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"Vaseline on his balls " We will try that next time. Thanks | |||
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"Make sure the ring is totally smooth. I have found there is sometimes a very slight edge where the ring had been moulded. I suggest you ultra fine sandpaper and then a nail buffer block to really make it smooth. In my experience they can get uncomfortable, but that is important. He must know he is caged, it is an important psychological component in his submission to your control. Kx" Yes he also had to sand his down. The night time painful erections wake him up multiple times a night, the pleasure of being cage allows him to suffer the pain and broken sleep but long term its wouldn't work. | |||
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"Try using a moisturiser on both his cock and balls. Then take the cage off before his skin starts to get really irritated to give it time to recover making sure to moisturise it every day even when caged. Over time this should allow him to spend longer times caged. I have done Loctober in a Holy Trainer V3 on quite a few occasions. Hope this helps." His birthday is November the 2nd so we plan to do locktober with a birthday release. If we can find a way for him to stay caged that long | |||
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"we were told this from another cuckold couple and it works get a plastic jug put ice cold water in and dip is balls and cock with the cage on in the cold water will make him lose his erection there and then.... " This made me chuckle. I'll make him try it. How practical it will be in the middle of the night I dont know. | |||
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"Make sure the ring is totally smooth. I have found there is sometimes a very slight edge where the ring had been moulded. I suggest you ultra fine sandpaper and then a nail buffer block to really make it smooth. In my experience they can get uncomfortable, but that is important. He must know he is caged, it is an important psychological component in his submission to your control. Kx Yes he also had to sand his down. The night time painful erections wake him up multiple times a night, the pleasure of being cage allows him to suffer the pain and broken sleep but long term its wouldn't work." Yes, very true. Perhaps just try different styles of cage? I find the V4 good, but you are obviously having problems. I imagine with time the night time erections will fade. Kelly x | |||
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"Finding the right cage is crucial. I like 3D Kink’s range has they have many options for cage size and ring combinations. There’s a good active Reditt group on tips for their products. " Thank you. Hubby is going to have a look | |||
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"Get a cage that is a little smaller than his flaccid cock and a lot of the above are also good advice " That certainly works for me. | |||
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"It all depends on him really, I’ve had 4 or 5 previously and each has had their issues. Padlocks that show through clothes, chafing like you mentioned, capped ends which make it harder for bathroom breaks etc etc I was once in chastity for the best part of 4 months and would ‘change’ every so often to suit whatever was comfortable. I could wear the padlock one at home but go for a more discreet one when out and about. Maybe buy some other types of designs if you can and see what’s best for a base ring, or mix and match throughout the day like I did? Unfortunately it can be expensive but it’s worth it when you find what works for you My favourite one in the end was called a cherry keeper, they were 3D printed in the USA" It must be great to see such a large cock restrained Like to know more about this cherry keeper | |||
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