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Who Introduced You To Swinging?

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By *onderTouch OP   Man
over a year ago

Billericay

Who pointed you in this direction?

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By *c_FingersMan
over a year ago

Stoke On Trent

Google and a lady friend who partnered me in a few meets.

Intro was hard work tbh but got better as time went on.

Feel like I’m introducing myself again now as a lone male. It’s a big battle to gain trust just because a large male minority arnt genuine, honest or trustworthy.

With that said. I’m Wayne. I’ll introduce myself again.??

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By *ouple4PlayXCouple
over a year ago

Essex

Google and curiosity

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By *issyfaggotfayeTV/TS
over a year ago

Bolton

The guy who first used me decided to introduce his "friend" one time he made me meet him, that was when I got introduced to swinging.

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By *lik and PaulCouple
over a year ago

cahoots

A couple who I knew invited me to a "party" back in 1989 and that was it...I was hooked. Paul.

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By *ifi-01Woman
over a year ago

north west

Someone I met on a dating site, we spent a couple of years having great fun together

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By *etwifeandhim69Couple
over a year ago

Darlington

I could say we introduced ourselves to it but the reality is my wife was the one who initiated it originally.

She's big on the cuckqean kink (though we didn't know what it was called back then) and really wanted to experiment with another woman at some point. So she took it upon herself arranged a date with a freind of hers for me when she saw an opportunity . This being 25 years ago mind you. That was a hell of a night...

Not long after that I encouraged her to do whatever she wanted and it was to meet another bi woman.

Rest is history.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Shortly after I'd moved in I started a casual NSA relationship with my neighbour. One time she confessed her biggest fantasy was 2 guys so we (eventually) joined an adults contacts site. And she got what she wished for... quite a few times!

After that site folded we ended up on here and Fab had been going about 18 months or so at the time.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Reading erotica put it into hubbies head then he suggested it..

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By *rontier PsychiatristMan
over a year ago

Coventry

Probably my Ex wife actually. We never swung together but she'd been to clubs a couple of times with a male freind before we met. Considering she was only 19 (I was 21) when we met she started young you could say. Anyway we talked about going to a club later on in our relationship. We were interested but just never took the plunge. Which as it turned out was for the best. Anyway the seed was planted. She left and I went through a huge phase of deprogramming and discovering myself and my freedom. This gave me the opportunity to discover scene on my own and without her being part of it or the fallout from if we had done it together previously. So although sad to miss out in my 20s and early 30s but it was nice to discover it for myself and not with her. Then I met My Girl through fab and it's nice that I get to share it with her as both of our first times swinging in a relationship. So totally don't regret starting later.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A natural and steady process for Mr, began as casual sex, talking about experiences with friends, just kind of ended up in the moment in a threesome with a friend, and at a later date a threesome with a girlfriend of my own.

Beyond that, talking to with new partners over the years, sharing our experiences, it's often led us down this route.

For the Mrs, in the early months of our relationship, it was after confessing of a previous experience to me then saying she hopes I don't view her differently, this opened the door for me to share some of mine, I told her one story to begin with, and said the same that I hope she doesn't view me differently, her response was ........ Omg that sounds so hot.

So it led us here.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago


"Who pointed you in this direction?"

A friend with benefits, he was telling me how the excitement of a meet wasn't the same in reality. I wanted to know more...

I'm thankful to him as I've met some great people and had fabulous experiences

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By *onderTouch OP   Man
over a year ago

Billericay


"Google and curiosity"

Same here + high sex drive haha

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By *onderTouch OP   Man
over a year ago

Billericay


"A couple who I knew invited me to a "party" back in 1989 and that was it...I was hooked. Paul."

Wow that’s legendary

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By *onderTouch OP   Man
over a year ago

Billericay


"Someone I met on a dating site, we spent a couple of years having great fun together "

Ouuu lala where is the person now?

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By *onderTouch OP   Man
over a year ago

Billericay


"Who pointed you in this direction?

A friend with benefits, he was telling me how the excitement of a meet wasn't the same in reality. I wanted to know more...

I'm thankful to him as I've met some great people and had fabulous experiences

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Amazing

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By *aveyDipperMan
over a year ago

Teesside

What was then the wife, which then led to learning how she couldn’t distinguish between swinging and cheating. Each to their own and lives continue on

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By *ophieslutTV/TS
over a year ago

Central

I'd always been interested. Was excited with another single woman, to visit our 1st swinging club, as soon as we were old enough, where we had loads of attention. Haven’t looked back.

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By *nightsoftheCoffeeTableCouple
over a year ago

Leeds

Google and then a few friends told us they were also here.

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By *izandpaulCouple
over a year ago

merseyside

We visited a nudist beach in Lanzarote.

A club when we got back home, several clubs, then individual meets, parties, swingers holiday resorts and still finding new exciting places to visit and lovely new people.

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

My husband has always been the one to discuss it. I set up this account to see what it would be like and was slightly apprehensive at first. I absolutely love it now and feel like I've awoken something in me that was locked up for a long time (if that makes sense).

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

Work colleague took me home for some ‘lunch’ and on the way asked if it was ok if her hubby watched. At first I thought I might not enjoy it so much but as we got down to some play I said why doesn’t hubby join in! Best lunch break ever!

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By *sexyHCouple
over a year ago

Leicester

I introduced my Mrs

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

First 3some at 16 with a female friend, never looked back

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By *ifi-01Woman
over a year ago

north west


"Someone I met on a dating site, we spent a couple of years having great fun together

Ouuu lala where is the person now?"

He is happily married

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By *rKinksMan
over a year ago

Alton

Craigslist, horny me at uni was browsing for mf meets.

Noticed a few couple on there who were more genuine that the single f. So I thought I'd give it a go.

Met a great couple from their then found fab!

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By *aisy DoeCouple
over a year ago

Beverley

we had an open relationship when we first met by that I mean Daisy was always pulling lads when out with friends and fucking. I found out and loved it and had an open marriage and then discovered swinging and we sites so it was a revelation others enjoyed what we did.

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By *onty2Man
over a year ago

fucking street

Google search

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By (user no longer on site)
over a year ago

A neighbours wife

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