guys to choose from so feel privileged but don’t let them take the piss

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By *illbe9999Man
over a year ago

Holmfirth

Establish boundaries for everyone involved.

Ask about participation and relax

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Before we met rules and red lines were set. Just let things flow when we did meet and everything was ok.

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By *ichelinstar1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough & North West

Rules and boundaries have been extensively discussed. But I’m hoping to go with the flow and not get ‘stage fright’.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

I loved my first couple meet. She opened the door and took me upstairs. We were both quite nervous but as we kissed we both began to relax. He was at work and I was passed her phone to send him pictures and videos of her enjoying me. Eventually he walked in while I was inside her which he loved and stripped off and joined in. I hoped it would lead to more meets as we all appeared to have fun but after a few more messages I stopped hearing from them though I think she began having second thoughts. Ever since I've been keen to experience couple play again, it was a lot of fun

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By *hisStagsVixenCouple
over a year ago

peterborough

Is it a hotel or home Meet? If they are experienced, they will probably have a bit of a plan anyway to try and make You feel more relaxed about it. For example, we usually meet at hotels in the bar, all 3 of us and then I will go to the room with the guy leaving my husband in the bar for a little while. Gives us chance to get to know each other a little better alone to start before my husband lets himself in the room. He just watches and is so discreet, we’d barely notice he’d joined us. Hope you have a great time

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Always follow their rules but to do so you need to find them out first.

No harm in asking questions. I think it’s appreciated.

Enjoy each other’s company and let the good times roll

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By *oppet22TV/TS
over a year ago

huddersfield

Was the greatest feeling ever sat chatting for a while getting to know each other better teasing as we did then got to the playing was amazing playing with both of them for hrs no rush or pressure on anyone def would do loads more like my 1st mmf meet

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By *ichelinstar1 OP   Man
over a year ago

Peterborough & North West

Photos are something that would require trust. You never know what people do these days what with all the social media craze!

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

They could very well be reading this so I'm sure there'll be understanding

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By *illbe9999Man
over a year ago

Holmfirth


"Rules and boundaries have been extensively discussed. But I’m hoping to go with the flow and not get ‘stage fright’."

The stage fright is most likely to come with alcohol.

Performance is seriously impaired so bring a bottle but don't be tempted into drinking any.

They've invited you to perform and perform you must.

Chilled carbonated water is a good substitute for beer.

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By *rad670Man
over a year ago

South Lakes

My first couple meet and all other subsequent meets I spent time discussing expectations and rules/ boundaries but the couple were so chilled and understanding of my nerves they really did make me feel at ease even before the meet. I like the couple to let me know exactly what they forsee my role will be, I see it as being the extra you need to fit in with their scenario.

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By *ik69Man
over a year ago

Sheffield


"Just follow their rules but don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with either. Remember that they have thousands of guys to choose from so feel privileged but don’t let them take the piss"

I like ur comment

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By *ik69Man
over a year ago

Sheffield

Every couple is different from another you should ask if they have rules and if u got any u should tell them what is ur rules. Enjoy ur time

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By *nob and KnockersCouple
over a year ago

Ashford

Relax and go with the flow, you know the boundaries not to cross. Obviously turn up smart and fresh.

Enjoy it most importantly x

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By *23RouteCouple
over a year ago

Huddersfield

If it was us , there’s a couple of no’s , but read our verifications as to how they go !!!!! Couples are on here for something !

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By *inkyDuo XXXCouple
over a year ago

somewhere near you

I think understanding boundaries is important on both sides. If all three of you get on and have click, that can go along way. Just try and relax and be yourself.

A x

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By *tead88Man
over a year ago

nine elms

So much this. You’ll have a great time but respect boundaries, including yours.
"Just follow their rules but don’t do anything you’re not comfortable with either. Remember that they have thousands of guys to choose from so feel privileged but don’t let them take the piss"

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Just go and be yourself without any pressure have a chat and get comfortable with both of them then have the time of your life and push your boundaries it's great fun especially when you all click just remember it's not all about Mrs her hubby is just as important

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